Category: Living Life

  • Cops, Killers and Corruption in the Aloha State Sunny Skies, Shady Characters

    Cops, Killers and Corruption in the Aloha State Sunny Skies, Shady CharactersIf truth is stranger than fiction, then this book is the strangest you will ever read. James Dooley, a former investigative reporter for The Honolulu Advertiser, KITV 4 News and Hawaii Reporter, details public corruption and criminality in Hawai‘i during the 70’s and 80’s. A lot of Dooley’s sleuthing formed the basis of the original essay called “Broken Trust,” printed in the old Honolulu Star-Bulletin and later published as a book. Dooley’s gripping memoirs of ties among celebrities, Teamsters, politicians and judges weaves a broad web of “how things were done in Hawai‘i.”

    Advertiser readers will remember crime stories about Kukui Plaza, Bishop Estate Trustees and a gangland hit on the son of Honolulu Prosecuting Attorney Charles Marsland, Jr., but Dooley’s editors scrubbed some of his stories, and information, connections and associations he reveals is this memoir might be surprising. As Dooley puts it, “The stories stood on their own, but like stands of bamboo, there was a dense root system underneath that stretched over time and distance, producing new shoots in surprising places.”

    This very well written book will grab your attention. Don’t pick it up until you clear your calendar — it’s a page-turner! Available for $18.99 from UH Press; paperback and Kindle from Amazon.com.

    If truth is stranger than fiction, then this book is the strangest you will ever read. James Dooley, a former investigative reporter for The Honolulu Advertiser, KITV 4 News and Hawaii Reporter, details public corruption and criminality in Hawai‘i during the 70’s and 80’s. A lot of Dooley’s sleuthing formed the basis of the original…

  • Book Review: A Nutritional Approach to Alzheimer’s Disease

    Book Review: A Nutritional Approach to Alzheimer’s DiseaseWhen it comes to Alzheimer’s disease, anything that offers hope gets attention. Dr. Blake analyses the latest scientific information and results from his clinical trials with Alzheimer’s patients at Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience Institute on O‘ahu, and dishes us up a simple diet — berries, green vegetables, nuts and beans — to prevent and slow the progression of Alzheimer’s and related dementia. The subject is rocket science, but his book is easy to understand. Learn how powerful flavonoids in plant foods preserve brains cells and keep them active. See how how antioxidant vitamins protect our brain cells.

    One indicator of Alzheimer’s disease is the presence of amyloid plaques, little fuzz balls that get stuck in the brain and kill off brain cells. He explains ways to reduce these brain plaques, including taking vitamin B12 (little tabs that melt under your tongue, not pills) and eating plenty of green vegetables.

    Clogged brain arteries and tiny strokes cause trouble too. If we eat fewer animal fats, blood flow to our brains will increase. If you need a reason to improve your diet, this is it.

    A Nutritional Approach to Alzheimer’s Disease details 15 easy nutritional changes to help delay memory loss. Softcover book ($25) or PDF download ($9.95) are available at www.drsteve.com. Or by calling Lifelong Press, 808-280-6865.

    When it comes to Alzheimer’s disease, anything that offers hope gets attention. Dr. Blake analyses the latest scientific information and results from his clinical trials with Alzheimer’s patients at Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience Institute on O‘ahu, and dishes us up a simple diet — berries, green vegetables, nuts and beans — to prevent and slow the…

  • Leeward Y Offers Something for Every Senior

    Leeward Y Offers Something for Every Senior
    Are you a social butterfly, chess master, water aerobics nut or work-out queen? Health and fun await everyone at the Leeward Y!

    Laughter, potluck snacks, and fresh coffee are the mid-morning, sounds, sights and smells at the YMCA of Honolulu’s Leeward Y Branch, in the heart of Waipahu. Comfortable chairs and tables in the brightly lit community lounge host yummy potlucks, spirited board games, craft activities and friendly socializing. This “reward” time follows senior health and fitness programs, carefully designed for every age and ability. What’s popular? Aerobics in the heated pool are easy on the joints. Zumba Gold and tai chi maintain cardio health and balance. Ai-chi is the best of both worlds — tai chi class in our heated pool!

    Leeward Y Offers Something for Every SeniorSeniors also love our newest classes — MOSSA Group Power™ and Enhanced Fitness.™ These fun, high-energy group exercise classes provide a very efficient workout at every pace and level. Motivated by great music, up-beat instructors and positive physical results, seniors excel in these classes.

    Leeward Y Offers Something for Every SeniorFor those suffering from arthritis, evidencebased Enhanced Fitness is designed to help reduce painful symptoms. Seniors see improved strength, mobility and agility — all while having fun and making new friends. One senior’s physical therapist asked what she was doing. He was amazed at how much flexibility she gained in her spine!

    The Y offers special senior membership rates and financial assistance based on income. Some Medicare plans offer a free Y membership as a benefit. All new memberships include a complete orientation and one free personal guided workout with a trainer. Call for more information.

    Leeward Y Offers Something for Every Senior

     


    YMCA OF HONOLULU, LEEWARD BRANCH
    94-440 Mokuola St., Waipahu, HI 96797
    808-671-6495 | info@ymcahonolulu.org
    www.ymcahonolulu.org

    Laughter, potluck snacks, and fresh coffee are the mid-morning, sounds, sights and smells at the YMCA of Honolulu’s Leeward Y Branch, in the heart of Waipahu. Comfortable chairs and tables in the brightly lit community lounge host yummy potlucks, spirited board games, craft activities and friendly socializing. This “reward” time follows senior health and fitness…

  • A Happy Day in the Park

    As my friend and I searched for interesting activities near the blue jungle gym in Ala Moana Beach Park, we spotted a group of women making dance formations and speaking Chinese. Upon closer investigation, we discovered a happy, healthy dance group.

    Judy Wu coordinates and teaches a healthy, happy dance class that meets every week at the Hawaii Chinese Culture & Education Center. When the center is closed, they dance in the park.
    Judy Wu coordinates and teaches a healthy, happy dance class that meets every week at the Hawaii Chinese Culture & Education Center. When the center is closed, they dance in the park.

    Judy Wu, dance class coordinator, along with thirty women and her husband, were gathered in the park for a three-hour-long senior dance class on the grass. The group meets every week at the Hawaii Chinese Culture & Education Center, but the senior center was closed for a state holiday. The focus of this free dance group is exercising and celebrating good health and happiness.

    Judy Wu is the teacher and choreographer for the group. She writes the articles, takes pictures, and says that the class is like a full-time job that she enjoys. Her husband, Steve Wu, is her biggest supporter. He quietly stood on the side, watching his wife teach the other dancers.

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    Judy says, “When we come to the park and dance together, it is as if we are bringing ourselves back to our childhood. The beach park is our stage; there is no pressure because we are doing this for our happiness and health. It is not for show.” Judy gives her students her patience and her heart. The dancers kindly shuffled between being interviewed and dancing.

    Her dancers smile and get in their formations as she runs back to the table to play the next song. They use their hands to make movements, and later in the performance they use Chinese fans. The colorful fans move together gracefully and the group dances as one.

    A regular participant, Kil Dong Koh, joined the dance group because it benefits her physical health. She said, “I have diabetes, so I have to exercise. Dance brings my sugar level down and keeps me slimmer. Ever since I began exercising, my leg cramps have gone away. I also love that this class is free.”

    Judy explained that exercise releases the endorphins that make people happy. She doesn’t advertise, but membership has grown from two to thirty-two a year and a half. “This dance class has become a healthy cycle. I believe that whatever you give is what you will get. I have given these students happiness,” Judy smiled and immediately was off to plan the next dance routine. What a wonderful, happy day in the park!

    As my friend and I searched for interesting activities near the blue jungle gym in Ala Moana Beach Park, we spotted a group of women making dance formations and speaking Chinese. Upon closer investigation, we discovered a happy, healthy dance group. Judy Wu, dance class coordinator, along with thirty women and her husband, were gathered…

  • Lifelong Learning, What’s Stopping You?

    Lifelong Learning, What’s Stopping You?Senior citizens can attend classes on University of Hawaii Manoa campus through the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute. For 10 years OLLI has been offering non-credit, college-level courses and other activities to encourage older individuals to engage their minds, enrich their lives, and serve the community. While the institute primarily serves mature learners aged 50+, the only true requirements for participation are maturity, life experience, and a desire to learn.

    OLLI currently serves nearly one thousand senior learners in their membership program. The fee is $60 per year, which entitles the learner to participate in three college level courses or community projects. Professors and project leaders are all volunteers and subjects center around social sciences: art, science, history and community service.

    OLLI is now enrolling for the spring semester online at: www.osher.socialsciences.hawaii.edu/ or at their office on Manoa campus Krauss Hall, Room 113. The courses are very popular, and there is often a waiting list, so apply early. For further information, call Rebecca Goodman at 808-956-8224.

    Ellen Yasuda, a 79-year-old resident of Waikiki will be signing up online for classes at University of Hawaii Manoa campus
    Ellen Yasuda, a 79-year-old resident of Waikiki will be signing up online for classes at University of Hawaii Manoa campus

    Ellen Yasuda, a 79-year-old resident of The Plaza at Waikiki, shares her UH experience. She retired at age 61 as a claims examiner for Hawaii Medical Service Association. A world traveler, Yasuda has toured most parts of Europe, South America, Japan and China. Ellen has enjoyed taking a variety of classes at UH, such as history of world civilizations, Japanese history, art history, and language courses.

    UH also offers non-credit college courses for a small fee, at the UHM Outreach College website, www.outreach.hawaii.edu/. Seniors and learners of any any age may enroll now for spring semester standard college-level courses. For outreach students, UH issues no college credits and keeps no transcripts. Is there something you always wanted to learn? What’s stopping you?

     

     


    Rebecca Goodman, Osher Lifelong Learning Institute
    (808) 956-8224 | rgoodman@hawaii.edu
    Dr. Patrica Masters, UHM Outreach College
    (808) 956-9317 | pmasters@hawaii.edu

    Senior citizens can attend classes on University of Hawaii Manoa campus through the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute. For 10 years OLLI has been offering non-credit, college-level courses and other activities to encourage older individuals to engage their minds, enrich their lives, and serve the community. While the institute primarily serves mature learners aged 50+, the…

  • A Leeward Legacy

    A Leeward LegacyRosemarie Dungca has been working for the City and County of Honolulu since 1978. In 1983, Whitmore Village asked her to teach hula classes. Her popularity grew and soon was teaching throughout the Leeward area.

    Now seniors from the Mililani, Wahiawa, Pearl City and North Shore areas may learn how to dance hula and play the ‘ukulele. These talented men and women provide community service, which includes entertaining the elderly at care homes, centers, hospitals, shopping centers, as well as public and private events.

    A Leeward Legacy
    Na Leo Nahenahe o Na Ku puna performs a repertoire of multi-cultural hula renditions. The nonprofit promotes longevity through dance, music and exercise.

    Na Leo Nahenahe o Na Kupuna is a nonprofit organization that promotes longevity and encourages members to function as long as they can through dance, music and exercise. Weekly classes are held for beginner, intermediate and advanced levels. Their performances are very entertaining, with costumes as versatile as their songs and repertoire of ethnic hula, with Filipino, Japanese and Chinese renditions. I was very impressed when I watched them dance at the Helemanu Plantation wellness fair. With the holidays in full swing, watch for their performances!


    NA LEO NAHENAHE O NA KUPUNA
    808-625-2849, Pauline Kamisato

    Rosemarie Dungca has been working for the City and County of Honolulu since 1978. In 1983, Whitmore Village asked her to teach hula classes. Her popularity grew and soon was teaching throughout the Leeward area. Now seniors from the Mililani, Wahiawa, Pearl City and North Shore areas may learn how to dance hula and play…

  • Who Was That Mermaid?

    Mermaids perform throughout Hawai‘i.
    Mermaids perform throughout Hawai‘i.

    Synchronized swimming is alive and beautifully executed by Mermaids Hawai‘i, home-pooled at Windward YMCA in Kailua. Since 1971, they have been “teaching and performing water ballet for fascinated crowds.” It’s not a paid act — just teacher Alice Robert’s vision to “dance” in the pool like her Hollywood idol, the great Esther Williams, and to pass on the sport to future generations.

    The Mermaids are waiting for her favorite singer/songwriter, Kumu Hula Keali‘i Reichel, to show up at one of their free shows.

    Mermaid Janet 70, Mermaid Elyana, 5.
    Mermaid Janet 70, Mermaid Elyana, 5.

    “We swim to some of his songs,” says Alice, “while our hula dancers accompany us, poolside. I think he’d enjoy seeing us swim to his music— it’s perfect for synchronized swimming.”

    The Mermaids are every age, from five to 86. They have a lot of swimmers, but need “land volunteers” to help with performance logistics: making and laundering costumes, running the sound system, taking pictures, setting up and breaking down. It’s fun! To be a mervolunteer, call Alice.

    The Mermaids are rehearsing for a free Oct. 25 Halloween Show at Windward YMCA, in Kailua. Call 808-864-8122 for details.


    Mermaids Hawai‘i
    Artistic Director Alice P.S. Roberts
    808-864-8122

    Synchronized swimming is alive and beautifully executed by Mermaids Hawai‘i, home-pooled at Windward YMCA in Kailua. Since 1971, they have been “teaching and performing water ballet for fascinated crowds.” It’s not a paid act — just teacher Alice Robert’s vision to “dance” in the pool like her Hollywood idol, the great Esther Williams, and to…

  • Hawai’i CARE Act Coalition

    Caregiving became a full-time responsibility for Lahaina resident Montella Lopez in her mother’s final years. In the six times her mother was discharged from the hospital, Lopez said she received little or no instruction on how to care for her mother at home.

    As Hawai‘i’s population ages and the number of people with chronic conditions increases, pressures on unpaid caregivers mount. Thousands of Hawai‘i caregivers like Lopez are providing complex care for which they are unprepared— such as medication management and wound care.

    In response to this urgent need, a group of advocates and elder-support agencies are calling on state lawmakers to approve legislation requiring Hawai‘i’s hospitals to offer family caregiver instruction—at the time of discharge. The Hawai‘I CARE Act Coalition wants all hospitals to recognize and support the critical role of family caregivers to ensure safe hospital-to-home transitions.

    This summer, a Legislative Family Caregivers Working Group has held monthly meetings to assess the role of family caregivers in hospital discharge procedures. Working Group members are reviewing proposed CARE Act legislation that features three commonsense provisions:

    Allows patients to designate a family caregiver, and put that person’s name in the hospital record.

    Notifies the family caregiver prior to the patient’s discharge from the hospital.

    Requires hospitals to offer caregiver instruction— at discharge — for medical tasks they need to provide for the patient at home.

    Hospitals opposing the proposed legislation say they already follow federally established guidelines for patient discharge. Advocates emphasize that guidelines only require discharge instruction for patients—not family caregivers who may be required to carry out those instructions.

    New research on family caregivers in Hawai‘I has created greater urgency for legislative action in support of an estimated 154,000 relatives, partners, friends and neighbors who assist older loved ones at home. According to the AARP Public Policy Institute report, family caregivers statewide provided unpaid care worth $2.1 billion in 2013.

    In the past two years 17 other state legislatures passed bills providing for greater involvement and instruction of caregivers at the time of hospital discharge. Hawai’i seems to be falling behind.

    It’s time to support our family caregivers who make it possible for their parents and grandparents to live more independently and remain in their homes and communities. Given our rapidly aging population and prohibitive cost of paid eldercare in the islands, Hawai‘i should be leading the way in support for caregivers — not falling behind.

    Residents are urged to support the CARE Act in Hawai‘i by signing an online petition at action. www.tinyurl.com/AARPISupportCAREAct.


    AARP Hawai‘i state office:
    808-545-6006 | Toll-Free: 866-295-7282
    www.aarp.org/hi | facebook.com/AARPHawaii
    twitter.com/AARPHawaii

    Caregiving became a full-time responsibility for Lahaina resident Montella Lopez in her mother’s final years. In the six times her mother was discharged from the hospital, Lopez said she received little or no instruction on how to care for her mother at home. As Hawai‘i’s population ages and the number of people with chronic conditions…

  • Women of Na Koa

    Women of Na KoaThe 2015 season for the Na Koa Football Club started on Aug. 31 and will continue every Monday for 11 more lunches at the Willows Restaurant, starting at 11am. This season, the University of Hawai‘i Rainbow Warriors will play 12 straight games without a week off. There is no bye for Na Koa boosters either. Coach Norm Chow kicked off their first lunch meeting to a round of applause as he announced, “This is the best football team in the three years I have been at UH.” He beamed as he talked about his players’ and coaches’ stats, noting his admiration for each one.

    Coach Norm Chow speaks at the first luncheon of the season.
    Coach Norm Chow speaks at the first luncheon of the season.

    I noticed that women made up one-third of the audience; some with their husbands, but many alone or with a girlfriend. All listened intently to Coach, tracking every question and answer. One woman told Coach that although the stands may not always be filled, Na Koa boosters, UH fans and alums continue to support him, his staff and players. Coach thanked her and said he would take that message back to his staff and players. I caught him after lunch and asked, “Why do you think one-third of today’s meeting were women?” He grinned, “Women enjoy football!”

    After lunch, I met Dana Chandler, the ultimate Rainbow Warrior booster — with season tickets for every UH sport. She’s a Cal Poly graduate, who calls Hawai‘i her home now for 35 years. She joined Na Koa to help our student athletes. Bea Shimamoto is a UH alumna who loves football and men/women’s volleyball. She can’t make all the Na Koa lunches because she attends every away game and stays to vacation. Bea broke into a big smile when I mentioned the November UNLV game. She’ll be there. Maybe you will, too!

    Kim Fujiuchi, Executive Director, front far left and women of Na Koa Football Club
    Kim Fujiuchi, Executive Director, front far left and women of Na Koa Football Club

    Both women see the educational aspect of football, preparing young men for leadership, career and raising a family. They relate to Coach Chow because of his positive attitude, family-oriented coaching method and teaching skills. He is a great spokesperson for UH because he deeply appreciates his staff, his players and their families. In return, Coach Chow and his program enjoy the enthusiastic support of 550 members of Na Koa Football Club. As he says,

     

    “For over 25 years, Na Koa is a large part of the UH Football tradition; their support is critical to the program’s continued success, both on and off the field of play.”


    Na Koa Football Club
    Joyce Lau, Membership & Events Manager
    808-956-4513 | joyce@nakoa.org
    www.nakoa.org

    The 2015 season for the Na Koa Football Club started on Aug. 31 and will continue every Monday for 11 more lunches at the Willows Restaurant, starting at 11am. This season, the University of Hawai‘i Rainbow Warriors will play 12 straight games without a week off. There is no bye for Na Koa boosters either.…

  • Japanese Floral Art: 35 Years in Hawai’i

    Japanese Floral Art: 35 Years in Hawai’iThirty-five years ago Japanese families in Hawai‘i saw the anthurium’s shiny hearts, bird of paradise’s crane neck, black berry ears of the “Mickey Mouse” plant and the mass of areca palms, fluttering in the wind. Inspired by the flowers and foliage of their new homeland, these immigrants imported Ikenobo — the soul of ikebana (the art of Japanese flower arrangement) that brought such a profound sense of peace and harmony into their western lives.

    The practice of Ikenobo began over 550 years ago in Japan’s Muromachi period (1333–1568) with Ikenobo Senkei and Ikenobo Senno (headmasters at that time). Hawai‘i’s ikebana only began in 1925. After leaving Japan, Rev. Hakuai Oda and his wife, Kako Oda, began spreading the joy of ikebana from Pappa‘aloa Hongwanji Temple on Hawai‘i Island. They continued that mission at Aiea Hongwanji and Jikoen Temple Hall on O‘ahu in 1933. However, it was not until 1980 that the 45th headmaster, Sen‘ei Ikenobo, established the Honolulu Chapter under the direction of Kako Oda, its first president.

    Soon, in October, Ikenobo Ikebana Society, Honolulu Chapter, shares that peace and harmony with you, as it celebrates its 35th anniversary and honors the pioneers who brought the floral tradition to Hawai‘i. Experience the force of nature that moves a branch to flow with the trade winds, creates beauty in a leaf half-eaten by insects and calms the mind with the mesmerizing allure of flowers — silent movement, creativity, harmony and color. Our special guest, Yuki Ikenobo, the 46th Ikenobo headmaster designate, will be displaying an exhibition of her art.

    Fifty other Ikenobo Ikebana Society members and teachers, including Sensei Michiko Oba, daughter of Rev. and Mrs. Oda, will also create arrangements.

    “We are honored to have Yuki-sama celebrate our 35th anniversary with us,” said May Hiraoka-Tomita, local chapter president. “Her awe-inspiring floral arrangements will bring peace and harmony to our islands.”

    October 15–18
    Ikebana Exhibition
    35th Anniversary
    Honolulu Museum of Art School
    1111 Victoria Street, Honolulu
    Admission is Free!


    Ikenobo Ikebana Society, Honolulu Chapter
    1521 Alexander St., #1204, Honolulu 96822
    800-221-9388 | ikenobohonolulu@gmail.com
    www.facebook.com/IkenoboHonolulu

    Japanese Floral Art: 35 Years in Hawai’i

    Thirty-five years ago Japanese families in Hawai‘i saw the anthurium’s shiny hearts, bird of paradise’s crane neck, black berry ears of the “Mickey Mouse” plant and the mass of areca palms, fluttering in the wind. Inspired by the flowers and foliage of their new homeland, these immigrants imported Ikenobo — the soul of ikebana (the…

  • Kailua-Kona Welcomes 67 Softball Teams

     A huge rainbow of teams took to the field: Kona Gold tested their mettle and prevailed in the A Division

    A huge rainbow of teams took to the field: Kona Gold tested their mettle and prevailed in the A Division

    The 40th Hawaii State Senior Softball Tournament drew 67 teams to compete at Kailua-Kona on Aug. 4–6. This year, eight divisions vied for victory on Kona Makaeo ball fields at Old A’s Airport Park. Maui fielded 13 teams, while O‘ahu gathered 17. Hawai’i Island turned out a big 25 teams, and 12 more teams flew in from Kaua’i. When all the players huddled together for the Pledge of Allegiance, their vibrant colored team shirts created a solid rainbow — a sign of the great games ahead and a unified spirit. The heat rose, as pitchers and fielders stared down batters prepared to take the bases. By tournament end, brown dirt masked tennis shoes and sticky shins. It did not matter which team came in first, second, or third. Hats off, there were happy smiles all around.

    Solid competition in the A Division decided three winners: Kona Gold slid to first place, the Honomu Rockets landed second, and Kona Legends placed third. League Director Randell Kokubun honored the two longest standing teams to play in this competition: The Pomaika’i Seniors from Hilo and the Kohala Seniors.

    One might assume that senior softball is an allmale game, but a number of women swung the bat too! The day shined with a love for the game, a get-together of friends, and good sportsmanship. That’s really what it’s all about — playing hard and having fun!

    Kailua-Kona Welcomes 67 Softball Teams

    The 40th Hawaii State Senior Softball Tournament drew 67 teams to compete at Kailua-Kona on Aug. 4–6. This year, eight divisions vied for victory on Kona Makaeo ball fields at Old A’s Airport Park. Maui fielded 13 teams, while O‘ahu gathered 17. Hawai’i Island turned out a big 25 teams, and 12 more teams flew…

  • Assisted Living in the “Urban Core”

    Assisted Living in the “Urban Core”For Honolulu residents, assisted living and retirement communities used to mean moving away to a quiet suburb. They yearned for a simple life, free from home maintenance, chores, cooking and cleaning, but not seclusion — miles from their church, social clubs, stores, restaurants and civic events.

    Today, assisted living facilities are being built in urban locations, and moving to a retirement community does not necessarily mean leaving friends, family and comfortable surroundings. New facilities offer “in town” living, in familiar neighborhoods, like Waikiki. Convenient and accessible high-rise communities provide support services of all kinds, including housekeeping and meal service, security and community activities. Seniors used to a vibrant lifestyle can take morning walks along the Ala Wai Canal and meet up with friends at their favorite corner café.

    Assisted Living in the “Urban Core”The growing demand for assisted living options means that Honolulu companies like The Plaza Assisted Living will be “building more facilities in familiar neighborhoods,” says Colby Takeda, administrator of The Plaza at Waikiki. “Our seniors want to remain active in their community — to stay at the ‘urban core’ of the city they love.”

    Urban living is not for everyone, but if your retirement dreams include Honolulu city lights, maybe now your dreams can come true.

     

     


    The Plaza at Waikiki — A Senior Living Community
    1812 Kalakaua Ave., Honolulu HI 96815
    808-955-0800 | www.theplazaassistedliving.com

    For Honolulu residents, assisted living and retirement communities used to mean moving away to a quiet suburb. They yearned for a simple life, free from home maintenance, chores, cooking and cleaning, but not seclusion — miles from their church, social clubs, stores, restaurants and civic events. Today, assisted living facilities are being built in urban…