Flying Solo

You may now find yourself single or maybe you have been single for years. You’ve managed a home, raised children and worked 40-plus hours a week in a demanding, often stressful job.

I’ve been single for several years, so cooking for one and maintaining a home were things I had already conquered. Pat yourself on the back if you are single and have done this, as well!

I looked forward to retirement and doing whatever I wanted. But I struggled to find something I enjoyed doing with my “extra” time. But then, I discovered pickleball and my days filled up quickly! I made many new friends and even won several medals in tournaments!

I also started a card group. A friend goes on cruises with me. After downsizing and moving into my condo, a group of us started having happy hour on the beach, going to movies and attending theater performances. I have even served on my condo’s homeowners’ association board of directors.

In 2023, I began working for Generations Magazine, helping my daughter-in-law, Cynthia Arnold. My “extra time” filled up quickly!

So, find those fun activities — and more importantly, people you enjoy being with. Your life will be much more fulfilling doing things that bring you joy!