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  • Thrifting: The New Cool

    Save money, help the environment,  and get a fresh look all at the same time by shopping the Gen Z way: at thrift stores.

    Buying gently used clothing has become trendy, thanks to young adults and the pandemic. A culture has built up around finding your wardrobe at Goodwill, Savers, Salvation Army, flea markets, and a host of other brick-and-mortar second-hand stores, or online sites dedicated to recycled clothing. It is a way to add pieces to perk up your basics without spending an arm and a leg. You can get expensive items for a fraction of the retail price. And then there’s that added element: the thrill of the hunt.

    According to a recent study commissioned by online resale platform ThredUp, it’s a $36 billion market in the U.S. today, and expected to reach $77 billion in five years, eclipsing the growth in the broader retail sector 11 times over. One in five Americans shops at a thrift store in a given year — about the same number as those who go to a major department store.

    Green Machine

    “Having a young family where the kids are constantly outgrowing their clothes, thrift stores are a blessing,” says mom Beth Jarvie. “There is also now the awareness of conservation of resources, keeping your environmental footprint small, and upcycling durable goods.” According to the ThredUp study, younger shoppers are far more concerned with the environmental impact of clothing than their grandparents.

    The apparel and footwear industry accounts for about 10% of climate impact, which is more than the combined effect of every international flight and all maritime shipping, combined.

    Keenly aware of clothing’s impact, college student Grace Snelling says, “I’ve kind of stopped buying clothes from traditional stores. People almost respect you if what you’re wearing is thrifted, and it looks good because you’ve managed to pull off a cool outfit, and it’s sustainable.”

    What’s In It for Older Adults

    Thrift stores are a goldmine of clothing for grandchildren, and it’s priced right for people on a fixed income. You may find jeans or a gorgeous dress for your  granddaughter for around $5. Bikes, toys, crafts — they can all be thrifted.

    Switching to a fake Christmas tree? Shop your local thrift store and get it for a quarter of the retail price. Need some new dinnerware or kitchen tools? How about an edger for the lawn? Halloween costume? The nice thing about thrift stores vs. garage sales is that the thrift store will have a huge array of items in one stop. Most also have a senior day once a week when items are marked down for adults over a certain age.

    Another fun find is books, which seldom cost more than a dollar or two. How fun to bring over a basket of books for little grandkids or choose a few interesting reads for yourself. Invite a friend to accompany you for more fun and to get a second opinion on whether or not you should buy the jeans with the giant sparkle pockets.

    Online Thrifting

    Have you ever bought a used item on the internet? Hundreds of thousands of items are all available at any one time, from a vintage wool Norwegian sweater to a leather Harley Davidson jacket. Sites like eBay, ThredUp, Poshmark and the RealReal offer buyers the chance to find bargains galore. You can pay the stated price, make an offer to the seller, or bid in auctions where gorgeous clothing sometimes gets sold for a ridiculously low price. By the way, don’t forget to look for jewelry and shoes or boots. How about a fun pair of cowboy boots for $20 instead of $200? You don’t have to give up your favorite brands to thrift; they’re not this season’s goods, but they’re a whole lot cheaper!

    Be prepared to model your latest finds for older grandchildren, who will applaud your style and your savvy. They may even ask to go on your next thrifting trip!


     

    Save money, help the environment,  and get a fresh look all at the same time by shopping the Gen Z way: at thrift stores.

  • Eh! Nevah Mind Da Kine, Now is NOW

    Well, Generations wanted me to expound on the inevitable and that is…dying. I can safely say that I know something about dying because for many years as a stand-up comedian, I died many times on stage. It’s not a good feeling. However, once I passed through that uncomfortable moment and came out on the other side, I was refreshed and stronger. Hopefully, in your passing you will also feel much more refreshed and stronger. That being said, wouldn’t it be interesting to find out that the knowledge we have about death and dying is all wrong!

    WHAT IF! While on this earth, say we receive a letter every twenty years from God. This letter is God is giving you a review. Every 20, 40, 60 years and so on you  receive a letter that hopefully is going to give you a passing grade. And if you keep that up, eventually you’ll receive your golden ticket to heaven at the age of 80. And if you haven’t taken care of business that the LORD recommended when you reach 80, sorry — you’re going to have to stand in line with a lot of other people. And as for me? I can see one of my letters saying “Hey Frank, this is the Lord’s assistant and the Heavenly Father wants me to pass on his 40 year review to you. There is one aspect of your life the Heavenly Father strongly urges you to pay attention to and that is ‘Learn the words to the songs you’re going to sing on stage!!!!! ALSO PLEASE STAY ON KEY!’ When Heavenly Father hears you go off key he shakes his head, closes his eyes and prays for you. OK? That will make Heavenly Father very happy and we want to keep Heavenly Father very HAPPY or he’s going to come down there and rearrange some furniture. And if you upset Heavenly Father,  we’ll send you to a place where you’ll need a lot of sun block!! Get my drift? Got it? Good!”

    But what really happens when you die, pass over, pass out, pass gas, kaput, game over, no time left, make — die — dead? Many have come back from the other side to tell us. Moe Keale told me that, after he had flatlined, he walked towards a light that turned out to be a 7-11. I know that sounds absurd but that’s what he told me. And as he walked toward the door, his nephew Israel Kamakawiwo‘ole came walking out with a slurpee all happy and smiling. But when he saw Moe, he said “Unko, what you doing hea? It’s not your time, you gotta go back!” So Moe came back to tell the story. He also said that while he was transitioning back, all he heard were harps and ‘ukuleles.

    So this is what I do know: the reality of life is always NOW. The past is a memory which is a thought arising in the present. The future is merely anticipated and is just another thought arising now. What we truly have is this moment. If you stay connected to the present moment and find fulfillment here and now, you will always have a 7-11 heaven. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

    Well, Generations wanted me to expound on the inevitable and that is…dying. I can safely say that I know something about dying because for many years as a stand-up comedian, I died many times on stage. It’s not a good feeling.

  • In Celebration of Organ Donor Legacies

    If you could save a life, would you? We are all asked this vital question at the DMV. Checking the box YES to be an organ or tissue donor means we are willing to selflessly pass on the gift of life to those desperately in need.

    On Saturday, April 29, more than 240 people from across the Hawaiian islands came together to honor and celebrate their deceased loved ones who gave the gift of life to patients in critical need of a life-saving organ or restorative tissue. Hosted by Legacy of Life Hawai‘i, the Donor Remembrance Ceremony was held in Kaneohe.

    The all-day, heartwarming event included reflections from an organ donor’s son, Sean Cervone, whose mother tragically passed away suddenly and became an organ donor. Sean Keoni Craig, a double lung and kidney transplant recipient, followed with a powerful Hawaiian chant to his ancestors and a heartfelt message of gratitude for his organ donor. He shared his hopes to one day meet the family of the donor.

    Afterward, Tracy Lodge spoke about her beloved son, Brandon, who became an organ donor after he passed away suddenly after a traffic accident. She recalled fondly how Brandon was cherished for his generous spirit by his friends, family, and the Kailua community where he lived. In a touching moment, she was introduced for the first time to the grateful transplant recipient who received her son’s liver.

    Donor families were invited to create a commemorative lantern in memory of their loved ones. On display in the ballroom were the five panels of the Hawaii Donor Quilt created in a heartfelt tribute to those who gave the gift of life and whose legacies live on in transplant recipients. The event ended with the poignant release of monarch butterflies, symbolizing the renewed hope that their loved ones gave to the many transplant recipients by consenting to organ and tissue donation.

    The need for organ, eye, and tissue donors continues to grow, as it is a pressing issue. There are at present 322 patients in Hawai‘i suffering from end-stage organ failure and waiting for a life-saving kidney, pancreas or liver. More than 114,000 patients in the United States are in the same critical condition. To register as an organ, eye and tissue donor, visit registerme.org and help make a difference.


    LEGACY OF LIFE HAWA‘I (501(c) 3 nonprofit)
    405 N Kuakini St STE 810, Honolulu, HI 96817
    808-599-7630 | info@legacyoflifehawaii.org
    legacyoflifehawaii.org
    Legacy of Life Hawai’i is an organization in Hawai’i federally designated to recover organs and tissue for transplant; encourage organ donation through community outreach and education; and honor and support donor families by working closely with island hospitals to cultivate an understanding in community diversity that life is worth giving.

    If you could save a life, would you? We are all asked this vital question at the DMV. Checking the box YES to be an organ or tissue donor means we are willing to selflessly pass on the gift of life to those desperately in need.

  • My Story: A Life-Changing Health Scare

    I was sitting outside an Ala Moana Hotel meeting room texting on my phone. Suddenly, I looked up. I had no idea where I was.

    I realized I was actually lying on the floor and looking at the walls and ceiling. Sweat seemed to be pouring down my face. I reached up to wiped the perspiration, only to discover it was blood. Soon a physical therapist appeared, asking me to follow his finger with my eyes. He asked me to raise my hands above my head, then to smile. He said I didn’t have a stroke or heart attack.

    As he helped me to the restroom to clean up, fear possessed me. My thoughts raced. I went to the emergency room and spent three nights in the hospital. I had numerous tests.

    I reflected on my life while I waited for the results. I had great parents and a loving family. I got married to a loving wife. We share great children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Nothing has been more enjoyable than seeing my family grow. I’ve also been lucky to see our family business grow.

    Balancing my family, church responsibilities, and work has not always kept me busy. I walk 4-5 miles every Saturday. At 74 years old, I didn’t feel old. Sure, I take pills for hypertension and cholesterol. I knew I needed to lose 40 pounds. Still, I thought I was in good health. I felt good.

    Sitting in the hospital, I wondered: Do I have a legacy to pass on to my family? Are my affairs in order? How do I make the most of my remaining years? Questions kept arising.

    Happily, my medical tests came back negative. Six months have now passed since my blackout.

    I’ve been trying to make the most of this second chance to change my lifestyle. I walk three times a week. It helps me with my balance. I’ve cut down on carbs — including rice. I eat only one big meal a day. The other two meals are small meals. I eat no junkies, except to keep my wife company during our TV nights.

    I introduced naps into my afternoon routine. My naps normally last between two and three hours. Occasionally I can nap for five hours. Now I realize there is great value in taking this time to refresh myself.

    I’ve slowed down my life, even though some still think I’m working too hard. This is what happens when you love what you do, I suppose. My new business is gratifying; I love going to work. My wife claims that I don’t work but just go to talk stories.

    I hope sharing this one can help inspire you to slow down a bit, too. Life is too short anyway.


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    I was sitting outside an Ala Moana Hotel meeting room texting on my phone. Suddenly, I looked up. I had no idea where I was. I realized I was actually lying on the floor and looking at the walls and ceiling. Sweat seemed to be pouring down my face. I reached up to wiped the…

  • Generations Senior Fair at Windward Mall

    You could feel the excitement and electricity in the center of Windward Mall in Kāne‘ohe, O‘ahu, on Friday, May 19, when Generations Magazine held our first “Generations Senior Fair at Windward Mall” since January 2020. There were six rows of Generations partners, offering their services, knowledge and experience. Everyone brought their wealth of information and welcomed attendees, who were able to speak one-to-one with professionals in the many fields serving kūpuna and their families. Kudos to Windward Mall for providing a great venue for the Windward side.

    Attendees told us afterward it was a very good event with lots of interesting people. Everyone could meet our partners in person and many learned so much from a wide variety of companies, nonprofits, and government agencies. It was also an opportunity for Generations readers to thank some of our partners for their service to the senior community.


    A big MAHALO goes out to the following Generations partners for taking the time to offer their services to kūpuna and their families at this event and the bold partners who provided door prizes. AARP Hawaii ✦ Ameriprise Financial Services ✦ Better Business Bureau ✦ City & County of Honolulu, Dept. of Parks & Recs ✦ Captain Cook Coin Company of Honolulu ✦ Catholic Charities ✦ Copeland Insurance Group ✦ Department of Health, Executive Office on Aging ✦ SMP Hawaii ✦ Dooplikit  LLC ✦ Financial Benefits Insurance ✦ Gimme a Break ✦ GYMGUYZ Urban Honolulu ✦ Hale Hau‘oli Hawai‘i ✦ Hawaii Dental Service ✦ Hawai‘i Department of Taxation ✦ Hawai‘i Long-Term Care Ombudsman ✦ Hawaii SHIP ✦ Humana ✦ Kaiser Permanente ✦ Kuakini Health Systems ✦ Law Office of Stephen B. Yim ✦ Legacy of Life Hawai‘i ✦ Lets Move ✦ Manoa Cottage ✦ Nursing Home Partners ✦ Open Mortgage ✦ Project Dana ✦ Silver & Stronger Coaching Program ✦  Soderholm Bus & Mobility ✦ State of Hawai‘i, Dept. of Commerce & Consumer Affairs ✦ The Ihara Team, Keller Williams Honolulu ✦ The Mediation Center of the Pacific ✦ Vacations Hawaii ✦ Valley of the Temples ✦ Veterans Administration: Caregiver ✦ Support Program ✦ Wellcare by ‘Ohana Health Plan ✦ YMCA of Honolulu

     

    You could feel the excitement and electricity in the center of Windward Mall in Kāne‘ohe, O‘ahu, on Friday, May 19, when Generations Magazine held our first “Generations Senior Fair at Windward Mall” since January 2020. There were six rows of Generations partners, offering their services, knowledge and experience. Everyone brought their wealth of information and…

  • Real Property Tax Relief for Honolulu

    If you’re a Honolulu homeowner concerned about property taxes, relief is on the horizon as the City and County of Honolulu announces its Real Property Tax Credit program, open for applications starting July 1.

    From July 1, eligible homeowners can apply for a tax credit to help alleviate their real property tax expenses. To qualify for this tax credit for the 2024–2025 tax year, applicants must:

     Have a home exemption on their property
     Ensure that none of the titleholders own other property anywhere
     Confirm that the combined gross income of all titleholders meet income requirements.

    The amount of the credit homeowners will receive, if qualified, is based on their income and current property tax amount. This tax credit program is aimed at providing much needed relief to homeowners who are affected by rising property taxes.

    Homeowners who applied for this credit during the 2023–2024 Tax Year can expect to receive an application in the mail in early July.

    Contact the Tax Relief Office for an application or download it from the website starting July 1.


    TAX RELIEF OFFICE
    For more information or questions, call 808-768-3205
    or visit honolulupropertytax.com
    (Information furnished is subject to change without notice.)

    If you’re a Honolulu homeowner concerned about property taxes, relief is on the horizon as the City and County of Honolulu announces its Real Property Tax Credit program, open for applications starting July 1.

  • Sustainable Transitions in Gerontology

    The Hawaii Pacific Gerontological Society (HPGS), is thrilled to announce its 2023 biennial conference from September 7–8 following the success of its virtual conference in 2021.

    Designed for a diverse audience that includes kūpuna practitioners in the health and human service fields, businesses, government agencies, nonprofits, and faith-based organizations serving kūpuna, HPGS extends a warm invitation to its two-day event at the Ala Moana Hotel. Applied researchers, students in gerontology, advocates for kūpuna, and kūpuna themselves who are keen on continuing their education as they age are also encouraged to join in this exciting event.

    The conference’s theme, “Sustainable Transitions in Gerontology,” spotlights the crucial adjustments made by businesses, organizations, individuals and kūpuna over the past few years in response to the ever-changing needs of our elderly population.

    An impressive lineup of keynote speakers is set to inspire attendees, featuring Dr. Lee Buenconsejo-Lum, Interim Dean of the John A. Burns School of Medicine, and Keith Hayashi, Department of Education Superintendent. HPGS is working to create a dynamic and informative event with additional speakers from Hawaii, the Mainland and Japan.

    Seven “Na Lima Kokua Awards” will be presented to individuals or companies/organizations from categories of business, communications, community service, government, and research/ education, along with two Tony Lenzer Scholarships to be awarded on Thursday, Sept. 7.

    To register for this exceptional gathering, visit hpgs.org and click on “Conference.” The registration fee is nominal for HPGS members, non-members, students and seniors.

    As a special offer, Generations Magazine readers will receive the “Regular Registration” rate through Aug. 31, 2023.

    Established in 1979, HPGS is a nonprofit organization committed to enhancing the quality of life for Hawaii’s Kupuna community. Since 1981, the dedicated board and biennial conference committees have organized 20 in-person two-day conferences and, as previously mentioned, a two-day virtual conference held during the Covid-
    19 pandemic in 2021.


    HAWAII PACIFIC GERONTOLOGICAL SOCIETY
    (501(c) 3 nonprofit)
    PO Box 3714, Honolulu, HI 96812
    Sherry Goya, HPGS Executive Director
    808-722-8487 | Sgoyallc@Aol.com
    hpgs.org

    The Hawaii Pacific Gerontological Society (HPGS), is thrilled to announce its 2023 biennial conference from September 7–8 following the success of its virtual conference in 2021.Designed for a diverse audience that includes kūpuna practitioners in the health and human service fields, businesses, government agencies, nonprofits, and faith-based organizations serving kūpuna, HPGS extends a warm invitation…

  • Kathy Jaycox’s Mission to Give Back

    After more than 40 years teaching at secondary and post-secondary schools in Illinois and Hawai‘i, Kathy Jaycox is now dedicated to volunteering for nonprofits. The work touches her heart and soul, she says.

    Kathy believes that “To whom much is given, much will be required (Luke 12:48).” This line of Biblical wisdom reminds us that we are held responsible for what we have. If we have been blessed with talents, wealth, knowledge and time, it is expected that we use them to benefit others.

    Past affiliations include service as a board member and president of Faith Action for Community Equity, and the Windward O‘ahu branch of the American Association of University Women, where she continues as a member.

    Kathy says she feels rewarded when she sees volunteer actions lead to positive change. The most outstanding, she said, was the passage of Act 102 in 2017, which provided financial support to family caregivers so that they could hire respite workers and not need to give up their own employment.

    Currently, Kathy serves on the executive council of AARP Hawai‘i doing outreach. She teaches, speaks to groups and helps in whatever capacity is needed. Her role on the board of directors for the Hawaii Pacific Gerontological Society includes serving on the workforce development, publicity, newsletter, and website committees. Kathy is also a member of the Kupuna Caucus, a volunteer at St. John Vianney Church and on the board of St. John Vianney School.

    After more than 40 years teaching at secondary and post-secondary schools in Illinois and Hawai‘i, Kathy Jaycox is now dedicated to volunteering for nonprofits. The work touches her heart and soul, she says.

  • Carl “Kini Popo” Hebenstreit, 1929-2022

    Carl “Kini Popo” Hebenstreit was well past retirement age when he made the decision to launch Generations Hawai‘i, which he described as “one of the happiest and most satisfying activities” of his life.

    “There is a need for it. That’s been a Trade [Media Hui] DNA tag since [1954],” when the original parent company of Generations was founded, he explained in an email to a colleague in 2006.

    Even then, at the age of 77 himself, Carl could tell the Great Silver Wave was nowhere near its crest.

    “We’re aiming the publication at… those who have to look after their parents in their 80s and 90s, as well as the children of their own children,” he said.

    Nearly two decades after sending that email, demand is only stronger for a magazine Carl originally envisioned as “a lively resource that recognizes the achievements of Hawai‘i’s 50-plus citizens while offering information and insight into ways to enrich life in the mature years.”

    During his three years as Publisher of Generations, he came to the realization that most kūpuna didn’t see getting old as a liability — many, if not all, discovered  aging gracefully meant also gaining the opportunity to redefine and recreate their lives.

    “In fact, we discovered an amazing sense of energy in this group,” Carl said. “Sixty is indeed the new forty. Eighty is the new sixty.”

    Generations readers in 2023 still understand the importance of maintaining (and building) the strength of their health, wealth and relationships well into their golden years. This magazine remains a trusted companion and guide to helping readers Live the Good Life After 50.

    And for that, we have Carl Hebenstreit to thank.

    Mahalo, Kini.

    Carl “Kini Popo” Hebenstreit was well past retirement age when he made the decision to launch Generations Hawai‘i, which he described as “one of the happiest and most satisfying activities” of his life. “There is a need for it. That’s been a Trade [Media Hui] DNA tag since [1954],” when the original parent company of…

  • Pickleball: A Hole Different Ball Game

    Pickleball: A Hole Different Ball Game

    photo of Pickleball - Mixed Doubles Action of Colorful CourtFew places can outshine Hawai‘i when it comes to healthy outdoor activities. The weather and the environment provide countless opportunities for exercise, whatever your fitness level. Canoe paddling challenges the physically fit, just as a short walk in a park or on a beach might challenge someone who has mobility issues. One sport that welcomes all fitness levels is pickleball.

    Pickleball has been booming in popularity in the islands for the past decade. Its growth has largely been a grassroots effort by players volunteering their time and effort to ensure that all levels of ability and commitment to the sport are accommodated. For some players, the social aspect is their motivator; for others it is a chance to test their skills in competitive and tournament play. The game is especially suitable for seniors, not just for the physical health benefits it provides but also for the opportunity to socialize and the mental exercise involved in keeping focused and in keeping score. If you’re curious about the game, please join me in finding out more about it.

    How pickleball was created

    When you ask people why they play pickleball, the answer always includes the word: Fun! Those three letters embody the spirit in which the game was created back in 1965 on Bainbridge Island in Washington state. The island is a favorite for family summer vacations but the weather isn’t always suitable for the beach. One cold damp day, neighbors Bill Bell and Joe Pritchard took their kids to the Pritchards’ small backyard badminton court with some ping pong paddles and a plastic wiffleball, and made up a game for them all to play. The kids loved the new game, and so did the adults! Another neighbor, Barney McCallum, joined in and the three friends made up the rules of the game on the fly.

    Pickleball — perhaps named for a family dog called Pickle — was strictly a family recreation until summer ended and everyone went back home to Seattle. Barney McCallum created a pickleball court on the street where he lived; Joe Pritchard incorporated a game of pickleball at his campaign rallies when he was running for Congress; and Father Fitterer, another visitor to the island and then president of Seattle University, started a pickleball night at the university’s new gym when it opened in 1969. As word of the game spread and people discovered how much fun it was, the demand for the plywood pickleball paddles Barney was making became so great that he incorporated a business to handle it in 1972. Pickle-Ball Inc. is still a major supplier of pickleball equipment, which has changed considerably over the past 50-plus years.

    Getting started

    Pickleball is the fastest-growing sport in the US according to a randomized research survey done by YouGov in August 2022. They found that 14% of the 2,500 adults aged 18 and over that they surveyed had played the game at least once in the previous 12 months. That figure extrapolates to 36.5 million people nationwide. So it’s not surprising that a plethora of businesses have sprung up around the sport. Many cater to tournament players — there is even a professional league only
    for players aged 50 and over.

    But you don’t have to buy the high-end equipment the professionals use. Paddles can be found for less than $30 online. More expensive options may include a net, two paddles, two outdoor and two indoor pickleballs. Outdoor pickleballs have smaller holes to offset the effects of the wind — definitely a game “hazard” in Hawai‘i! Besides the larger holes, indoor pickleballs are usually a bit softer and a different color, making them easier to see in a gym environment.

    The only other equipment needed to get started is a pair of sports shoes suitable for wear on an outdoor court, such as tennis shoes. (Running, walking and crosstraining shoes are not suitable for pickleball because they are designed for movement in one direction only.) If you intend to play indoors, the shoes you buy should be designed for play on hardwood or smooth composite surfaces. For both indoor and outdoor play, safety glasses made for pickleball are recommended. Add in a sun hat, visor or cap, a large bottle for water to keep you hydrated, some snacks to keep up your energy and you’re all set!

    Prepping for play

    As with all new activities you want to add to your health routines, you should check first with your healthcare team whether pickleball is suitable for you. It does come with some risk of injury, especially for those new to exercise or racquet sports. Travis Lytle, physical therapist at IMUA PT on Maui, recommends “5 to 10 minutes of stretching the calves and hamstrings to help minimize the chances of a pulled hammy or developing plantar fasciitis (foot/heel pain).” He also recommends “working on light gripping (a sponge or small ball) for 2 to 3 minutes a few times a day to help improve forearm strength for those not used to holding onto a racquet for 45 to 60 minutes.” He adds that “The quickest way to develop ‘tennis elbow’ is not prepping the muscles for repetitive use during pickleball or tennis.” And, as with starting any new sport or gym routine, he highly recommends “easing into the new activity slowly as it will decrease your chance of injury.”

    Where do I find a game?

    Pickleball is played outdoorsIt would also be a good idea to go watch some games, as speaking with players at your local court can give you a better sense of what’s involved. Most pickleball courts — both indoor and out — are maintained by your local county’s parks and recreation department, and a quick call to them can help you find places and times that pickleball is being played. USA PIckle Ball, the nonprofit national governing body for the sport, has local players volunteer to update an easily searchable website called Places2Play: places2play.org. Each location is tagged with information about hours and whether it is free to play or has a drop-in or membership fee. Other tags to look out for are “Beginners Welcome,” “Recreational Focused” and “Senior Crowd.” There will often also be a contact number to connect you with a local player who can give you more specific details.

    One thing to ask about is “Open Play.” In keeping with pickleball’s origins as a family and neighborhood activity promoting friendship and fun, Open Play is a way of welcoming everyone to play, no matter their age or skill level. It might be done via a sign-in sheet or by having players place their paddle (with their name on the handle) in a stack with up to three other paddles. As a court becomes available, the next four players in line get their turn.

    A game usually lasts about 15 to 25 minutes, so it is quite a quick turnaround of players. It’s not unusual for players to stay for several games, socializing and maybe sharing a potluck while waiting for their next turn on the court. Numerous research studies have shown that being out among people enjoying a good time together is very beneficial for your health.

    Gameplay

    Pickleball is a game of focus, quick reflexes, and strategy, but doesn’t rely so much on strength and extreme agility. In fact, many players who have come to the game after playing another court sport — such as tennis or volleyball — are surprised to find themselves beaten by players far less athletic than they are. A short person, overweight and maybe even wearing a knee brace can best a tall, fast-moving player simply by knowing where to position themselves and by keeping relatively still but placing the ball strategically so that their opponent has to reach down to return it. Adjusting to the small dimensions of the court can be a challenge for some players used to ranging over the larger area of a tennis court.

    The game begins by deciding which player or team has first choice of the side of the court they’ll be playing on and whether they will serve or receive. The first serve is always made diagonally from behind the back line of the right side of the court and it follows the two-bounce rule. The receiving team must let the ball bounce before returning it and the serving team must then also let it bounce before returning it. The aim of this rule is to extend rallies by eliminating an opening volley that may be impossible to return. After this opening play, both teams can either play the ball off a bounce (ground stroke) or volley it.

    Tennis vs. pickleball

    Many pickleball players also play tennis or did so in their younger days, but the two games are quite different. Tennis favors using a long backward sweep of the arm (backstroke) in order to give power to the ball’s return. Pickleball favors a smaller backswing because the court is so much smaller, requiring quick returns. The net is also lower: 36 inches at the sideline and 34 inches in the middle. (When the game was first created on a badminton court, the net’s new height was measured by one of the parents putting it at the height of their hip.) The dimensions of a pickleball court are 44 feet by 20 feet, the same as a badminton court.

    You can never hit a volley from within 7 feet of the net, or even have your body’s momentum carry you into that non-volley zone (aka “the kitchen”) after your volley. Again, this rule dates from the time the game was invented as a family game. Standing close to the net makes volleying too easy, putting the defender at an unfair disadvantage and ruining the fun of the game. A summary of the most important rules can be found on the USA Pickleball website: usapickleball.org/what-is-pickleball/official-rules/rules-summary/.

    Tennis uses an overhand serve but pickleball serves are always underhand and the contact point of the ball on the paddle must be below your waist, with the highest
    point of the paddle being below your wrist. You only get one chance to get your serve into play, whereas in tennis you get two chances. Only the serving team can score points, and the two players in the serving team switch sides of the court after each point is won.

    Senior women at a tennis court. Active seniors living a healthy lifestyle. Staying active in retirement.Upping your game

    The Pickleheads website has a succinct, illustrated page showing how to play the game here: pickleheads.com/blog/how-to-play-pickleball. There are also hundreds of videos on YouTube showing you how to up your game skills, but the better option is to attend a coaching clinic. What works for someone else might not work for you in terms of technique and avoiding injury. Clinics may be offered by your local county Parks & Recreation Department (often for free) or by a local pickleball club for a fee. For example, the O‘ahu Pickleball Association (OPA) has weekly group lessons for Newbies (nets, balls and paddles included), Beginners, Advanced Beginners and Intermediate. You can find the details about all these clinics on the OPA website: oahupickleballassociation.org/learn-pickleball/classes-clinics-workshops/.

    Many of the common mistakes made by beginners occur because the smaller dimensions of a pickleball court call for strategies that go against what you instinctively want to do.

    The “no man’s land” between the kitchen line and the baseline may seem like a good place to stand but playing from there can make it easier for your opponent to return your shot. If they place their shot behind you, there’s also a risk that you will stumble and fall as you run back to try to return it.

    While it’s tempting to return a shot coming at you at head or shoulder height, the ball is more than likely going to go out-of-bounds, so you should just let it go by.

    It is also very easy to step into “the kitchen” when following through on a shot, which will incur a fault.

    As a beginner, you are still developing an understanding of the game and developing your own individual style of play. It’s a good time to practice a variety of shots so that you have the element of surprise on your side, rather than playing predictably. Remember to keep your eye on the ball and to be mindful of where it is relative to your paddle so that you can anticipate making the best return shot. Communicate with your partner, especially when a return shot could be taken by either of you. Don’t poach a shot from them by jumping over the center line into their side of the court — at the very least, you are leaving your side of the court wide open and undefended for your opponent’s return shot.

    DIY pickleball

    Once you’ve learned the game, you might like to return to its Bainbridge Island roots by creating a pickleball court in your yard or chalking one up on the street—if it’s a quiet one! But even if you don’t have the desire to get fully immersed in the game, investing in a paddle and some balls is a good health choice to make. A 12-year-long statistical study done by researchers at the National Cancer Institute and the National Institute on Aging, published in 2022, found that of all the activities older people can do to minimize the risk of early mortality, racquet sports are one of the most beneficial. That is because they require synchronized action from many muscles for correct form, hand-eye coordination, and intermittent bursts of very high intensity. These benefits, combined with the social element and mental exercise, are what make pickleball clubs eligible for affiliation with the Blue Zones Project, which promotes healthy lifestyles.

    A final word

    The final word is still: Fun! A prime reason for pickleball’s popularity is that the players love the game and want to share that enthusiasm with others and inspire them to feel the same way. A more experienced player is expected to play more “gently” with someone who is still learning. Just because you can win doesn’t always mean you should if it’s at the expense of someone else still developing their skills. Pickleball is intended to be a game of fair play and good sportsmanship that promotes a culture of fun and friendly competition.


    NATIONWIDE
    USA Pickleball (National Governing Body) usapickleball.org
    usapickleball.org/about-us/contactus/
    facebook.com/usapickleballassociation
    • Places to Play: places2play.org/state/hawaii

    O‘AHU
    Oahu Pickleball Association (Club) oahupickleballassociation.org
    oahupickleballassociation.org/contact/
    instagram.com/oahupickleballassociation/
    • Where to play: bit.ly/OPA-PickleballCourtsMap meetup.com/Oahu-Pickleball-Association

    Japan Hawaii Pickleball Association (Club)
    japanhawaiipickleballassociation.org/
    aloha@japanhawaiipickleballassociation.org
    facebook.com/aloha.jhpa
    • Places to Play: japanhawaiipickleballassociation.org/hawaii

    Kailua Pukaball Ohana (Club)
    facebook.com/pilahi.gregg.3

    City and County of Honolulu (Dept. of Parks & Rec.) honolulu.gov/parks
    808-768-3003 | parks@honolulu.gov
    facebook.com/honolulu.parks
    instagram.com/honolulu_parks/
    • Where to play: bit.ly/honolulu-gov-pickle-ball-courts

    MAUI
    County of Maui (Dept. of Parks & Rec.) mauicounty.gov/119/Parks-Recreation
    808-270-7230 | parks.dept@mauicounty.gov
    • Where to play: Call for locations

    Aloha Pickleball Complex (Future Facility) Maui Research & Technology Park, Kihei, Maui
    alohapickleball.com

    BIG ISLAND
    Kona Pickleball Hui (Club) konapickleballhui.weebly.com
    konapickleballhui@gmail.com
    • Where to play: bit.ly/KPH-PickleballCourtsMap
    Old Kona Airport, 75-5530 Kuakini Hwy., Kailua-Kona

    Big Island Rogue Pickleball Hui (Club) bigislandroguepickleballhui.com
    bigislandrph@gmail.com
    facebook.com/groups/bigislandroguepickleballhui
    instagram.com/bigislandroguepickleballhui/
    • Where to play: Details online

    Holua Racquet & Paddle (Facility) holuaracquetandpaddle.com
    808-989-4611 | holuaracquetandpaddle@gmail.com
    • Where to play: 78-7190 Kaleiopapa St, Kailua-Kona

    KAUA‘I
    Pickleball Association Kauai (Club)
    pakauai.org
    facebook.com/PAKauai
    instagram.com/pakauai808/
    • Where to play: pakauai.org/court-locations

    County of Kaua‘i (Dept. of Parks & Rec.) kauai.gov/Parks
    808-241-4460 | parks@kauai.gov
    • Where to play: Call for locations


    PICKLEBALL PROFILES

    Lani Larrua
    When her husband of 38 years passed away, Lani found that her social life changed. Six years ago, she started playing pickleball on the private courts at Waikoloa Village, where she lives on the Big Island. A pastor and sworn chaplain for the Hawai‘i Police Department, Lani observes that for some people, playing pickleball has “almost taken the place of going to church” as a way of finding new social networks among kind and accepting people. She describes the game as a cross between ping pong, badminton and tennis and attributes the “weird” rules to the game’s origins as a family game. Family play is growing on the Big Island and it’s a great way for kids to “see a whole other side of their parents — having fun, laughing, not always winning. Pickleball is healthy, good, fun behavior. It keeps the body moving. A body in motion is a body alive.” And “killing the ball” gets rid of stressors!

    Todd Richter
    Todd was first introduced to pickleball in the mid-1980s. A friend he played tennis with invited him to play at the court her parents had built in their backyard. He liked the game and played it almost weekly, but the parents sold the property a year later and it wasn’t until 2016 that Todd became heavily involved with it. By then, he was working for the County of Maui Department of Parks & Recreation and a visitor called to inquire about places to play pickleball, offering to give free lessons. It soon became obvious the county needed to cater to a growing demand for places to play and Todd helped facilitate that. He retired in 2020, and enjoyed playing pickleball competitively in tournaments. “Over the past couple years, I’ve felt my urge to play tournaments kind of disappear. What keeps me playing now is for fresh air and exercise, and for fun. Because pickleball is fun to play.”

    Nolan Ahn
    Nolan Ahn is the founding president of the Pickleball Association Kauai (PAK). In his March 2023 President’s Report on the PAK website, he gives an account of the “demise of my hiking days” on account of his two replacement hips and having “unsure feet.” Neither of those two byproducts of aging have kept him from pickleball. Nolan enjoys the competitive side of the game and is looking forward to competing nationally as a “super senior” in the age 75-79 bracket. “Everybody has health issues as they age, so the playing field levels out.” He has already gold medaled in state tournaments in younger brackets. Age brackets put a positive spin on getting older. “Just hang in there… soon you’ll be the youngest in a new bracket.” He is also proud that PAK is a participating Blue Zones organization “supporting healthy lifestyles as we age.”

    Margie Katras
    Margie was a tennis player and coach but found that she wasn’t learning any more and that injuries were making the game less pleasurable as she aged. She was watching some other people play pickleball at the tennis courts one day and decided to try it. “Just one game and I was hooked! It was like beginning a new life just as my tennis life was coming to an end. It’s easy to learn and you meet a lot of people from different backgrounds.” She now coaches pickleball and describes the gameplay as “cat and mouse,” requiring players to stay focused. Margie admits that tennis is still her No. 1 love, and looks forward to the day when there are more courts dedicated to pickleball so the two sports don’t have to compete for space and time. “It’s like the difference between skiers and snowboarders,” she says. Ski field operators soon realized they had to provide dedicated runs for the new sport.

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    Aging is a process that’s changing. We’re now living longer and more active lives. And as we approach our later years, many of us have strong feelings about where and how we want to spend this period of our lives.

    While residential care homes can be wonderful places, most people want to remain in their homes and “age in place” for as long as possible. This can, however, present some unique challenges. As we age, our physical and mental health can decline, sometimes quite quickly. That’s why it’s vital to create the right support system for ourselves or loved ones.

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    That’s why it’s important to consider financial management early. This includes:
    • Paying bills
    • Depositing checks and balancing bank statements
    • Providing budgeting and longterm planning
    • Managing health insurance and medical claims
    • Evaluating government and pension benefits
    • Facilitating communication with legal, financial
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    Finding a financial manager can be challenging, but there are options available. You can ask a trusted family member or friend to help, or consult with your tax preparer to see if they offer this service. Corporate trust companies and private fiduciaries also offer financial management services.

    Working with a financial manager is a partnership that requires careful consideration and structuring. But with the right approach, this relationship can help ensure  controlled and wise management of your finances as you age — and help you focus on enjoying life to the fullest.


    HAWAII FIDUCIARY SERVICES LLC
    3615 Harding Ave., Ste. 309, Honolulu, HI 96816
    808-777-4200 | kholt@hifiduciaryservices.com
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