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  • Togetherness… a family Tradition

    Togetherness… a family Tradition

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    Family is a very important source of virtues and values. Our ancestors collected generational wisdom from their ancestors — surviving and thriving through famines, wars, migrations, dynasties and empires. Closely knit families can be a source of nurturing, support and protection for their members; family and cultural traditions support us through important life passages, and provide the framework for how we respond to challenges and opportunities.

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    Les Ihara is ninth of 11 children and appears second from the left with his parents.

    Like many Hawai‘i residents, husband and wife Les and Shirley Ihara of Kāne‘ohe came from Japanese immigrant families. Their families were able to manage through the Great Depression and provide them an education. After World War II, they began their own family, and Les’ Army career took them all over the United States and abroad. Now in their late 80s, they find themselves the patriarch and matriarch of a four-generation clan that practices togetherness. There are lessons for all of us in the Iharas’ simple recipe for a happy life: be patient, be tolerant, do what brings happiness and have fun wherever you are.

    They graciously agreed to share their stories, and the values they learned from their parents that they felt were important to pass on. There are some lessons here for all of us.

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    Mitsue “Shirley” Sonoda is the youngest (far left) with her parents and five siblings.

    The Roots of Family Culture
    Shirley Sonoda was born in Kahului, Maui, the youngest of six children. She grew up in an Hawaiian Commercial & Sugar Company (HC&S) plantation home in McGerrow Camp, Pu‘unēnē. Hard work was honorable and led families to success. Shirley’s father worked in husbandry at Waihe‘e,Pu‘unēnē and Haleakala Dairies, taking care of birthing cows and calves. Her mom worked in the dairy’s plant, washing the pint-sized glass milk bottles that were used at the time. Shirley describes a “wonderful,” childhood in an agricultural community surrounded by fresh fruits and vegetables and lots to do. “As the youngest, I was spoiled,” she said.

    Family Support and Encouragement
    Shirley favors her pretty mother. Shirley giggles. “My name is really Mitsue, but one day a lady said, ‘that child looks just like Shirley Temple,’ and from then on, I was always called Shirley. My oldest sister, Hilda, doted on me, and my brother, Kiyoshi, who was one up from me, was my protector and best friend,” said Shirley. She had a lot of boyfriends, but was encouraged to focus on her studies and go to college. During the summers before her junior and senior years at Baldwin High School, Shirley worked on the line at the Maui Pineapple Company cannery in Kahului.

    Shirley’s parents both came from Kumamoto on the island of Kyushu in the southern part of Japan. Her father immigrated to Maui first. Wars with China were very hard on the Japanese people and Shirley’s maternal grandparents wanted her mom to have a better life, so they allowed her to become a “picture bride.”

    Les is also Nisei (a first-generation American of Japanese descent) and ninth of 11 children. “I had a lot of attention and supervision from the older siblings, but we were all very supportive of one another,” said Les. “I think it is important to allow the kids to pursue what they really want to do and give them the encouragement they need.”

    “I wanted the kids to be scouts like me, but they much preferred sports and didn’t continue in scouting,” said Les. “So, I supported them in sports and they all became good athletes — and our grandchildren are, too. Percy was bigger than the other boys and excelled in baseball. My daughter, Sherry, and her daughters, Cynthia and Cathlene, coach tennis for St Andrew’s Priory and Sacred Hearts Academy. All our kids are good swimmers and the grandchildren are into many different team sports. In Japanese, we encourage one another with this expression: gaman. It means to stick with it or hang in there. So I tell our grandchildren to pick what feels comfortable for you — what you like to do — and then do your best to stick with it.”

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    “Scouts’ honor and honesty have always ruled my life and I tried to pass on these virtues…”~Les

    Family History of Enterprise
    About 10 years ago, Les discovered some interesting background about his father’s family. In 1898, his father and paternal uncle came to Hilo from Yamaguchi-ken on the main island of Honshu. His dad came to build railroad bridges and tunnels for the cane trains between Hilo and Honoka‘a. His uncle was a labor negotiator, procuring contracted workers from Japan. The brothers’ last name was Tomishima.

    It was the turn of the century and the end of the first Sino-Japanese War when China signed the treaty of Simonoseki, and ceded both Taiwan and Penghu to Japan. In the occupation, Japan sent educators to teach the Japanese language and culture to the people on these islands. On Jan. 1, 1900, the Taiwanese resistance killed eight Japanese educators; one of whom was the only son of the Ihara family. “Without an heir, the family decided to adopt my father,” said Les.

    Les’ maternal grandmother was a merchant who came to Hawai‘i in the 1930s and ran the Shigeta Store in Hilo, which later became the Ihara Store. This general merchandise store was famous for penny “ice cakes,” a type of Popsicle. Strawberry was the most popular flavor, but Les loved the azuki bean ice cake. When Les got his driver’s license at age 15, he became the store’s delivery person, hauling groceries and charcoal to customers’ homes. Right across the store on Kīlauea Avenue was the Hilo Hongwanji Mission.

    Formative Training
    “Church and language school at the hongwanji were very important to my parents and to me,” said Les. “I learned Japanese language, martial arts and discipline. I also became very interested in scouting and achieved Eagle Scout before my last year of high school.” Les even considered a career in scouting administration, but social workers were in demand after the end of WWII, so he studied psychology and social work at University of Hawai‘i at Mānoa. “Scouts’ honor and honesty have always ruled my life and I tried to pass on these virtues,” he said.

    togetherness-a-family-tradition-7Les also loved tennis. “In high school, I would collect stray tennis balls from around the court and when I found old racquets in the rubbish bins, I would repair them — that’s how I started playing tennis.” He taught himself by reading tennis books and putting conceptual techniques into practice. Discipline learned at Hongwanji paid off and Les won the Hawai‘i Island championship in 1945.

    Later, he would join the All Army Tennis Team in the ’60s and win the Armed Forces Senior Singles and Doubles Championship in 1980, in addition to numerous others trophies. He still plays three days a week and says tennis keeps him healthy, mentally and physically. He aims to play as long as he can.

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    Once married, they were destined for an adventure. Both Les and Shirley’s lives were about to get interesting: Les, in taking on a large command and Shirley, always looking on the bright side of being a military wife.

    Respect for Education
    All Japanese-Americans share a deep respect for education. The Issei (Japanese immigrants) assimilated American culture but insisted that their children attend both public school and also Japanese school. Les and Shirley were also encouraged by their families to pursue higher degrees — older siblings paid tuition for the younger ones. They sent their boys to Mid-Pacific Institute for high school and paid college tuition for all six kids. This high value placed on education has been extended to the grandchildren, too. The tradition created four independent business owners, one professional educator and one state Senator.

    Love and Marriage
    At the same time Les was at UH, Shirley was attending business college in Honolulu and living in a beach hut where the Hilton Hawaiian Village now stands. She was studying hard, babysitting part-time at Queen’s Surf Hotel and doing bookkeeping for the Niumalu Hotel Restaurant. Handsome Les Ihara happened to be bussing tables at Niumalu and fell for beautiful, upbeat Shirley.

    “She agreed to go to a dance with me — that was great,” reminisced Les. “Shirley is all the things I am not. She is outgoing, thrifty and laughs a lot. I am very appreciative and still love to be around her. My goal is to spoil her and make her happy.”

    They could hardly wait to be married, but Les’ family would not allow it until he graduated and had a job. He received his degree on June 14, 1950, and landed a job in Hilo as a social worker a few months later. On Shirley’s birthday, they were married in the Niumalu Hotel garden on the afternoon of Sept. 4, 1950. That night, Les and Shirley flew to Hilo and the next day, Les began his first job.

    The Korean War started a week after Les graduated from college. Les got a few months deferment, but in early 1951, he was drafted and took basic training at Schofield Barracks on O‘ahu and later at Fort Ord, California. After basic training, he had a choice to finish advanced basic training and go to Korea as an infantryman, or to enroll in Officer Candidate School (OCS). Of course, he chose OCS at Fort Bliss in El Paso, Texas. Shirley, who was carrying their first child, stayed with her oldest sister on O‘ahu and joined him later.

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    Shirley served as a volunteer with the American Red Cross. Her Family has followed in her footsteps with extensive involvement in many community services.

    Be Patient; Be Tolerant
    Les was commissioned a second lieutenant in May 1952 and was assigned to Camp Roberts near San Miguel, California, where an all-Caucasian National Guard outfit from Alabama was in active duty training for the Korean War. He was the only non-white officer in the entire battalion but he said he didn’t feel any discrimination. In late 1953, the Army was ordered to integrate. Les was then a platoon leader and when black soldiers joined the unit, he experienced, firsthand, the effects of discrimination. At that time, soldiers carried half a field tent in their backpacks. At night, two men piched their tents together. “I could not believe that all those guys were trying to bed down
    togetherness-a-family-tradition-9in half-tents. I ordered them to put the tents together, but the order was never carried out and I knew my superiors would never back me up.” Nevertheless, Les stood by his values of tolerance and kindness. “One time in college, a gang of tough guys sucker punched me. I got away, ran to the Coke machine and broke an empty bottle to make a weapon to defend myself. They decided not to beat me up, and I will never forget that feeling of being outnumbered. I teach my kids to be tolerant and kind to everyone.”

    Look at Change as Adventure
    Career Army families get bounced around among duty assignments. The term “Army brat” comes from Army children who were traumatized by moving around from place to place. Psychologists found that the parents’ attitude about change determined if the children were hurt by the moves or grew up well-adjusted. This is where Shirley’s “Pollyanna” view of life, seeing the good in people, places and events, was a distinct advantage. Instead of saying, “Oh no!— not another move,” Shirley would respond, “Korea? Great! I want to see the world!” Her children learned to love adventure and look for fun in new undertakings.

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    Cross-country trips were always an adventure and a democratic process.

    In following years, the growing Ihara family moved wherever the Army needed Les: Hawai‘i, Germany, Kansas, Virginia, California and Korea. Shirley recalled, “I was one of the wives who moved and followed my husband to most of his duty stations. The only place I did not go was Vietnam. For me, it was exciting to see new places and meet new people. When the kids were small, it was no problem moving them from one school to another. Every new place was an adventure. In Germany, Percy was born and he stayed with a nanny while we took the older children on trips to the Benelux countries and Switzerland. Sometimes we would leave all the children at home and get away for a weekend by ourselves. It was a great life.”

    Percy recalls long cross-country trips to Virginia in the family’s Country Squire Station Wagon. The children passed the long hours playing cards — Paiute (Hawaiian Knock Poker) was a favorite. “After my dad clocked 500 miles, we began looking for a motel with vacancies, a pool and a kitchenette. After checking out a few, we would all vote on where to stay. In those days, if a motel had a color TV, it might win our vote.” Family democracy is a way of teaching children the power of the vote, how to debate your point of view, and how to accept the group’s authority, if you don’t win. This is a powerful form of mutual support.

    Shirley’s zest for life resonates in younger generations of Iharas. They all love to travel. Annual family vacations bring 30 to 40 members of the Ihara clan together, and Les and Shirley pay for everything. “We would not be able to afford the vacations for our family if they didn’t take us to Canada, Washington and almost every Hawaiian Island over the past 20 years,” said oldest daughter Sherry. This love for the unknown and ability to find fun in new situations plays out in many ways. One is managing risk and return, the hallmark of entrepreneurs. Converting adversity into blessing has become an Ihara family “trait.”

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    “It’s very important to laugh every single day and enjoy life.”~Shirley

    Social Responsibility
    Being the spouse of a commissioned officer living on an Army base challenged Shirley with new family and social responsibilities. She learned to be an extraordinary hostess. On the spur of the moment, she needed to be prepared to graciously accompany Les to formal functions at the officers’ club. She said with a smile that a nice set of pearls “will turn any dress into proper dinner attire — I learned that from other Army wives.” She also fondly remembers a major’s wife who taught her to play bridge. “That was nearly 60 years ago. She invited me to join other ladies for lunch and bridge.” She added, “They said I was a fun person and I certainly enjoyed the game. Les and I still play once a week.”

    Helping one another translates to community, too. Before Les retired as a colonel, he helped a lot of younger soldiers learn the ropes of military command. Shirley volunteered extensively with the American Red Cross. These expressions of altruism were not lost on their children — they and their families are civil servants, volunteers, educators and community business people. All Ihara family members devote themselves to community service by volunteering for nonprofits, churches and community athletics. Now their grandchildren volunteer, too.

    Enjoy Life With Your Family — Stay Connected

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    “It’s very important to laugh every single day and enjoy life.”~Shirley

    Shirley is definitely fun to be around. “Les has learned to be a good laugher,” she said. “It is so easy to become grumpy; it’s very important to laugh every single day and enjoy life.”

    I think the Iharas mastered something that some families might take for granted. It is mutual respect and support. Family members stay connected even though they are busy, because you can’t really be supportive if you don’t know what challenges your family is facing. Once a month, Shirley and Les and all the four generations get together for a meal. There’s opportunity for real connection when they go on an extended vacation together.

    Les and Shirley have a life of their own, too — Las Vegas every other month and a cruise once a year. Shirley is thankful that she could focus on her family because she never had to take a job. She also quips that she is not ready to “retire” from her family responsibilities: cooking fabulous meals and keeping track of all 14 grandchildren.

    In the close and supportive Ihara family, these are the values that Shirley and Les learned from their parents and grandparents: be honest, work hard, go after what you want and stick with it. They maintain family togetherness by committing themselves to enjoying life by keeping a tolerant and upbeat attitude, by supporting other family members in what they want to do and by spending time helping others in their community.

    In November, Les and Shirley were doting on a new Ihara great-grandchild in Washington State. Their six children are passing down Ihara family traditions to 14 grandchildren and a fourth generation of nine great-grandchildren. These are wonderful lessons for all families, and to Les and Shirley we say, “Thank you.” To us they say, “Gaman!”

    Family is a very important source of virtues and values. Our ancestors collected generational wisdom from their ancestors — surviving and thriving through famines, wars, migrations, dynasties and empires. Closely knit families can be a source of nurturing, support and protection for their members; family and cultural traditions support us through important life passages, and…

  • Brothers in Arms

    Brothers in Arms

     

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    Our brothers, and sister, in arms (L–R): Bo (Cummins) Mahoe – Vietnam War, Ronald Gella – Korean War, Ted Tsukiyama – World War II, Rona F. Adams – Vietnam War

    The story of every veteran describes his or her contribution to the defense of American ideals — life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Their stories always represent their brothers in arms who did not return, reminding us of the terrible price of war in lost lives, destruction of civilian communities, and terrors that infest both mind and soul. We cannot know the profound trauma that military and civilian survivors of war carry in their hearts, but if we listen to what they share, we can be supportive friends, laughing with them when they laugh; crying when they cry.

    Over 50,000 senior veterans of World War II, Korea and Vietnam live in Hawai‘i. Add to that another 70,000 younger veterans who either served in peacetime or completed tours in recent wars in the Middle East. Coming soon are Veterans Day on Nov. 11, the 75th anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7 and the 50th anniversary of the commemoration of the Vietnam War in May 2017. If you don’t know much about the wars our senior veterans fought, learning a little bit about them will be an eye-opener. Hawai‘i veterans have done so much for our country.

    The job of every veteran is a small tactical piece of a massive strategic war operation. Herein lies the dilemma of combat survivors: They don’t call themselves heroes. They call their fallen brothers in arms “real heroes.” In military operations, everyone who follows orders — supply personnel, radio operators, air controllers, pilots, cooks, nurses, mechanics, interpreters, drivers, tankers, military brass  and combat soldiers — earns respect.

    Civilians assess wars by outcomes — leading to a very different definition of a hero. Just like a naïve child, we ask, “What did you do in the war?”— hoping to hear a battle story. Turn the page and learn what three American brothers and one sister in arms share about their service in three different wars. Their message to us is consistent: All veterans deserve our gratitude and respect.

     

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    Ronald, third from the right, with his platoon friends. A time he remembers, but does not speak of often.

    Ron Gella grew up in Waipahu, where his dad worked for O‘ahu Sugar Company. “I attended the sugar company elementary school, and right after graduating from Waipahu High School, joined the U.S. Marine Corps. First, I was sent to Camp Pendleton in San Diego , California, then to a reserve unit at Pearl Harbor. I was then sent to the main headquarters for 30 days of combat training, and finally, to the attack transport ship, USS Thomas Jefferson for 14 days more training at Yokosuka Naval Base in Japan.”

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_rongella_image2The Chinese Communist Forces (CCF) had issued an ultimatum to United Nations Supreme Cmdr. Douglas MacArthur that any movement north of the 38th parallel would be met with force. He did not take the threat seriously and on Sept. 15, 1950, the 1st Division Marines were part of a surprise amphibious landing of U.N. forces at the western port of Incheon, just 25 miles west of Seoul. Gen. MacArthur planned the invasion because U.N. allied troops were locked in by communist forces in the eastern Pusan Perimeter. A ruse made the communists believe an attack would come 105 miles south at Kunsan, so only a few enemy units showed up to defend the muddy flats of Incheon. U.N. forces immediately crossed the 38th parallel and headed north to take back the western half of Korea from the communists. Gella’s company landed last, on Sept. 16, and began a bloody fight inland to take Seoul. Gen. Edward Almond declared the city liberated on Sept. 25.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_rongella_image3Like many combat veterans, Ron does not talk about the details of his combat service. “I prefer to keep it to myself,” he said. “It ended up all right; for that I am grateful.”

    “Our mission was to take back the capital of Seoul,” said Ron. “We secured the city, but there was more work to do. After that, we fought at Pusan, and in late November, ships took us up to Wonsan on the east coast, to support the final offensive to take all of Korea from the communists.”

    The U.N. campaign up the western part of Korea was successful and troops were approaching the Yalu River on the Manchurian border. Newspapers at home reported that all that remained was to “clean up and get home by Christmas.” All that was left was the northeast corner of Korea, a mountainous region that included Chosin Reservoir. From the port of Hungnam on the east coast of Korea, a force of about 15,000 1st Division Marines, two battalions of the 7th Army and a unit of British Royal Marine Commandos began a 78-mile march on a dirt road through a pass in the Taebaek Mountains to the reservoir. There they would meet U.N. forces coming from the reservoir’s west end. This operation would complete the U.N. mission to liberate the Republic of Korea.

    Fighting through roadblocks on the narrow trail through the mountains was successful, and camps were established at Koto-ri, the halfway point, and Yudan-ri, near the reservoir. On the night of of Nov. 27 at Yudan-ri, 120,000 CCF who had secretly taken up positions in the mountains, ambushed the Marines in the valley. Losses were great. On the west end of the reservoir, Commu-nist forces also routed the 8th Army and U.N. troops, who were subsequently ordered to retreat below the 38th parallel.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_rongella_image4Ron and the other surviving Marines were ordered to withdraw back down the narrow trail to Hungnam. Besides their disadvantaged position in the tight valley, Marines struggled in clothing and gear that was not sufficient for 30-degree-below-zero temperatures. Casualties were so great that there was no room in hospital tents; blood plasma froze and medications in syringes had to be warmed in the medic’s mouth in order to stay liquid. Many soldiers suffered severe frostbite injuries. At one point on the trail, U.S. Army Engineers built a temporary bridge between two peaks, and after the entire force crossed, blew it up — a bold move that provided a jump on the pursuing CCF. Under the most adverse weather conditions, U.S. fliers helped by suppying some air cover.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_rongella_image5Click by click, the battered U.S. troops pulled together every ounce of reserve and miraculously fought their way back to Hungnam harbor. They sustained more casualties than any other Marine battle but Iwo Jima, and transported out all their dead and wounded with them.

    “We brought out over 100,000 Korean civilians, too,” said Ron.

    With 3,000 killed in action and 12,000 casualties, including 6,000 wounded in action, the survivors of the Battle of Chosin Reservoir are called “The Chosin Few.” The CCF reported 45,000 casualties. The fighting in Korea continued until the 1953 armistice.

    “We boarded ships in Hungnam with thousands of civilian refugees and bugged out to Japan,” said Ron. “From there, I came home to Waipahu.”

    Coming home for veterans of the Korean War was difficult. After enduring so much, there was no heroes’ welcome. The military operation is often referred to as “The Forgotten War.”

    “When we came home, except for my parents, there was nobody at the airport to meet us — no flag waving, no band, no honor guard — that hollow surprise is something that always stuck with me,” said Ron. “I went home to Waipahu for a while, and then, because I was still in the reserves, they sent me to San Diego. You know what duty they gave me? Gate guard! I will never understand that.”

    If you know a veteran who served in Korea, make a special effort to let him or her know they are not forgotten. We may never know how much suffering they endured. Ron and many combat heroes like him don’t seek attention and may never talk about their war stories, except perhaps with other combat veterans who understand how it was there.

    We civilians cannot begin to understand what our veterans went through. All we can do is show our gratitude and perhaps make up for the heroes’ welcome they never got. Most of all, personally honor them and their willingness to serve.

     

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    Ted remembers enlisting as soon as he was allowed. It was a proud move he made without hesitation — he was an American.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_tedtsukiyama_image2Not all of the 14,000 Nisei of the 100th Infantry Battalion and 442nd Regimental Combat Team (RCT) served in Italy and France during WWII. Over 6,000 were in Military Intelligence Service in many theaters.

    At 95, Ted Tsukiyama clearly remembers the Pearl Harbor attack in 1941. An ROTC student at University of Hawai‘i, he was told to report for military duty in the Hawaii Territorial Guard (HTG) to protect bridges, reservoirs, pumping stations, schools. Soon after that, Washington ordered Japanese-Americans dismissed from HTG, classifying Ted as a “4C Enemy Alien.” Japanese-American active military at Schofield Barracks were also reassigned to nonmilitary posts.

    “Living in Hawai‘i, our Japanese ancestry never mattered,” said Ted. “But after Pearl Harbor, Japan was our enemy and our enemy had faces just like ours. One time, a Hawaiian guy asked a Japanese American HTG member, ‘Who you gonna shoot?’ The distrust hurt; I was an American.”

    In California, first-generation Japanese immigrants were uprooted and moved to internment camps in the interior of the mainland, but for the moment, American-born Nisei, who the military called “Americans of Japanese Ancestry” (AJA), were neither friend nor foe.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_tedtsukiyama_image3In 1942, Japanese-American ROTC students at University of Hawai‘i boldly declared their loyalty to the “Stars and Stripes” and petitioned UH to form the Varsity Victory Volunteers (VVV). Once assembled, this labor battalion assisted the 34th Army Engineers to construct military installations and fences. They also installed barbed wire defenses and worked in quarries.

    “I was a VVV, and as soon as the War Department formed a special Nisei combat unit in 1943, I signed up,” said Ted. The Nisei excelled in military training, and soon, the 100th Infantry Battalion, 442nd RCT, 552nd Field Artillery Battalion and 1399th Engineering Construction Battalion were sent to fight in Italy and France. This band of brothers with the “Go for Broke” motto became World War II’s, most decorated combat unit, earning nearly 16,000 decorations, including 21 Congressional Medals of Honor and eight Presidential Unit Commendations.

    “In 1944, after completing Army boot camp at Camp Pendleton instead of combat training in Mississippi, I was assigned to Military Intelligence Service Language School (MISLS),” said Ted. “The War Department had concluded that Americans of Japanese ancestry who had attended Japanese language schools in Hawai‘i or Japan would be very useful in intelligence.”

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_tedtsukiyama_image4The first MISLS was at the Presidio, but in 1941, anti-Japanese sentiment was so rife 
in California that the War Department moved the school to Fort Snelling, near St. Paul and Minneapolis, Minnesota, where the students would be safer. From 1942 to 1945, over 6,000 students — mostly Nisei — trained as translators, interpreters and code crackers to assist allied troops in the Pacific theater. “I spoke Japanese but had to learn heigo military language for my job, intercepting and translating into English all the Japanese Air Force pilots’ radio communications in the China-Burma-India air space.”

    Ted’s parents had come to O‘ahu from Tokyo in 1911 and worked in a relative’s retail store — the Japanese Bazaar. He grew up American in a large Nisei community. “We knew about the Japanese wars with China but never thought about an attack on Hawai‘i,” said Ted.

    “I was assigned to the 6th Army Air OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_tedtsukiyama_image5Force Radio Squadron Mobile Unit in the China-Burma-India Theater,” said Ted. “We were a ‘Special Interception Unit,’ supporting the 10th Air Force and the British forces who were taking back Burma [now Myanmar]. We were eavesdroppers. The Japanese occupied nearly all of Southeast Asia and there was a lot of chatter on the airwaves. They had no idea we were listening. My job was to transcribe, translate and report all communications, and report them to U.S. Intelligence HQ. We had 150 Nisei from the 442nd intercepting, translating, interrogating prisoners and even broadcasting messages into enemy territories. We had to be careful not to be mistaken for the enemy; buddying up with a haole soldier was a wise move.”

    The Imperial Army’s plan was to starve out the Chinese by closing down the supply route from India. While the 13th Air Force was helping the Chinese allies, the strategic mission of the 10th Air Force in Burma, which Ted’s unit supported, was to protect truck convoys and chase off the Imperial Army. “We worked in four teams around the clock and moved around wherever we were needed, keeping track of what the Japanese pilots were up to — sometimes in Ledo, India, near the Burma border, or on the China end of the road at Bhamo and Myitkyina. We took our radio equipment wherever we were needed — our intelligence helped the British recover Burma and kept the Chinese allies alive.

    “After the war, I finished college on the G.I. Bill at Indiana University. In 1950, I graduated from Yale Law School, returned home to Honolulu and began a long career in general law and labor-management arbitration. My wife, Fuku, and I raised one daughter and 
two sons.”

    Hongwanji Mission in Honolulu has named Ted a “Living Legacy of Hawai‘i.

    Ted served decades as a historian for the 442nd RCT Veterans Club and MIS Veterans Club in Honolulu. His detailed and thoroughly indexed research, titled, “The Ted Tsukiyama Papers,” is a compilation of public records, correspondence and veteran interviews. It is available to the public at University of Hawai‘i Hamilton Library and Evols open-access digital library. To read the papers and learn more about the Nisei in WWII, visit www.evols.library.manoa.hawaii.edu/.

     

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    Rona Adams with her commanding officer. She proudly served for two years.

    O.K. Now I’m sure you wonder how a nice, young Jewish girl from Los Angeles, who hung out in Beverly Hills, ever got to Vietnam. Before I start my story, I want to thank all of the medics, corpsmen and dust-off crews that were over there; without them, we couldn’t have done it.

    Well, as a little kid (never ask a lady her age, right?) after WWII, I saw a war movie called, So Proudly We Hail with Jeannie Crane, Veronica Lake (the sexy blond with hair hanging over one eye) and Claudette Colbert. Three Army nurses in Bataan heard the enemy coming toward their hospital tents, but they couldn’t leave their patients (it was considered desertion) — so Veronica put a grenade in her bosom, went outside and blew up the enemy. I decided then and there I wanted to be an Army nurse in combat.

    I always remembered that movie. After high school and college, I went off to nursing school in San Francisco. I was a nurse, but there wasn’t a war then, so I returned to LA and became an operating room nurse — they need those in a war.

    When the U.S. got involved in Vietnam, I was still very impressionable and saw the movie In Harm’s Way. I thought, OK. Here’s my chance. I had a long talk with my mother because I was an only child; my father passed away when I was a kid. She could have prevented me from putting myself in harm’s way.

    I also researched the military branches. I didn’t want the Navy, since I got queasy even on the moored Queen Mary in Long Beach — so I walked into the recruiting office in LA and told the recruiter that I was a nurse, and I wanted to join the Army and go to Vietnam. Needless to say, he thought I was crazy.

    Right before I was sworn in with a bunch of other people, I got cold feet and almost backed out, but the recruiter had a good hold on me. By that afternoon, I was Capt. Rona Adams, U.S. Army Nurse Corps. I had signed my life away for two years.

    A few months down the road, I reported for about seven-and-a-half weeks of basic training at Ft. Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas. If you ever saw Private Benjamin, that was me.

    Shipping out, I sat in a bar at the San Francisco Airport overlooking the UC Berkley campus wondering what the heck did I do? I may never come back, for heaven’s sake. I may never be in the Polo Lounge at the Beverly Hills Hotel again! I’m going to be taking a bath out of a helmet…

    Packed in my footlocker were all the wrong uniforms for Vietnam, a jungle combat zone with two types of weather — hot and wet or hot and dry. They gave us standard fatigues and boots, men’s long johns and headgear with warm earmuffs — leftovers from Korea. It also contained 200 pounds of Kotex! They didn’t have that stuff over there. Things have really changed for women in the military.

    Over the Pacific, I downed a few toddies, stopped in Guam and then arrived in Vietnam. Those puffs of smoke in the sky sure as heck didn’t look like clouds… and camouflaged stuff with sandbags all over the place. Then it struck me. Oh my God, I am in a war!

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_ronaadams_image4At Saigon’s airport, I sat on my footlocker and waited. An older Navy officer came by, looked at my nametag and asked, “Is anyone coming to pick you up, Capt. Adams?” “I don’t think so, sir,” I replied. “Do you know where you are headed?”

    “I don’t think so, sir,” I said, handing him my orders, (which I did not know how to read). He told me to sit tight and got a couple of guys to pick me up and take me to see the chief nurse. I guess my orders were for Tay Ninh, but the chief nurse reassigned this operating room nurse (who also ran a cardiac catheter lab) to the 3rd Field Hospital in Saigon. Then the guys took me to BOQ #2 for the night.

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    Rona receiving her Bronze Star medal, recognizing heroism and achievements in a combat zone.

    That next day, the chief nurse showed me around the hospital. I had seen people die, but I was not prepared for the horrific injuries I saw that day. I met a soldier with a suction chest wound, who could hardly get enough air to speak. When I asked him how he was, he sputtered, “Fine.” That got me, and I will say that I cried my way through Vietnam. American soldiers press through unbelievable injuries and never complain. They use humor to cope with the most devastating situations. Their valor impresses me so much.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_ronaadams_image3Our hospital was right in the city of Saigon. Military Police were our first line of defense, and fortunately, we never came under attack. During the Tet Offensive, we had 200 casualties arrive in the first 10 to 12 hours. I was the head nurse of the emergency room, and I don’t know how we got through it.

    After Tet, I extended. Being a beach bum from California, I chose the 8th Field Hospital in NHA Trang as my duty station, because it was near the ocean. Actually, this was a more dangerous location because we were right next to an airfield connected to the 5th Special Forces camp — both juicy targets. Special Forces posted a list of their KIAs. After Tet Offensive, it got very long. It was hard to lose those guys.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_ronaadams_image6I left the Army after two tours and returned home, but nobody asked me about my war experience. Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) was not even a recognized diagnosis then. Even if it was, doctors or nurses with a mental disorder could never find work. I didn’t know any other veterans, so I never talked about Vietnam.

    I gravitated away from operating room work, became a director of nursing and then took a corporate job managing surgical services for seven hospitals. Later, I moved to Hawai‘i and managed a surgicenter in Honolulu.

    After two years, I retired and got involved in service to other veterans. I call it “paying back.” Veteran volunteers find it a very healthy way to connect with our memories and help others do the same. A lot of our brothers in arms are hurting like we are.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_ronaadams_image5I belong to Jewish War Veterans out of respect for my father, the Veterans of Foreign Wars, and I am also the president of O‘ahu Chapter 858 of the Vietnam Veterans of America (VVA), the only chapter in Hawai‘i.

    When I take my two certified therapy dogs, Bindi and Mele, to Tripler Army Medical Center to visit the patients, I wear my special VVA polo shirt that says, “I’m a Vietnam Vet, and “I am Bindi and Mele’s Mom.” The nurses thank me for my service and say that we oldtimers paved the way for them. That feels good. Friends who understand your burdens are the best kind of support. Together, we can do anything!

     

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    “We were determined to return to Lahaina when our duty was over.”

    Bo (Cummins) Mahoe calls himself a reluctant soldier. Draftees were given 30 days to take an aptitude test and talk with recruiters about duty options, but Bo and his cousin didn’t bother. They went straight into the infantry. “I fit the Army’s requirements for pointman, the person who walks through the jungle 30 to 40 feet ahead of the squad, watching out for booby traps and signs of enemy combatants. It’s the ‘point of the spear’ concept,” he said. At 20, he was in front of the front line.

    “Philip Chun, my cousin from Honokohau, Maui, and I got drafted together, and we spent our military service side by side. We were determined to return to Lahaina when our duty was over.” Their will to live and return is the core of American grit and a shining ideal. But for those who make it, survivor’s guilt is a dark reality.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_bomahoe_image5“Our training in California was almost six months long; we landed in Vietnam Feb. 1,” said Bo. “For us island soldiers, it was pretty cold.” In Vietnam, Bo and his brothers in arms faced a war very different war from WWII. The former French-Indonesian Republic of Vietnam had been fighting against the Viet Cong communists in the north for two decades. Civilians in North and South Vietnam survived by complying with both sides, creating a complicated web of stealth, intrigue and deception that often seemed impenetrable. Taking ground was a measure of victory in previous wars, but not in Vietnam. Sometimes the troops wondered why they fought for ground only to give it up the next day.

    Bo, a descendant of High Chief Pi‘ilani, grew up in a Lahaina home fronting Mālā Wharf. Like all American kids, he was hooked on Hopalong Cassidy, Rowdy Yates, John Wayne, Randolph Scott and The Lone Ranger. He and a large pack of neighborhood kids enjoyed playing outdoors and slinging cap gun six-shooters.

    OctNov2016 - brothersinarms_bomahoe_image2“Growing up in the diversity of Hawai‘i made adjusting to the military much easier to handle,” said Bo. “The Vietnam jungle, although more humid than home, offered the same terrain, vegetation and a familiar botanical garden most island kids grew up in. We were the only ones who recognized the edible plants.”

    Bo credits his Army training, too. “The Army helped us stay alive,” Bo said. “They teach that everyone — and especially those involved in combat arms (point of the spear) — should always be prepared. Preparation, like school homework, offers the best outcome for any obstacle. Another military mantra is ‘adapt and overcome.’ If a fellow soldier is wounded or killed, you have to be able to continue the mission, even without the support of that individual.”

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    When American troops first deployed to Vietnam, pointmen drew first fire. As the war went on, the Viet Cong learned that they could save ammunition and kill more Americans by letting the pointman go by and waiting to ambush the full platoon. “Why kill these guys — let them go and shoot the bunch behind. By the time I got there, the longevity of a pointman was pretty good,” said Bo. “I stayed alive 10 months.”

    “Another problem for us island guys was when our squad was being picked up by choppers in the jungle,” said Bo. “As pointmen, Philip and I would run out to be extracted first. Sometimes the helicopter gunners would fire at us because Chinese-Hawaiian guys look like Viet Congs. That was hazardous duty! “

    Like many veterans, Bo Mahoe does not talk about the terrors and brutality he faced. But he is deeply involved with service to other veterans, for whom he serves as an advocate.

    “The army offered us a very abrupt transition from combat duty to civilian life,” Bo said. “In 48 hours, cousin Phillip and I went from sergeants to misters. Today, soldiers coming back from Iraq have six months of service in the U.S. with transition programs to help them re-enter civilian culture. When I came home to Maui, there was nobody to talk to. A veteran on O‘ahu can interact with active military and their families because the Army, Navy, Marine, Air Force and Coast Guard all have strong representation on O‘ahu. I have only one high school classmate who experienced combat, Peter Nararino. We came home different. Besides this social isolation at home, Veterans Affairs was sluggish in its efforts to help the Vietnam veteran. They did not recognize PTSD until 1981. Since the ’90s, the VA has made major strides toward providing benefits and services to veterans from all wars.”

    Veterans can relate to other veterans in service organizations. Bo is member of Koa Kahiko — Molokai Veterans Caring for Veterans. “Two days before Larry Helm, commander and one of the founders, died, he said to me, ‘Take care of the veterans!’ So I work with many veterans groups and events on Maui. I am a member of the Maui Nō Ka ‘Oi Chapter 282, Korean War Veterans, and it reaffirms that although the theaters are different and the weaponry is different, the human experience of combat is identical.

    Even our Global War on Terrorism soldiers  work in different climates, with more sophisticated weaponry, but the common denominator is the combat experience.

    “Only half of 1 percent of Americans wears the uniform,” Bo said. “Female veterans have shared unique perspectives of what was formerly a male-dominant culture. Again, I was a reluctant soldier; reluctant in that I was drafted into the military. Since the draft ended in the mid-1970s, individuals serving in today’s military do not have the reluctance I had. I salute their patriotism.”

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    Bo proudly displays his veteran’s chapter and regiment emblems (left).

    When asked what wisdom he has for friends and family of veterans, Bo shared this advice: “Although our nation honors our veterans on Veterans Day, Nov. 11, all citizens should extend that honor to them every day. Veterans have ensured that American citizens enjoy freedoms and liberties, daily, so, gratitude one day a year is insufficient. Remember that the young veteran man or woman left home a civilian and returned home a changed individual. Honor that change.”

    These four heroes teach us this: It is the duty of civilians to welcome home veterans. When they reach out, we may be able to help them reconnect, find medical and social assistance, find meaningful work and create a living space that is safe and comfortable. We can never understand what they endured, how haunted they are by memories or how difficult it is to re-enter civilian life. However, we can give them the respect and honor due a warrior and protector of freedom.

     

    Brothers in Arms by Katherine Kama‘ema‘e Smith from the Oct-Nov 2016 issue of Generations Magazine, Hawai‘i’s Resource for Life

  • Aloha Remains at the ‘The Cal’

    Aloha Remains at the ‘The Cal’

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    What’s new at The California Hotel and Casino — downtown Las Vegas’ largest iconic hotel? Its multi-million-dollar refurb designed to preserve “Aloha Spoken Here” bumps up the comfort experience to a new level for family members of all ages. Frequent visitors from Hawai‘i will experience hundreds of fresh and different updates, but at the heart, “The Cal” remains the friendly, safe and relaxing “home away from home” that Hawai‘i travelers desire. Take a look at some of the new digs and see what’s coming next!

    The Cal is Open for Fun!

    We decided to feature The Cal now, so that all our readers will know what to expect on their next visit to Las Vegas. After all, in Hawai‘i, we are used to hearing about hotels refreshing their décor and amenities. It’s commonplace in the hospitality industry for hotels to close down for renovations. But at The Cal, asking guests to reschedule their vacations and temporarily laying off staff are not in the playbook. Instead, they are upgrading the hard way, redoing one or two things at a time while they offer their treasured guests seamless service and uninterrupted “aloha.”

    One look at the hotel lobby tells you that these renovations are not small or insignificant. The area is opened up with cool, bright travertine tile, glamorous artwork and upscale lighting. It is so stunning that I was relieved to see familiar faces at the desk — folks who know my name and welcome me with aloha. Our Generations Magazine staff was on the job with photo shoots, interviews and getting the June-July issue to the printer, but we sacrificed a little sleep to enjoy ourselves in the casino. Many of us need to work while we are on vacation and The Cal staff was eager to accommodate our specific needs.

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    The laughing Buddha in the lobby gets lots of attention. Some rub his tummy with one hand; others insist that two hands brings luck. The hotel collects all the coin “offerings” on the statue and donates the money to United Way Hawai’i — it’s another way The Cal extends true aloha.

    First on my list was my mission find the famous Buddha — yes, he’s still here! Rubbing his tummy doesn’t guarantee that I will be a winner, but the tradition warms good memories of many happy days at my Las Vegas home.

    Generations Magazine -Glory Connolley, Sanya Fujiwara and Lorraine Teixeira were sitting in the lobby, waiting to go back home to O‘ahu. That’s a curious thing about this place. Folks are smiling 
on their way in and on their way out. They were having a wonderful time and loved the clean, bright new décor.

    The front desk is a very small part of the whole hotel and casino, but it leads to other renovations — some complete — others starting later this year and next spring. Already, new carpeting with red hibiscus flows throughout the whole casino floor. New ceiling lights open up the room and enhance the gaming experience (particularly noticeable at the craps tables). A powerful ventilation system keeps the air fresh, and new machines and games mix in with old favorites. The Redwood Bar & Grill is undergoing a makeover, and under design are a brand-new sports bar and a casino sports lounge with sports book. When these major casino up-grades are finished, a West Tower hotel room remodel will begin in the fall.

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    Asian Fusion Comfort Food

    I understand Sam Boyd, who started The California over 45 years ago, lived in Hawai‘i and loved local-style food. Through the years, The Cal tradition for Asian-inspired dining options has grown up to the tastes of 21st century Hawaiian travelers. Now chic Honolulu-style has come to The Noodle House — light wood flooring, dark Oriental-style tables and chairs, an open kitchen and high, open ceilings. Minimal accents of Asian pottery and framed rice bags are set off by crisp red linens to finish the look of this fine family eatery. Last year, it opened with a superb cosmopolitan array of Asian stews and noodle tapas — seafood, pork, beef or vegetables. Since then, the menu has evolved to full entrée portions that lend well to sharing, but the prices are still very reasonable. Our eyes were bigger than stomachs. Four of us shared five dishes that compare to Honolulu’s Asian fusion restaurant fare. Without drinks, the bill (with tip) was under $140, and we took plenty of leftovers back to our rooms to snack on later. Yum!

    In mid-August, authentic lū‘au foods, local stews and bento treats will again be served on the mezzanine at a renovated Aloha Specialties. Lappert’s Ice Cream, which offers hot coffee and doughnuts in the morning, will be renovated this winter. On the main floor, The Market Street Café serves a full menu: breakfast through dinner and on to midnight snacks, and their famous oxtail stew. Even though there is often a line, service is speedy and a full meal only grabs a half-hour out of your gaming schedule. Meat lovers will not be denied one meal while The Redwood Bar & Grill undergoes a facelift this summer. The chefs will be serving their Las Vegas steakhouse menu we love — at the Main Street Station Pullman Room — a hop, skip and a jump away. Hospitality with aloha continues at The Cal.

    We ran into a group of friends who travel together to The Cal a few times a year. Elaine Terai started visiting in the late ’90s, but Hank and Jane Takara, and Ron and Marjie Malilay say they have been coming since the casino opened in the ’70s. “It became a second home,” said Jane. “It wasn’t so big then — the entrance was right by the Market Street Café.”

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    (L–R) 1994 Golden Arm Ron Malilay and Candace Kawakami from Honolulu; poker players Elaine Terai and Marjie Malilay; reunioneers and blackjack fans Hank and Jane Takata

    Aloha Still Spoken Here

    Ron is a Golden Arm winner (1994) who held the dice for one hour and 24 minutes. “I was at the same table with Stanley Fujitake the night he threw the dice for over three hours,” said Ron. That was the start of The Golden Arm Club that later led to The Annual Golden Arm Tournament played every April at The Cal.

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    On the wall next to the craps pit is a case with brass plaques engraved with the names of players who rolled the dice continuously for one hour or more at The Cal. The Golden Arm Club began in 1958, when Stanley Fujitake rolled for three hours and 12 minutes — a feat that has never been repeated. The odds of rolling for hour are the same as hitting a hole-in-one. Even so, there are 300 Golden Arm Club members and a “Platinum Wall” of repeat members on the mezzanine. Craps players love The Cal.

    Ron grinned. “You know what? I left and went to bed right before Fujitake took the dice. In the morning, I heard everyone who bet on Stanley won big — the cage ran out of chips and had to issue script for players!” He explained that as hard as it is to escape rolling a seven for over an hour, on average, two lucky people do it every month. All their names (including Ron’s) are on the Golden Arm Wall of Fame.

    Craps players love The Cal.

    At home in Honolulu, Elaine and Marjie play regular poker with friends once a month, but here, they become video poker players. After hours of intense play, they relax at the blackjack tables. “The dealers are so friendly here,” said Marjie. “A serious blackjack or craps table is no fun — betting seems like work. Playing at The Cal is enjoyable. Everyone is so happy and helpful.”

    Jane appreciates personal service. “Hank and I travel a lot and do a lot of community work. I think what impresses us most about The Cal is that they listen to us — and treat us like family, not strangers.” Her Waipahu High School reunion and Ron and Marjie’s Kahuku reunion were both held at The Cal this year.

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    A peek at The Cal’s updated casino floor.

    Hank, a serious blackjack player, told me that when he stops to rub the belly of the laughing Buddha every evening, he puts all his pocket change on the statue. “Did you know that the hotel collects the coins off the Buddha and sends the money to United Way in Hawai‘i? That shows you the heart of the management here. They don’t just speak aloha, they live aloha.”

    Comfort of Home in Friendly Surroundings

    Generations Magazine - Aloha-Remains_image12Lisa from Honolulu gives The Cal a thumbs up. “We love the new look! It’s clean and fresh — a very comfortable vibe. Food and staff are just awesome and make your stay heavenly.”

    “There’s a lot going on in the background,” says Susan from Maui. She sees changes since her trip in January. “I saw a new logo sign outside with a big pink hibiscus, and the new carpeting in the casino has hibiscus, too. I love the ‘Game of Thrones’ and Brittany Spears games, and new 3D games are different and fun.” Susan is looking forward to a renovation of the West Tower, too. She said, “I hope they make the rooms as comfortable and luxurious as the new lobby restrooms. They are a ‘10’ in my book.”

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    Get used to the fresh clean look of home! Above is the comfortable lobby seating, and below, an elegantly
    appointed ADA-compliant lobby restroom.

    When you put all the renovations together as we have done for this article, you get a vision of how comfortable and inviting The Cal will be when the whole property plan rolls out — during the rest of this year and into 2017.

    Right now, when you drive into the valet area, your wheels squeal on the new surface. Your friendly valets still greet you by name, but now in a well-lit, sparkling entrance that leads to a bright, clean bell desk and upscale lobby. New directional signs point the way to all your favorite spots. And when you pick up your car, there are benches all the way to the street, so nobody has to stand. A big green neon “Mahalo” sign adds beauty and light to the back wall.

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    What to Expect in Your Next Trip

    Holo Holo, “The Happy Bar,” replaces the San Francisco Bar. It caters to beer drinkers, with microbrewery specialties on draft and in bottles to savor while you enjoy bar-top play. Soon, sports enthusiasts can play in a casino sports lounge with sports book and stay in the game at a brand-new sports bar. The Redwood Bar & Grill returns to the main floor this fall with fresh interior décor that takes the tradition forward, and the whole casino floor will pop with color when all the chairbacks are upholstered in red, orange and purple.

    Generations Magazine - Aloha-Remains_image16West Tower hotel rooms and Aloha hospitality suites will be refurbished later this fall, 2016 — in the same quiet way, without disturbing the stay, play and dining of The Cal’s honored guests.

    One word resounds with everyone we talked to at The Cal —“comfortable.” It refers to more than the soft, luxurious bedding, comfortable chairs in the casino, good food and friendly hospitality. It’s even bigger than an expert, friendly staff, where guests know all the bosses on the property. The Cal has achieved the status of “home” by delivering an affordable comfortable vacation to Hawai‘i travelers for over 40 years. Sheltered from the hustle and bustle of work, responsibilities or even the buzz of Fremont Street, once you set foot inside The Cal, you can sigh in relief, stop holding your pocketbook so tight and relax. Home is so friendly, familiar, safe and comfortable, that playing is easy and fun!

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    Aloha Remains at the ‘The Cal’ by Katherine Kama‘ema‘e Smith from the August-September 2016 issue of Generations Magazine, Hawai‘i’s Resource for Life

  • Aloha iā ‘oe: A Marlene Sai Legacy

    Aloha iā ‘oe: A Marlene Sai Legacy

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    Cover & Feature Story Photography by Brian Suda

     

    Whether singing, producing CDs, acting, developing Kamehameha School alumni or leading community organizations, Marlene Sai does everything from the heart. Judy Garland onced asked, “When do the words come true?” Marlene turns her love songs into reality by the sheer will of her aloha and proven business savvy. We joined Marlene on the site of her latest project, renovating a 114-year-old building to house a senior center.

    The Ka‘akako “pump house” looks so out of place in a forest of towering modern high-rises. For decades, rumors spread that it would be turned into a museum, a restaurant, fine shops or even a car dealership. Now, for the first time in 66 years, Pacific Gateway Center will put this historic industrial building back into use as a community center. This $2.5 million renovation project is supported by an HCDA grant-in-aid and additional funding by the legislature. Remediation of the interior is in progress under the direction of Project Coordinator Marlene Sai, a woman with a reputation for energy, grace, aloha and a remarkable ability to get things done.

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    PBS documentary “Betrayal”

    Marlene Sai, an actress, vocalist and music executive, is popularly known as a grand dame of Hawaiian music, whose signature songs “Kainoa” and “Waikīkī,” and portrayal of Lili‘uokalani in the PBS documentary “Betrayal” won her fame and many awards. What many may not know is that Marlene also worked in administration at Kamehameha Schools and built its alumni department, while continuing to perform select “gigs.”

    Before balancing work and family was ever mentioned, she was raising her two daughters and in the mainstream of two careers. “I have always been in entertainment and always worked every day in an office — even when I was performing nightly in Waikīkī,” said Marlene. Today, she is driving the Pacific Gateway Center project, Nā Kūpuna Makamae Center, and also leading important community projects, such as Kūpuna Power and the Prince Kuhio Hawaiian Civic Club. She created the Kūpuna Power event with Sen. Brickwood Galuteria in 2012 to educate elders about aging issues and to enrich their lives.

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    Now officially called “Nā Kūpuna Makamae Senior Center,” the pump house was designed in 1900 by Oliver G. Traphagen (the architect for the main building of the Moana Surf Westin Resort & Spa). The pump station was part of a larger sanitation system engineered for Honolulu by Rudolph Hering from New York City. The tall stack exhausted a huge steam-driven pump housed here. Traphagen balanced the Romanesque exterior of this 1,500-square-foot fortress with large arched windows and a green tile roof that survived well in our climate. This government facility ceased operations in 1949, when all pumping was taken over by the Ala Moana station. In 1978, the old pump station was registered as a historic building; the current construction will not change any of the building’s exterior design features.

    One might say that the pump station has been waiting for Nā Kūpuna Makama — The Beloved Seniors. It is a place all seniors recognize and can find their way to on TheBus. Because it is a historic building, it will always be an oasis of open sky and green lawn in Kaka‘ako — a legacy of the past. Later this year, Pacific Gateway Center will open its doors as a community haven for activities that initiate fun: hula, music lessons and performance, yoga, tai chi and movie matinée day, to name a few. Marlene and Marketing Coordinator Valery O’Brien are creating meaningful cultural and educational events that will tell the stories of Hawai‘i, and all her people groups and programs that support and grow our community values.

    Follow Your Star

    People in Kamehameha Schools at the same time as Marlene said that her music career came up fast. She is from the musical ‘Ikuwā family. In her early teens, her uncle, Andy Cummings, a Hawaiian musician and composer, taught Marlene some of his songs. One was “Kainoa,” a melody he was scoring for his dear friend, Jimmy Lono Tako, a slack key artist on Hawai‘i Island. Her perfect pronunciation of Hawaiian came from her parents and grandparents. If singing with “Uncle” conjurs visions of fancy music studios with monitors, headsets and hanging mics, Marlene will be quick to describe sitting on the front porch after school, with Uncle Andy teaching her his songs, maybe an hour or two every day. He never told her why he was mentoring her; it was just fun — and Marlene loved to sing.

    “Our family always had gatherings at our home in Kaimukī, where we would come together to enjoy music — playing instruments, singing and dancing. While I attended Kamehameha Schools, the music influence and structuring with a variety of music was plentiful.”

    The key to Marlene is practical grounding. When she graduated from Kamehameha, she got a job working in travel during the summer — earning a living was her priority. “I was on the bottom rung at the agency and pulled Saturday and Sunday shifts. It was OK because I was single. In fact, there were several of us who worked in town on the weekends. Pau hana, we would meet at Joe’s at Waikīkī, near the old Biltmore Hotel, for a snack. We were all just starting out.”

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    Don Ho at Honeyʻs.

    Marlene was a good paddler and knew many of the Waikīkī beach boys. One day, a surfer asked if she and her girlfriends would like to take a ride out to a Kāne‘ohe to a place with good music — Honey’s, a restaurant-bar. “My friend plays good music and manages the place for his mom,” he said. So the next Sunday, they drove over the pali, playing ‘ukulele, singing and laughing the whole way. The 27-year-old entertainer was a fellow named Don Ho. “He was terrific! During the introductions, one of the fellows told Don he should call me up to do a number because ‘this wahine can sing.’ In his kolohe way, Ho said, ‘Yeh — she can sing.’” He did call her to the stage. Marlene sang “Kainoa,” the song her uncle taught her. Ho immediately offered Marlene a part-time job singing at Honey’s — never guessing that she was only 17. She gave him her family’s phone number.

    Marlene said Ho never called her, but a few weeks later, he flagged her over as she drove down Kalākaua Avenue. “I lost the number and been looking for you,” he called from his Thunderbird convertible. He asked her to Honey’s the next night — which turned into the start of her recording career. She remembers casually rehearsing with the band — Sonny Chillingworth, Gary ‘Aiko, Tony Bee and Mike Garcia. She did not know that dignitaries of Hawai‘i ’s entertainment industry were in the audience — Bill Murata, George Chun, Herb Ono and Jack deMello — to hear Chillingworth play.

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    Above is a rare shot of Marlene recording “Kainoa” in 1960. Above is Don Ho in the early days. Her family and Ho opened Marlene to Hawaiian songs and Kamehameha Schools taught her an appreciation for all kinds of music.

    “After I started at Honey’s, my career took off and I decided not to go on to the University of Hawai‘i. When my “Kainoa” album took off, comedian Lucky Luck, disc jockey J. Akuhead Pupule and Jimmy Walker asked me to be on their radio and TV shows…  soon I was playing at Duke Kahanamoku’s Supper Club in Waikīkī.”

    Put Your Talent to Work

    The hit album “Kainoa” wasn’t recorded track by track in a studio. “Sounds of Hawai‘i label was just building a new studio, so we recorded in the Honolulu Rapid Transit bus barn on King Street, where the police department is now. The acoustics were good late at night, when all the traffic died down and the planes stopped flying overhead,” she said. A live performance “air mix” is a desirable sound, but exceedingly difficult to achieve — the whole number must be performed perfectly. Amid all the parked buses, with the help of some of Hawai‘i’s finest musicians — Chillingworth on straight guitar and slack key, Ho on the organ and Alex Among on vibes — Marlene was able to pull it off.

    Always the quintessential professional, Marlene said, “It‘s a great story, but I still want to digitize the “Kainoa” project to improve the sound.”

    “Kainoa” and “Waikīkī” became her signature songs, later joined by “I Love You,” composed for her by her friend, Teddy Randazzo, an international recording star. In addition to cutting more than 20 albums, she entranced audiences at the biggest Waikīkī hotels — Hilton Hawaiian Village, The Royal Hawaiian Monarch Room, Moana Surf Rider — and supper clubs, such as Don the Beach Comber and Duke Kahanamoku’s.

    Marlene said she still misses Ho. They often reminisced about their little-kid days — when everything was fun and exciting. She affectionately called him “Quack,” (relating to Donald Duck) and Marlene’s nickname was “Goofy” because she sometimes likes to joke and act crazy. “We were young and the industry was so big. I had no plan; I was young and fearless and wanted to explore as far as I could go. I was a baby performer working among greats like Genoa Keawe, Haunani Kahalewai, Alfred Apaka, Maddie Lam, Vicky I‘i Rodrigues and Johnny Almeida, to name a few. I was so blessed.”

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    Marlene Sai has a big following in Japan. Since 1962, she has been performing for Japanese audiences. Here she performs in 2010 with Japanese musicians who specialize in Hawaiian music.

    In contrast to the glamor and glitz of stardom, Marlene was wise and eager to learn the gritty entertainment business. She learned as she went, always tackling projects and getting them done. “Donald helped me negotiate a contract at Duke Kahanamoku’s Supper Club with Kimo McVay. After I had recorded with Sounds of Hawaii, I started Makaha Records with friends George Chun and Tom Moffatt. Later on, I got involved with Hawai‘i Academy of Recording Arts as an active board member — I’ve been president three times, treasurer, chair of Nā Hōkū Hanohano Awards a few times — and eventually we took it to the Hawai‘i Convention Center.”

    “Respect your gift,” Marlene tells the young entertainers. “The fun comes, but first, you have to treat your business seriously.”

    A sober reality of a singing career is meeting your audience where they are. In 1962, Marlene took her first road trip to Japan, where she is still a star. Every spring, she travels west to perform for her fans, backed up by Japanese musicians and hula dancers who specialize in popular Hawaiian music.

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    Some Recognition and awards

    • 1986 The Hawai’i Academy of Recording Arts (HARA) Nā Hōkū Hanohano Award for “Best Female Vocalist”
    • 1987 Hawai‘i State Theatre Council Po‘okela Award for her portrayal of Queen Lili‘uokalani in “Hear Me, O My People”
    • 1999 Kamehameha Schools Alumni Gallery Award
    • 2004, HARA Nā Hōkū Hanohano Lifetime Achievement Award in music and recording, 2007 Hawaiian Music Foundation Hawaiian Music Hall of Fame Inductee
    • Her first LP release, “Kainoa,” was voted “The 50 Greatest Hawai‘i Albums”


    Use Your Talent in New Ways

    Besides a buttery contralto voice, Marlene has the heart of an actor — an ability to express deep emotions. After her fabulous singing and recording success in the ’60s, acting became one of her most rewarding endeavors. In music, she always asked her composers what inspired their songs and then interpreted that emotion. Her nightly showroom productions always engaged a meaningful storyline. As an actress, she studies her character carefully and “lives” the emotions as they would.

    In 1986, she appeared with Tom Selleck as Wahine Luka on “Magnum PI,” and in the next year at Castle Theater, she starred in the Don Berrigan production of “Hear Me O My People,” a one-character play about Queen Lili‘uokalani. So compelling was her portrayal of the queen that Marlene was invited to perform before members of Congress at Folger Shakespeare Theatre in Washington, D.C.

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    PBS documentary “Betrayal”

    “I was fascinated by the history of the overthrow. In late 1990 or early 1991, Ellen Pelissero, Ted Jung, Edwin Ebisui and I partnered to form Kukui Foundation, a 501(c)(3). Ellen, a professional writer, began researching the historical documents and wrote the original script for a feature documentary. She and I were co-executive producers. Tremaine Tamyose did some script rewrites. He and Joy Chong were co-directors for the production. Shooting was at KHET Manoa Studios. I portrayed Queen Lili‘uokalani. The PBS-Hawaii docudrama “Betrayal” premiered in Hawai‘i on Jan. 17, 1993, on the 100th anniversary of the overthrow of the monarchy.”

    Marlene‘s interpretation of the warm-hearted monarch with ali‘i dignity and the humility of a servant of Ke Akua won her a PBS award. According to Television Histories: Shaping Collective Memory in the Media Age, “Betrayal” brought the historical record to the attention of the general public and forever changed popular opinion about Hawaiian sovereignty. Marlene was forever changed, too. “I learned so much I never knew about our Hawaiian history and Lili‘uokalani; for the Kukui Foundation team, the experience was a humbling honor.”

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    Marlene had fun bringing Bloody Mary, the sassy, comical and oh-so-lovable matchmaker, to life in “South Pacific.”

    Readers will also remember the 2007 Hawaii Opera Theatre production of “South Pacific,” in which Marlene played the heady Bloody Mary, counseling young lovers to talk “Happy Talk.” She surprised audiences by bringing her keen sense of comedy to the stage, a trait familiar only to family and close friends. The following year, she was back onstage at the Hale Koa Hotel with a review called “This is Hawai‘i.”

     

    Share What You Love

    When asked by Leslie Wilcox on KHET’s “Long Story Short” how she views her legacy, Marlene joked, “Legacy? Well, it looks like I’ve been around a long time.” Joking is her way of deflecting praise, but no one can look at her life and fail to recognize the lasting contributions she has made to her extended community. At age 74, she still loves adventure. Whether discovering the business of entertainment and recording, reinventing herself as an actress, developing the alumni department at her alma mater or building a senior center — Marlene has always honored the gifts she was given by using them and exploring ways to put them to good use.

    Marlene raised her family with the same discipline that her parents exercised — focusing on the importance of being grounded, earning a living, being fearless and learning all you can. Marlene lives by this rule, researching everything she does and considering all her commitments before she signs a contract. Finding a project worthy of her effort, she forges ahead fearlessly. It is a foundational lesson for her grandchildren. “When my granddaughter was very young, I told her not to be afraid when she performs her hula. Just get up there and share what you love. Speak to the audience through your kuhi and your body.”

    Marlene succeeded in raising her family and creating a legacy by building on what she knows, and inventing a future based on her strengths. In a musical family, her talent wasn’t that unusual. When she took it outside, she soon realized she was different. She never gave up her office work, but developed it to the highest level. Today, she is a seasoned administrator in charge of multimillion-dollar project budgets. Her children grew up in the music industry and Marlene recalls her daughter once asking, “Mom, we’re not like other people, are we?” For a seven-year-old, the answer “We are different” might have been dis-appointing, but her mother knew that training in independence and embracing “different” frees the spirit to be creative.

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    A Walk Down Memory Lane
    From Marlene Sai’s simple sing-along with her uncle, Andy Cummings, and first vocalist job at Honey’s, came exciting gigs at the old Biltmore Hotel and hit LPs. Later, she began acting but continued to sing, record and serve in trade and community organizations. She still misses Don Ho, cherishes her many friends and associates, and mentors young talented performers.

    Invent Your Future

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    In 2014, Pacific Gateway Center broke ground on the renovation of Nā Kūpuna Makamae Center, at the corner of Keawe Street and Ala Moana Boulevard. The senior center that serves the Kaka‘ako area, will provide innovative services and programs to empower, educate, enlighten and entertain our cherished seniors and their families.

    Building a legacy is inventing your future. Marlene loves what she does, and when she finds a project that speaks to her, she commits her time and energy with gusto. And so it is with Nā Kāpuna Makamae. On prime real estate, in an area where elders are underserved, Marlene is helping this nonprofit renovate a historic blue rock building that would cost a fortune to design and build out today. The sewage pump house will be reinvented into an education and creative center where the people of Kaka‘ako can congregate, learn and be inspired to shape their own futures, and follow new dreams.

    And even though she loves her challenging “day job” as project and program coordinator, this year, Marlene will also be following the muse she adores — acting in a new Brian Kohne film project called “Kuleana.” This high-concept, feature-length historical drama takes place on Maui in 1971. The film explores a consciousness that preceded the Hawaiian cultural renaissance of the mid-seventies.
    Let’s all take a lesson from Marlene Sai and put some thought and energy into inventing the future of our dreams.

    Mahalo Nui Loa e Marlene! We love you too!

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    “It is by looking into the window of your heart that you will find the details of your life.”
    — Marlene Sai

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    Aloha iā ‘oe: A Marlene Sai Legacy by Katherine Kama‘ema‘e Smith, Cover & Feature Story Photography by Brian Suda from the June-July 2016 issue of Generations Magazine, Hawai‘iʻs Resource For Life

  • Time to Grow at Lanakila Senior Center

    Time to Grow at Lanakila Senior Center

    Weekday mornings, as the sun rises in Kalihi, seniors congregate at Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center to play, learn and serve their community. Dispel the idea of loneliness or aimless activities to pass the time away. Members of Lanakila Center engage in meaningful pursuits, through which they create strong friendships and develop new skills. It is no wonder that this senior center welcomes up to 200 members every day. Follow the schedule of three members:


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    8:00 am

    Richard Tada parks his car at Catholic Charities Hawaii’s Lanakila Center in Kalihi. He is a volunteer “audio engineer/disc jockey” for the center’s special events. Today, he comes to help coordinate the Japanese Cultural Club’s New Year Celebration. He and his friends move the equipment to the stage area: mixer, speakers, CD and cassette players and microphones… Richard has fun putting them together. The performers arrive early, eager to dance. They hand Richard the tapes and CDs. Here they go, “Testing, one, two, three… testing …”

    Richard retired from United Airlines and first visited the center as a caregiver, bring- ing his father-in-law who was a longtime member. Richard provided transportation and a watchful eye for his father-in-law, who was becoming more frail, but still wanted to be with his friends at Lanakila Center. After his father-in-law had passed, Richard kept coming to the center. He was able to focus on his interests.

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    Seven ethnic clubs gather regularly at Lanakila. All members of the center are welcome to join any or all clubs. The clubs help to perpetuate the culture and traditions of their respective ethnic group and create opportunities to celebrate birthdays, provide entertain- ment, and go out on excursions, etc. and started sitting in, but not participating in, the Enka (Japanese folk ballads) class.

    Finally, Enka class sensei Marian Arakaki told him that he “might as well join” the class since he was there every week. Richard gets pleasure from singing for an audience; in the process, he learned to hold a microphone. Later, he learned to set up and operate an audio system. Now he also volunteers as an assistant treasurer for the Okinawan Nenchosha Club, chairs the center’s Program Committee and was recently recognized as one of 47 veterans in the center’s first Veterans Day Celebration. }}

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    First order of the day is always about being nimble. The clubs often start their meetings with exercise or dance. For other ways to stay strong and fit, the center offers a wide variety of activities, including Fusion exercise, Karate, Sahm Bo Dahn, and Stretch and Tone. Dance lovers can join hula, line dance, tap dance, Korean dance, or Okinawan dance. By doing enjoyable activities, members maintain their independence as they age.

    9:00 am

    The New Year Celebration starts right on time. Richard pays full attention to the program, cues from the master of ceremonies and signals from the performers. The club members enjoy the music, songs and performances. The grand finale of the New Year Celebration is when all the members demonstrate their traditional Japanese dance to Richard’s joyful and festive music — everyone gets into the fun.

    11:00 am

    After his morning gig, Richard can’t wait to see his mahjong friends. Every week he learns more, even after eight years playing at the center. Mahjong challenges memory, attention, calculation, strategy and decision-making. Richard loves the stakes, but most important of all is joyful fellowship with his peers. With his friends, he plays, jokes, laughs and shares yummy treats. Tracking the tiles keeps the mahjong players’ minds sharp. Friendly competition generates lots of laughter. The time passes so quickly, and nobody loses because the game continues next week! }}

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    8:30 am

    Helen Castillon walks from her apart- ment right across the street from Lanakila Center. She goes to the Activity Room and prepares to start the Filipino Cultural Club meeting. Helen never thought she’d ever be in this type of position—leading meetings or planning events for over 100 attendees! Now in her third term as president of the club, she has participated in the Lanakila Center’s annual Leadership Training to learn the roles of officers, communication skills, and how to run meetings and handle conflict. She also knows the importance of succession and encourages the club vice president to shadow her and learn the knowledge and management skills Helen has learned.

    Helen initially came to the center as a senior worker via the Honolulu Community Action Program’s Senior Community Service Employment Program. In 2007, when she be-
    came age 60, she was able to join Lanakila Center as an official member. In addition to providing clerical support as a SCSEP worker, Helen also received help from Lanakila’s social worker/case manager to apply for senior housing across the street. After a six-year wait, she was finally able to move into Kapuna I, which has become her “home away from home.”

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    Keep the mind active by learning new skills. Sensei Takeuchi (right) teaches taisho koto (a miniature form of koto) twice a week. Seniors learn to translate music notes to sounds, keep their fingers nimble, and practice their memory through a cultural form of music.

    9:30 am

    Catholic Charities Hawai‘i provides presentations on health and wellness for seniors, and Helen greets today’s scheduled speaker before the Filipino club. She has learned about lots of community resources as she is always looking for the best information and resources that can benefit her club members. Today, she has invited a health care provider to discuss diabetes and healthy diets with club members. After the presentation, she gets to enjoy some music, dance with the club members, and sample some ‘ono ethnic potluck dishes, like pancit and lumpia.

    10:30 am

    After saying goodbye to the speakers and club members, Helen goes to the library annex to join Tai Chi for Health, an evidence-based class for fall prevention. Since 2014, she has practiced the gentle, graceful moves, and learned the purpose of each move. The regular tai chi exercises keep her body balanced to prevent falls that can cause potentially serious injuries. At the end of the 10-week class session, she helps the instruc- tor conduct the outcome evaluation. Through this process, she gathers the data to show how much the Tai Chi for Health has benefited her and her classmates. The class reports fewer trips and falls!

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    Health and wellness is a priority. Randy Lau (right) is a certified instructor who leads an evidence-based Tai Chi for Health/Fall Prevention class twice a week. By learning Tai Chi, Lanakila’s seniors, including Helen, gain significant benefits: relax mind and body, strengthen movement control, improve coordination, and reduce the risk of falling. Easing the fear of falling builds their confidence to stay active.

    11:30 am

    Helen waits at the front of the Lanakila Center for the Catholic Charities Hawai‘i shuttle van. Whenever she has a doctor appointment, she calls the Catholic Charities transportation dispatcher two weeks in advance to request a ride to and from her destination. During the trip, she gets to talk with the other küpuna passengers about what she learned and she listens to the highlights of their day too. Helen continues to look forward to learning, helping others and growing at the senior center. }}

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    It is the mind and body that will support the spirit. Yoga is popular with seniors, too! Instructor Hasegawa’s yoga classes fills up quickly during registration. Through yoga, seniors are able to protect their joints, build strength, and improve balance, etc. Rain or shine, as long as the center is open, you will see them practicing twice a week!

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    8:00 am

    “Good Morning!” says Diane Kawakami as she greets each küpuna entering the center where she has volunteered as a receptionist for the last five years. She helps her fellow seniors sign up for various activities: Tai Chi, Line Dance, Basic English, ‘Ukulele and more. She listens carefully to their questions and patiently gives them the information they need. She also receives items from donors for Lanakila Center’s “thrift shop” and acts as the salesperson for “shoppers.” At the same time, she answers inquiries on the phone. She is truly a multitasker!

    Diane, like Richard, first had contact with Lanakila because her mother and two aunties were longtime members. She would occasionally drop off her mother at the center and had an opportunity to meet some of her mother’s senior friends. After her mother had died, Diane reached retirement and needed to figure out a plan for the rest of her life. One activity she loved was Lanakila Center’s Line Dancing class. From there, a friend at the center recruited her to help out at the reception desk, putting her former telephone operator skills to good use. Now Diane also serves in leadership positions with the Okinawan club, as well as taking minutes for the Program Committee. When asked why she continues her membership at the center, Diane says, “because of the people—the seniors,” whose motivation and enthusiasm for life inspire her.

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    Volunteering benefits the volunteer AND the center. Every week, 97-year-old Mrs. Kakazu, a retired nurse, rides on the Catholic Charities Hawai`i van to the center. She has volunteered since 1980, doing blood pressure screening for the members. High blood pressure usually has no symptoms, and can’t be detected without being measured. Mrs. Kakazu makes it convenient for the members to find out their blood pressure readings. The volunteer work helps keep her mind active and her contribution helps keep her fellow seniors healthy, too. This is a true win-win situation.

    9:00 am

    It’s time for Diane to join her Enka singing class. They gather their songbooks and dance outfits for today’s rehearsal. About six times a year, this group performs songs and dances for frail seniors in nursing homes and care homes. They sing in English, Hawaiian and Japanese. They perform traditional Okinawan dance and hula. They are very talented, and their picture ap- peared in Generations Magazine.

    10:00 am

    Diane and the other Enka students leave for a nursing home down the road. They have performed here many times, and the patients love to have them return. After greeting the patients, they take turns singing as a group and doing solos. Some patients remember the melodies and get passed the microphone so they can do a solo, too. They all sing along as Diane interprets the lyrics with beautiful hula moves. Seated patients join in by following Diane’s hula moves with their hands.

    12:00 pm

    Back at the center, the Enka class eats lunch together and talks about their experience. Diane shares, “It makes me feel so good when the nursing home residents respond to us, smile back, and try to follow the motions. I can see happiness in their faces. It feels good to serve the community.”

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    Being part of a larger purpose is what contribution is all about. While most of the members were enjoying the entertainment at the lanai, five other members help prepare the bentos for lunch. They don’t mind missing out the fun outside because they were having fun serving the others. In the center, you can see sharing, contributing, and giving—everywhere, all the time.

    It certainly feels good to know that Catholic Charities Hawai‘i has created a blueprint for successful senior clubs in urban settings. With a small staff and trained volunteers, they provide hope, community and meaningful growth for persons over 60. The members develop lasting friendships with like-minded people who like to have fun, enjoy learning and want to spend their time serving their community. Perhaps it is an extension of “living aloha,” the heritage of plantation camps or school days when we cherished the chums with whom we passed every grade. In Hawai‘i, we are a community that likes to get together, have fun and tackle projects. At Lanakila Center, seniors of all ages are having fun and doing a lot of good work!

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    Serve to inspire life. Every year, members step up and advocate for Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center and other vital senior services. Here they are on the Legislature’s Opening Day, after meeting and talking with the senators and representatives to promote seniors’ rights and advocate on behalf of those in need.

    Our motto at Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center, “We Play, We Learn, We Serve,” accurately reflects the intention of the center’s work—encouraging fun with a purpose. This helps seniors remain independent and active in the community and avoids costly and unwant- ed institutionalization for as long as possible.

    • A study published in the American Journal of Public Health found that interventions for loneli- ness may result in reduced doctor visits, which may also reduce health care cost.
    • Indicated in Hawai‘i’s 2013 Profile of Success- ful Aging, “Supportive relationships, interactions with the environment, engagement in social activities … all have positive correlations on the well-being of older adults.”
    • The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention also advises older adults that “regular physical activity is one of the most important things you can do for your health. It can prevent many of the health problems that seem to come with age.”
    • A study published in the Journal of the American Academy of Neurology indicates that engagement in leisure type activities may reduce the risk of dementia.

    In 1969, the state of Hawai‘i established a model senior center in Kalihi. Originally called the Hawaii State Senior Center, the program changed its name to Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center in 1975, under the management of Catholic Charities Hawai‘i, a private, nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization.

    Today, the center at 1640 Lanakila Avenue serves nearly 1,500 seniors age 60 and older. It offers seven ethnic clubs, provides over 30 classes and hosts many special events. Healthy activities for seniors involve exercise classes and health screen- ing. Scheduled seminars to keep our küpuna safe include topics ranging from pedestrian safety to securing personal finances.

    Visit Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center any weekday. Check out our center’s newsletter at www.catholiccharitieshawaii.org. For more information, call 847-1322. Learn how you can live out the motto, “We Play, We Learn, We Serve.”

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    Weekday mornings, as the sun rises in Kalihi, seniors congregate at Lanakila Multi Purpose Senior Center to play, learn and serve their community. Dispel the idea of loneliness or aimless activities to pass the time away. Members of Lanakila Center engage in meaningful pursuits, through which they create strong friendships and develop new skills. It is…

  • Facing Alzheimer’s: The Perspective of Three Experts

    Facing Alzheimer’s: The Perspective of Three Experts

    The Alzheimer’s Association of Hawaii estimates that by 2025, there will be 35,000 Alzheimer’s disease patients over the age of 65 in the state. Almost as many elderly patients will suffer from other related dementias associated with hardening of the arteries or Parkinson’s disease. As our population ages, planning and delivering care to dementia patients is sure to touch your life.

    It is time to lift the veil and reveal the face of this disorder that lurks in the shadows. Let’s shine a bright light on the habits that can help us protect our brains, accurate resource information, clinics that specialize in early diagnosis and treatment, and new therapies on the horizon. If you learned about Alzheimer’s five years ago, you might be surprised at what our experts have to say.

    “Alzheimer’s disease is most challenging because it is the only ‘top’ 10 disease in our country without a cure.”

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    Kore K. Liow, MD, Director & Clinical Professor of Neurology, Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience; Chair, Work Group on Prevention & Treatment of Alzheimer’s Disease, Hawaii 2025 State Plan on Alzheimer’s Disease & Related Dementias. kliow@hawaii.edu

    Dr. Liow, why is early diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease so important?

    Every 69 seconds, another person in the U.S. is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s-type dementia, progressively decreasing brain function that is not necessarily associated with aging. On the mainland, most dementia patients have Alzheimer’s disease. However, in Japan vascular dementia with decreased circulation in the brain is more common. Our blended ethnic community has increased incidence of vascular-related dementia compared to the mainland. Because we treat vascular dementia differently from Alzheimer’s, early treatment and prevention with supported lifestyle changes can reduce the risk of stroke. Sometimes blood flow to the brain can be improved, restoring normal brain function. Particularly in Hawai‘i, it is crucial that persons with early memory loss be evaluated and diagnosed quickly to rule out treatable vascular disease, and other reversible and treatable disorders that mimic dementia.

    While we do not yet have a cure for Alzheimer’s disease, current medications can temporarily slow the progression of the disease and keep the patient functioning normally longer. More can be done to preserve the remaining brain cells when treatment begins early. We would like the patient to help plan their treatment and plan ahead for the time when they will need full-time care. Early on, when they are still functioning, they can make their wishes known, participate in clinical trials and research, and help prepare advanced care directives.

    What other conditions mimic Alzheimer’s?

    We had a patient who was erroneously diagnosed with Alzheimer’s seven years ago and told there was nothing that could be done. She was left to deteriorate and was in a wheelchair be
    cause she could no longer navigate. Her brain MRI showed a treatable condition of normal pressure hydrocephalus, meaning excessive fluid in brain. When we treated her by draining the fluid surrounding her brain, she could walk normally again. Other conditions like vitamin B-12 deficiency, hypothyroidism, and clinical depression affect cognitive function so that people may think they have dementia. But these disorders are treatable. Therefore, it is important that all memory loss be evaluated early for reversible causes.

    How do you diagnose Alzheimer’s or other dementia at Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience clinic?

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    A multidisciplanary team of doctors reviews current cases.

    Well, it is not an easy diagnosis. First, we obtain an accurate patient history, comparing past and present behaviors, moods and cognitive function. We need to test brain function with electrical activities using EEG (electroencephalogram) and look for structural abnormalities with brain MRI. Because of the complexity of the brain, many of the tests and interpretation of results requires consultation with a specialist skilled in this field. At Hawaii Pacific Neurosciences, we bring the specialists to the patient in our “one-stop shop” neuroscience center where patients consult with a multidisciplinary team of neurologists, geriatricians, neuropsychologists, psychologists, wellness coaches and nutrition specialists all in one location, so caretakers do not have to travel to different locations for these specialized tests and treatments. All the testing is performed in one facility, and interpreted by our specialists trained in the field of memory and dementia. This way, we can provide an accurate diagnosis quickly and recommend an individualized treatment plan or if appropriate, a research or clinical trial.

    How do you treat Alzheimer’s disease?

    Currently, we have some medications that alter transmission of signals between cells in the brain to temporarily slow the progression of Alzheimer’s. Our goal is to see patients before they become forgetful, because treatments are most effective early on. Our goal is to begin nutritional regimens and brain exercises to stimulate different parts of the brain and increase blood flow to the brain before the patient loses the capability to retain or re-train memory using brain mapping and brain stimulation exercise. Reminiscent and music therapy help keep patients functioning at normal levels longer. We want patients working on-site with our psychologist, neuropsychologist and cognitive specialists, and wellness nutrition coach.

    We have also been successful in bringing clinical trials of new research medications and therapies for dementia to Hawai‘i, joining the worldwide community in advancing the science and understanding of Alzheimer’s and the quest for better treatments and a cure. Much research has been directed toward blocking the aggregation of amyloid protein precursors. These proteins lock together to form “plaques” between brain cells and can block the normal connections we make when thinking. Researchers are also looking at ways to dissolve tau proteins that form in the brain and pinpointing how brain cells die.

    Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience is one of 46 sites in U.S. selected to conduct clinical trials with drugs that work on novel drug receptors. In addition to slowing memory loss, we also hope these drugs will help modify the behaviors that are so troubling to patients, families and caregivers.

    Why does dementia patients’ behavior change?Is it a personality change?

    We normally have “filters” we use to hold back inappropriate words and behavior and choose responses that match the situation we face. Choosing, deciding and planning our actions and words are cognitive functions of the brain. As dementia progresses, the patient loses the cognitive ability to exercise their natural filters — they cannot control their thoughts and actions — so their behavior and conversation become inappropriate. Patients may become agitated without cause, react in unexpected ways or believe their delusions. As a result of agitation, they may ask questions over and over. It is helpful for families to remember that inappropriate behaviors are the result of the cellular breakdown of the brain — not the intentions of the patient.

    We believe that the demanding physical and psychological needs of dementia patients require a team approach to diagnosis and therapy. Our care delivery model is to have a geriatrician (board-certified physician who specializes in elderly patients) examine the patient physically and also assess for any advance-care planning that may be needed. This exam is followed by an evaluation by a neurologist specializing in neurodegenerative disease who develops an accurate diagnosis and looks for reversible causes of dementia. Patients then undergo memory tests administered by a neuropsychologist. Based on the results of the testing, our psychologist or cognitive specialist designs “brain games,” brain stimulation and mapping exercises that maintain brain the patient’s brain health. The family is is involved in treatment, nutrition and wellness coaching, as they often cook for the patients and can support lifestyle modifications.

    At Hawaii Pacific Neuroscience, we now follow over 2,000 memory loss and dementia patients from all the Hawaiian Islands and Pacific Rim. Families know that they can come to one place for all their specialists’ appointments, specialized tests, latest treatments and compassionate memory care. Our groundbreaking research and clinical trials bring hope to those who have failed all other therapies and allow Hawai‘i to join the worldwide scientific community in the search for new treatments for these disorders.

    “ It takes a team to provide care to each Alzheimer’s patient, whether at home, in a care home, foster home or nursing home. I call the members ‘care partners.’ They can’t make the patients happy, but they can make them comfortable and support their wishes, no matter how tough it gets.”

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    Chris Ridley, Director of Social Services, Life Care Center in Hilo
    and Program Specialist for Alzheimer’s Association on the Island
    of Hawai‘i. 808-443-7360

    As a social worker, how soon do you become involved with Alzheimer’s patients?

    This is a disease that impacts everyone. I consult with patients, and their families and friends at every stage of their path — from diagnosis to end-of-life. In fact, even before diagnosis, I teach public seminars all over Hawai‘i, encouraging friends and families to help forgetful people get diagnosed and seek treatment.

    Early on, patients can participate in their care plan, envision how they want to live out their days and communicate that to their care partners. Some forgetfulness is caused by chemical imbalances or other disorders that can only be tested and treated by a physician. Maybe your fuzzy thinking is due to deficiencies of vitamin B12 or vitamin D. Perhaps a tumor or a slow thyroid is causing your confusion. Memory loss is also a symptom of depression. All these problems can be treated and possibly reversed, so it is very important for persons with memory loss or behavior changes see their primary care physician and get a full check up. I recommend that they go with a care partner — someone who will go the distance and help them look at all the possibilities.

    Some patients believe that because there is no treatment for Alzheimer’s disease, there is no point to going to the doctor. At the moment, there is no cure, but there are treatments and medications that help patients perform normal functions longer. I say, “Don’t wait; don’t worry.” Take a proactive stance. All treatments work better when patients get started at the very first signs of memory loss. Creating new diet and exercise habits can improve blood circulation to the brain. Creating more opportunities for social engagement and mental/emotional/spiritual stimulation will exercise every part of the brain and improve overall thinking. Learning new things stimulates new pathways in the brain. Some foods protect brain cells from damage.

    The FDA has approved some medications to treat the early and moderate stages of Alzheimer’s disease and age-related dementia. These medications may help maintain cognitive function temporarily. Again, treatment needs to start early.

    If diet, exercise and social engagement improve memory loss, do they prevent dementia?

    It looks that way. I give a talk called “Healthier Habits for a Healthier You” that shows the great benefits of the Mediterranean and Dash diets for heart and brain health.

    It’s very easy to fall into the habit of eating a high-fat diet. Seniors sometimes lose their sense of smell and taste and wind up eating salty and sugary foods that play havoc with high blood pressure and diabetes. Changing your eating habits can improve your current health, increase longevity and keep your brain healthy. These same diets are good for your bones, too.

    Are most dementia patients living at home?

    Yes. The Alzheimer’s Association and Life Care Center believe that people with memory loss do best when mainstreamed in the community. Patients thrive in familiar surroundings, among their loved ones. Whether patients are at home or in a facility, it it still takes a large team of care partners to help them. Patients in good physical health may need care for many years, driving the cost of custodial care beyond the family’s financial capabilities. For these reasons, we support home care and adult day care for dementia patients.

    Part of my work is meeting with the family of every newly diagnosed memory loss patient and helping them plan to keep their loved one functioning at the highest level. It is critical to get the patient to make decisions about how they want to live out their life. I ask the family to get as much information from the patient as possible, and make sure all care partners know that their role is to honor the path their loved one selects. You would be surprised what patients say is most important to them. Some families need to share their feelings face to face — to clear the air and find comfort. I always tell families that their only job is to keep the patient comfortable. The road will be difficult, and they can’t be feeling guilty because the patient is not happy. When the job gets too much for them, it’s OK to get help. Care partners cannot protect the patient from the disease, but they can support the loved one’s wishes.

    What advice do you give to care partners dealing with strange and upsetting behaviors?

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    Social workers and case managers help patients and
    families navigate care options.

    Care partners have feelings, too. We want our loved ones to have good days, remember us and respond appropriately. Sometimes we get caught off guard by harsh or cunning words or behaviors — and it hurts. We get frustrated listening to the same comments or questions over and over. We teach care partners to “interpret” the need that might be generating the behavior and to analyze why the behavior makes us angry. For example, one family member was exasperated because her dad would shower so long that he used up all the hot water every day. When she analyzed his behavior, she found dad soaping himself again and again, forgetting that he had already washed. When all the shower gel was all gone, he would get out of the shower. She solved the problem by putting the soap in a very small container. Dad could only soap up once, rinse and get out of the shower.

    Another care partner came to dread the late afternoon when his brother would continually ask, “When are we going to eat?” until dark. The support group suggested that the question stemmed from a need for comfort. Dinnertime is often associated with relaxation, family interaction, a full belly and the end of work. So instead of trying to answer the question, he found little ways to comfort his brother in the late afternoon: additional small snacks, a walk or looking at photos. With added comfort, the questions stopped. Like a mother interprets the cries of her baby, care partners must look behind the words and behaviors to find out what “need” their loved one is trying to express. Respond to the need, not the behavior.

    Everyone caring for an Alzheimer’s patient should be in a support group. On Hawai‘i Island, going to a meeting 20 miles away is a hardship. The Alz.org website has virtual support groups online. You don’t even have to leave your home to get new information and solutions to your problems. You may call the Alzheimer’s Association hotline at 800-272-3900, or check out the ALZConnected and Message Boards on Alz.org. You can always call the Program Specialist for the Alzheimer’s Association on your island.

    Remember, one person cannot do all it takes to care for a dementia patient. A care team of family, friends, neighbors and church members may still not be sufficient to meet all the needs. County, state and nonprofit agencies may have services in your area. At some point, you may need paid home care or home nursing services. Plan ahead and don’t wear yourself out before you ask for more help. Don’t skip meals and go without sleep because your loved one is active all night. Be sure you have all the resources you need to keep yourself healthy. Learn how to receive help and practice being a receiver as well as a giver.

    Tell us about your organization.

    “ We must redefine caregiving and create a community that is aware.”

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    Christine Payne, Executive Director of
    Alzheimer’s Association, Honolulu.
    1-800-272-3900

    In Hawai‘i, the Alzheimer’s Association delivers most of the education on Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. Our education and support groups are for patients and care teams who are helping dementia patients: families, neighbors, friends and care providers. In addition to support groups, educational seminars and a robust website with many resources, we provide a 24-hour, seven-day-a-week helpline for all questions and concerns about dementia and dementia care.

    Awareness begins with the need for early diagnosis. We are struggling with several barriers to getting patients to visit doctors who can help them with memory loss. What we hear people saying is that because there is no cure for dementia, why should they bother going to the doctor.

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    Awareness and early diagnosis is important for caregiving
    and understanding Alzheimer’s.

    Some people are probably afraid, too — so how does early diagnosis help?

    There are at least two very good reasons to get a diagnosis and to do it right away. The first; there are other medical problems that mimic Alzheimer’s, and some of them are reversible if caught in time. The second; there are a lot of big decisions you need to make so that your family will not have to make them for you. Making your wishes known now will prevent a lot of family turmoil later on, and family members will feel good if they know what you want. It is important to understand that if you wait, you may not be legally competent to make these decisions.

    Let’s talk about how your organization helps family caregivers.

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    2015 Walk to End Alzheimer’s supporters gathered at Ala Moana Beach Park.

    The family is usually intimately involved with caring for dementia patients. Our organization aims to help the family, too. Awareness is really needed for all who wish to help care for loved ones with Alzheimer’s disease.

    We run into a lot of “guilty” caregivers who think that they should be able to care for mom all by themselves. More than any other disease or disability, Alzheimer’s seems to cause this extreme guilt in caregivers. However, it is not only inappropriate, but unhealthy. It is absolutely necessary for caregivers to take time for themselves. I cannot stress this enough. The level of care required for dementia patients is beyond what one person can provide. Caregivers are not superhuman and everyone has to change their concept of what caregiving is supposed to be.

    We recommend that families work as a team with neighbors, friends, church, civic clubs, county and state support services, and paid service providers. Care for an Alzheimer’s patient takes twists and turns. Every patient is different and nobody can predict what symptoms each patient will encounter. With a team approach, the responsible daughter, son or spouse can stay healthy themselves, and have the time to manage care schedules and plan for the next phase of care.

    When I was caregiving, I found it hard to ask for help. Is this a common problem?

    Yes, this is a very common problem in Hawai‘i, where we have a cultural bias against asking for things. Our way of life centers on giving, but we don’t take; we offer, but we don’t ask. The cultural ideal is to not burden others. It may be very difficult for the caregiver to ask for help. That is why we have the helpline (800-272-3900). Families may start here with us by making one phone call. We will refer them to other services and get the ball rolling. Alzheimer’s Association can make it easier to ask for help and put you in touch with other care partners who have answers.

    Today there are 26,000 Alzheimer’s patients in Hawai‘i. We estimate that there are 69,000 people who identify themselves as caregivers. You probably know someone who is helping care for a person with dementia.

    The last thing I want to tell readers is that care comes in small packages. I have people tell me, “I’m not a caregiver; I just buy the groceries every week,” or “I only sit with Dad on Sunday so Mom can go to church.” These little gifts of running an errand or giving the main caregiver a few hours of respite are very important ways to give care. And they are very culturally acceptable in all our island communities.

    So don’t be shy about the good you are doing. You are helping more than you know.

    What should our readers do to connect with Alzheimer’s Association?

    Visit our website — it’s a library of helpful information. If you know a family who is struggling to get dad or mom diagnosed, or needs help developing a care team, give them our helpline number or send them to our website. If you want to help the family of a friend with Alzheimer’s, we can suggest how best to offer your assistance.

    Facing Alzheimer’s disease or related dementia takes courage and the energy of a large care team — family, friends, neighbors, pastors, coworkers, volunteer care partners, paid care professionals and public service employees. It all begins with awareness. Share this article with everyone who needs to know what our Hawai’i experts have to say.

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    Information & Services at www.alz.org
    • 24/7 Helpline: 1-800-272-3900
    • Care Partner Support Groups (O‘ahu and Neighbor Islands)
    • Practical Classes for Caregivers, e.g., “How to address challenging behaviors”
    • Wandering Solutions: MedicAlert™, Safe Return™ and Comfort Zone™ Program
    • Community Resource Finder
    • How to Plan for the Future
    • Online Forums and Message Boards

    These are just a small example of what you’d find online

    The Alzheimer’s Association of Hawaii estimates that by 2025, there will be 35,000 Alzheimer’s disease patients over the age of 65 in the state. Almost as many elderly patients will suffer from other related dementias associated with hardening of the arteries or Parkinson’s disease. As our population ages, planning and delivering care to dementia patients…

  • New Beginnings . . . The Path Continues

    Father William F. Petrie, sscc, looking over Kalaupapa Settlement from the cross atop the Kauhako crater.
    Father William F. Petrie, sscc, looking over Kalaupapa Settlement from the cross atop the Kauhako crater.

    Bill Petrie is a priest with the Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary — the same order as St. Damien. With Mother Marianne Cope, the Sisters of St. Francis of Syracuse and volunteer Joseph Dutton, Damien brought the love of God and dignity to Hansen’s disease patients exiled at Kalaupapa.

    Inspired by the life of St. Damien, Father Bill worked 25 years in India with Mother Teresa of Calcutta, helping the poorest of the poor and many who were afflicted with Hansen’s disease. Now he serves as Pastor of St. Damien Church on Moloka‘i and supports Catholic ministry to the last Hansen’s disease patients in Hawai‘i.

    wpafa4d2f5_01_1aMany seniors and baby boomers returning to the church and looking for the God of their youth, are inspired by the story of Damien’s love for God and the patients of Kalaupapa. Faith, hope and love help us face uncertainties at the end of life. Father Bill’s joy and enthusiasm are infectious and people want to be around him — like St. Damien won the hearts of patients in Kalaupapa.

    So we asked Father Bill to share his wisdom on new beginnings — the transitions of life. His counsel is simple: change will come, so embrace closure and take time to prepare for the next step on your path. His kind, humble words offer a quiet oasis amid the chaos of our boisterous world.

    Take a few moments to hear what father Bill learned from the joy, peace and love of Mother Teresa and Saint Damien.

    My Beginning as a Priest

    Without realizing it, we face many new beginnings in our lives, some small and others life changing events. One such new beginning was my being inspired to become a Catholic priest after reading the life of Father Damien of Moloka‘i, a vision so profound that it was to lead me to work with Mother Teresa of Calcutta helping Hansen’s disease patients in India. I started by writing a letter. Mother Teresa didn’t answer, so I sent a second note with a $250 donation, for her work with the poorest of the poor. Again, no response. Then my superiors gave me permission to visit India, so I wrote her again, saying I wanted to help with the work and giving her the flight, time and day of my Calcutta arrival.

    PHOTOGRAPHS OF FR. BILL PETRIE & FR. PAT IN KALAUPAPA, MOLOKAIFather Bill Petrie’s life path began with being inspired by St. Damien. It led to priesthood, and 25 years working with the poor and Hanson’s disease patients in India with Mother Teresa.

    Wow, no one was at the airport to meet me! I thought, am I just doing my own thing or is this truly an inspiration from God? After spending the night in a city lodge, I found a telephone book and the number of the Missionaries of Charity, the religious society that Mother Teresa founded in 1950. Anxiously making the phone call, I heard a voice answer and then stated who I was — I wished to speak to Mother Teresa, and my purpose was to volunteer and help with her Hansen’s disease work. The delicate but firm voice said: “This is Mother Teresa; come right over.”

    We became friends the first moment we met. The chemistry between us created a bond and new beginning that would last 25 years, from 1975 to 2000. Mother Teresa explained that she never received my letters or the donation, but it didn’t make any difference. I made this journey to the unknown in faith, and there was a place for me in the Hansen’s disease work.

    Another phase of my life was beginning. I was to realize that closure must be followed by a neutral time of reflection and preparation for a new beginning. I had worked in a loved-filled parish setting for several years, and leaving it was difficult for both the people in my life and me. That was closure. The old expression, “love is being able to let go,” won out. Then a neutral time followed when I spent almost a year preparing, obtaining more medical knowledge and learning rehabilitation skills. Then I remember it well — June 29, 1975, at 33 years old — my new beginning started. I can compare the experience to the date of a graduation or marriage.

    Learning to cherish the dates of new beginnings starts with your remembering your birthday. And remembering the first day of a new adventure develops a sense of gratitude. Being grateful is the very foundation of obtaining happiness. Seeing both the good and the bad learning opportunities, accepting what life brings, and letting go of negative aspects allows us to be ready to move on. Taking things as they come or as they are “given” brings ongoing satisfaction with yourself and all your daily activities.

    Beginning to Grow in Wisdom

    Reading books about St. Damien eventually allowed me to see Damien as a role model for my life. I learned about the people who supported his work, Franciscan sister Saint Marianne Cope, who spent over thirty years at Kalaupapa and Joseph Dutton, a layman who worked in Kalaupapa for forty-two years. That these people freely and willingly embraced serving people rejected by the world, gave me a sense of awe. What made them do it, in those days, when there was little understanding of Hansen’s disease or its transmission.

    wpbc6f0346_01_1aMy association with Blessed Mother Teresa gave me insights into their Moloka‘i beginnings. I had experienced some of the hope and tender joy that sustained them, brought them happiness, complete fulfillment and daily work satisfaction. Mother Teresa told me that the most important part of helping the suffering is to “be there.” Saint Damien, Saint Marianne, and Joseph Dutton were experts at “being there.” This lesson could be applied by any faith-filled person and especially by caregivers who might be reading this article.

    After three years working at one of Blessed Mother Teresa’s Hansen’s disease Rehabilitation Centers, I was assigned to assist her missionary sisters in another location to help construct another rehab facility. The Catholic Church in that area had an “Archdiocesan Leprosy Office.” At my request, the Bishop changed the name to a “Human Life Center” for promoting personal, interpersonal and community growth, based on the prayer of Jesus, who asked God that we “would have life abundantly.” The life that Blessed Mother Teresa was living and imparting was exactly that — abundant life, full of productive faith, hope and dignity. I think abundant life is also what Damien, Marianne and Joseph Dutton were able to help the patients of Kalaupapa achieve. The Moloka‘i trio was successful despite the isolation of Kalaupapa and Kalawao. With limited resources and support, they offered the patients many new beginnings. With modern communications and the jet age, Blessed Mother Teresa exercised her faith and shared the abundant spiritual life in over 120 countries around the world.

    Everyone has Charisma

    Mother Teresa
    Mother Teresa

    Do we have that which Blessed Mother Teresa had — that drive that made her love for God and neighbor so powerful? We may call it charisma, one of those divine gifts that we receive at birth. Each person has to discover what his or her gifts are. It is not a specific characteristic but a variety of different aspects of our personality. Our individual charisms have an impact when we create energy — when we do or say things. Becoming charismatic is going out and getting involved in life, putting your skills to use, experiencing excitement, creating joy and even accepting the pains and sorrows of life. Blessed Mother Teresa saw Saint Damien as one of her role models. His work inspired, strengthened and nourished her Hansen’s disease medical and rehabilitation work. Saint Damien was a Catholic priest of the Congregation of the Sacred Hears of Jesus and Mary, the same order to which I belong. Mother Teresa brought me to New Delhi to meet Prime Minister Rajiv Gandhi and said: “India needs Fr. Damien’s Congregation.” This encounter created another new beginning, a religious formation program in India for men and women who felt called to join the same religious family as Saint Damien. The charism of our religious congregation is “to contemplate, witness and proclaim the mystery of God’s love.”

    Significant Others in Our Lives

    Saint Damien, photo credited to Sacred Hearts Archives, Rome
    Saint Damien, photo credited to Sacred Hearts Archives, Rome

    Spiritually charismatic individuals empower people around them. Through Blessed Mother Teresa’s sponsorship for 25 years in India, it was possible for me to experience many new beginnings, starting medical clinics, creating informal education programs, and acquisition of land for the construction of hundreds of houses for homeless Hansen’s disease patients. Especially important was helping the children of patients — to protect their health, encourage education and provide skill training for employment. The lives of

    Saint Marianne
    Saint Marianne

    Damien, Marianne and Dutton inspired me, but it was my association with Blessed Mother Teresa that empowered me to share Damien’s vision with others and continue his work. “Significant others,” has nothing to do with having a special partner. Rather it is recognition of what has happened in my life because of their inspiration. Blessed Mother Teresa and Saint Damien were significant others for me and countless people. Anyone who accepts them as role models, gets energized.

    Sacred Presence

    There is a quality that all people have in varying degrees. I call it “sacred presence.” I experienced it when working in India. Blessed Mother’s mobile clinic distributed medicine once a week. One week there were no medical supplies, so the clinic didn’t take place. The following week when the medicines arrived, one of the patients asked Mother Teresa where she was last week. She responded that they didn’t come because there were no medicines. The patient replied that it didn’t make any difference if there were no medicine — she should have come anyway. Wow! What a powerful lesson that was for me. Distribution of medicine, food or clothing was not as important as the presence of Mother Teresa herself. That’s when the concept of sacred presence became a reality for me. In some ways, we are all practicing it when we attend a wake of a deceased person. We don’t need to be concerned about what we will say to the bereaved family because just being present affirms and uplifts those in mourning. Sacred presence is the best gift we can bring to a wedding, a graduation, or a reunion. When individuals are filled with God’s love, they have a spiritual empowerment, which radiates to others. My understanding of Saint Damien is conveyed to me by some insights Mother Teresa taught her volunteers. She would tell them that it’s not how much you give, but the love you put into the giving. When gathering with other people, make sure everyone leaves a happier and better person. Smiling at someone is an action of love, a gift to that person. Small gestures exercise and strengthen the sacred presence that surrounds us when we love God and our neighbor.

    Despite all that Damien had to endure, we marvel at his sacred presence when he wrote that he was the happiest missionary in the world! His spiritual joy enriched everyone who was around him. He confessed that he received his strength kneeling at the altar, in prayer. Don’t we all need a daily silent and prayerful time? A rich celebrity once admitted to Mother Teresa that he felt guilty in her presence because of the great work she did for the poor. He was comparing his life to hers and felt that he fell a little short. Her simple answer was stunning — she didn’t tell him to change his ways. she encouraged him to be holy in his life, just as she was called to be holy in her life. Her response consoled and energized him. Mother Teresa was inspiring him with her presence and encouraging him to live abundantly.

    Discovering Sacred Places at Kalaupapa

    The word “sacred” is derived from the Latin word sacre, which means restricted or set apart. An extraordinary person, place or object can be designated as sacred, and may seem to have a different reality from natural or normal things. The sacred is always connected with divinity and religion. One of the oldest sacred places on earth is the Holy Land, visited for millennia by pilgrims and tourists. In Asia, people visit the sacred Taoist and Buddhist mountains. The tourist travels on a vacation; the pilgrim journeys as a purposeful spiritual act. There are many sacred places in the world connected to the sacred presence of an individual. A pilgrimage to Kalaupapa/Kalawao on the island of Moloka‘i can be a very memorable vacation, a peaceful retreat for making life decisions, or even a new beginning. Over eight thousand Hansen’s disease patients lived and died on this sacred land. Hundreds of dedicated workers and medical personnel lived at Kalaupapa/ Kalawao, often at great sacrifice. For Catholics, the lives of Saint Damien and Saint Marianne are a source of inspiration. The Latter Day Saints, Protestant churches and Buddhists all have a history of committed individuals in ministry here. By making a pilgrimage to Kalaupapa, you learn the historical context for the canonized saints and countless other holy people who died here.

    A view to Kalaupapa pier from the courtyard of St. Francis Catholic Church. Photo courtesy of Father Pat.
    A view to Kalaupapa pier from the courtyard of St. Francis Catholic Church. Photo courtesy of Father Pat.

     

    Papaloa Cemetary, resting place of some of the 8000+Kalaupapa residents
    Papaloa Cemetary, resting place of some of the 8000+Kalaupapa residents

    HANSEN’S DISEASE

    An ancient disease described in Bible was called “leprosy” in English, after the Latin, lepra, meaning “scaly.” Today we call it Hansen’s disease, named for Dr. Gerhard Henrik Armauer Hansen, a Norwegian physician who identified the bacterium that causes the disease, Mycobacterium leprae. Hansen’s disease is transmitted among humans the same way we pass on colds. In the past 20 years, modern antibiotics have cured over 200 million cases of Hansen’s disease worldwide.

    Beginning to Learn About Kalaupapa

    Unless a patient or worker personally invites you to visit Kalaupapa, the only way to tour the settlement is on an approved four-hour Damien Tours and arranged access via Makani Kai airlines or Kalaupapa Mule Tour. The mule train descends a path down a majestic 1800-foot cliff that separates Kalaupapa from the rest of Moloka‘i Island.

    PHOTOGRAPHS OF FR. BILL PETRIE & FR. PAT IN KALAUPAPA, MOLOKAIThe success of a spiritual journey to a sacred destination always depends on the individual. When you visit Kalaupapa, I recommend taking time for silent reflections at each special site Damien Tours visits. Breathtaking views of huge cliffs we call the “Pali” and the rock-bound coast that isolate Kalaupapa from the rest of the world end with the arrival of your nine-passenger plane at Kalaupapa landing strip, one of the few USA airports without TSA equipment and security personnel. The open-air pavilion, a picnic area for residents, echoes bygone days of trust and goodness. Your tour guide, the driver of an old school bus, awaits at the Kalaupapa welcome sign.

    Photo provided by Wikipedia
    Photo provided by Wikipedia

    On the road to the settlement, Papaloa Cemetery is the first reminder of the eight thousand plus patients who died here. So many graves on a little spit of land make us reflect upon our own death and funeral. Saint Damien and Mother Marianne saw funerals as celebrations and liberation from the burdens of life to a new heavenly life — another new beginning.

    Next, the bus passes the Mormon Church, a reminder that Hansen’s disease was without boundaries. The driver points out the Kalaupapa pier, and we try to imagine steamers mooring offshore and small rowboats bringing patients ashore. Damien always came to welcome the saddened newcomers. Many were overcome with grief, knowing they could never return home to their loved ones. Exile was permanent.

    The bus stops briefly at St. Francis Catholic Church, where a Congregation of the Sacred Hearts priest celebrates Mass every morning. Nearby stands the Congregational church. These three churches are a reminder that faith in God gave generations of patients strength, hope and meaning to their lives. Only the convent and St. Elizabeth Chapel remain on the spacious land that once housed and ministered to hundreds of girls and women, giving them love, care, protection and dignity. The Bishop family supported a home for girls where St. Marianne and the Franciscan Sisters ministered to single females and young girls, some of whom were orphans. On ruins of a former hospital destroyed by fire is a new clinic where a medical staff attends to several patients and workers still living in the settlement.

    Another vacant parcel of land marks the site of the Baldwin Home for boys and men. Volunteer Joseph Dutton and the Sacred Hearts Brothers were the caretakers for the men.

    The tour stops at the memorial grave of Saint Marianne, who also started Kapiolani Home for Girls on O‘ahu and Mauilani Hospital on Maui. This joyful nun used to say she worked “not for reward, but for God.”

    A view of St. Philomena Catholic Church from the south, across open fields of unmarked and marked gravesites.
    A view of St. Philomena Catholic Church from the south, across open fields of unmarked and marked gravesites.

    Next, the bus drives by former patient homes and the visitors’ reception center. The patients’ cafeteria is still used every day, and a former movie hall is used for holiday celebrations during the year. The bus turns left on Damien Road, which leads to Kalawao where the original settlement was established. The first structure seen is the Siloama Church, constructed by the patients one year after arriving in 1866. A boundary wall separates the compound where St. Damien lived and constructed the Saint Philomena Catholic Church. Beside the church are the original graves of St. Damien and Joseph Dutton. The sacred land surrounding the church holds over one thousand unmarked graves. A memorial will be constructed to remember the names of all the 8,000 or more patients who died in Kalaupapa and Kalawao.This is very sacred ground; peace and quiet envelop you. Take time to quietly sit, meditate or pray. Across the road are the remains of the original home for boys and girls, before the settlement moved to Kalaupapa. Old photographs are helping the National Park Service renovate the landscape as Kalawao looked over a century ago.

    Deep silence, broken only by wind and surf, draws every tourist or pilgrim inward. They have personal thoughts about the sorrow and pain endured by the Hansen’s disease patients who lived here. Kalaupapa calls us to reflect — it is a memorial to closure, extended quiet, neutral time of preparation, and accepting new beginnings.

    PHOTOGRAPHS OF FR. BILL PETRIE & FR. PAT IN KALAUPAPA, MOLOKAIThe road continues. Today, National Park Service workers are preparing Kalaupapa and Kalawao for the time when there are no more Hansen’s patients living here. The settlement will be preserved and managed as a national historic park. I am privileged to be the Pastor of St. Damien in Kaunakakai, and to be able to assist residents and workers in Kalaupapa as they transition. I minister to my congregation in the tradition of St. Damien and St. Marianne, with the training of Mother Teresa. I, too, am a happy missionary. Like my special “others,” I look forward, with joy and gratitude, to more new beginnings.

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    For the adventurous, a Damien Tour begins with a mule ride on a switchback trail descending 1800 feet.

    FATHER DAMIEN TOURS

    The only way to visit Kalaupapa is through Father Damien Tours. They operate a four-hour tour of Kalaupapa Settlement and Kalawao daily (except Sunday). There are three ways of getting to Kalaupapa:

    New Beginnings … The Path Continues. Father Petrie shares his life perspective

  • The Fountain of Youth

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    If you have heard of the centuries-old myth of the mystical Fountain of Youth, you know it was rumored to be a spring that healed and restored the youth of anyone young or old, lame or sick, who would drink from it or bathe in its waters. Explorers spent their lives searching for such a spring, but… was it only a dream?

    A short peek into the lives of three Hawai‘i residents, recently crowned Ms. Medicare™ 2015, reveals the curious nature of youthfulness — it flows from within…

    The inaugural Ms. Medicare,™ “Age of Elegance” pageant, held last year in Hawai‘i, was the very first of it’s kind. The idea, which became the mission for the competition and celebration, was my notion that qualifying for Medicare at age 65, or at any age due to disability, does not diminish an individual’s vitality or relevance in life. In fact, it seemed to me that Medicare supports healthy aging. Ms. Medicare titleholders promote this mission, acting as role models for those newly eligible for Medicare or existing Medicare beneficiaries who remain healthy and continue to enjoy an active life, long after Medicare age. Crown holders want other Medicare beneficiaries to learn more about the value of government health programs like Medicare and Medicaid. By appearing at health fairs and events focused on aging and healthy living, the pageant winners share their own personal experiences as Medicare beneficiaries. The titleholders focus on Medicare program affordability, beneficiary rights and protections, quality of care, preventive screenings, and freedom to choose plan type and options. They also share how Medicare coverage allows them to continue to live life to its fullest without concern about increasing healthcare needs, which may arise as they age. Each Ms. Medicare is eager to share how Medicare works for them, regardless of the health plan they have chosen to provide their coverage. This year’s sponsors include KNDI radio, Ohana Health Plan, Get2insurance.com, and Southern Insurance Group.

    “ Our bodies are our temples and God made us all wonderful. I nourish myself, my family,and friends with natural whole foods and nutrients, which allows energy and vitality to flow within us. This is how we enjoy and sustain healthy, productive lives.”

    Lorraine Bachran making smoothies
    Lorraine Bachran making smoothies

    Laurie Bachran, at age 86 years young, holds the title of Ms. Original Medicare. Original Medicare provides coverage for a portion of the costs for core benefits like in-patient hospital care under Part A and Part B doctor visits, lab work etc. Original Medicare beneficiaries can pair their coverage with a stand-alone Part D prescription drug plan, and/or a Medicare supplemental plan, to cover some or all of the costs not covered by Original Medicare.

    Laurie is truly an “original.” In the 1970s, decades before the current trends of juicing, raw diets or “fasting” periodically to cleanse the system, Laurie owned and operated Living Foods health-food store in Kane‘ohe, the place to go for delicious freshly made smoothies, organic food and herbal supplements. If you catch up with Laurie at home, she will blend you a nutritious smoothie. You will certainly find restoration in her personal warmth and energy, in the brief minutes it takes her to whip up your drink. A cornucopia of healthy fruits and vegetables is a constant staple in her kitchen.

    Laurie, was born in the late 1920s, and returned to Hawai‘i after college in 1949 with her husband, Bill Bachran, whom she met during a production of The Mikado. Bill worked as a media and public relations consultant for over 40 years. He managed the Hawaiian Open and Sony Open in Hawai‘i media room for decades and was fluent in Japanese. Bill’s work allowed Laurie and Bill to meet and enjoy the company of Frank Sinatra, Norman Rockwell, Gary Cooper, Arnold Palmer, Tiger Woods — all originals in their fields. Their marriage of 60-plus years produced three sons, three daughters, 10 grandchildren and 13 greatgrandchildren. Bill credited Laurie with keeping him vibrant and healthy as he continued to work long after he became an octogenarian.

    Generations Magazine - The Fountain of YouthNow in her eighties, in addition to appearances as Ms. Original Medicare 2015, Laurie continues to work as a beauty consultant for Better Health Unlimited and as a member of the Xyngular Corporation. Elite American Health trade association recently recognized her dedication, leadership and achievements in nutritional counseling. Laurie educates individuals interested in learning habits that produce healthy lifestyles and enhanced quality of life. In addition, she is a highly sought after public speaker and author of two cookbooks: Mrs. Hawai‘i’s Cookbook and Mrs. Hawai‘i’s New Cookbook. She also holds a master’s degree in theology, and volunteers at River of Life shelter. She used to teach Bible studies throughout the islands and served as a co-pastor for New Hope Christian Fellowship. She believes a joyful spirit and spiritual strength are the keys to a rich, satisfying life.

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    Tutu Laurie and her grandchildren are all “in the pink”— her favorite color — enjoying an outing at Kane‘ohe Bay.

    The nature of Laurie’s youthfulness begins with healthy nutrition, regular exercise, and drinking healthy amounts of water. Once tapped, a mystical “Fountain of Youth” seems to spring from her in all directions. Just meeting her leaves you feeling refreshed and optimistic.

    If wife, mother grandmother, great-grandmother, entrepreneur, pastor and author is not enough to convince you of her vitality, Ms. Original Medicare is not Laurie Bachran’s first pageant title — and even at the age of 86 — it’s not necessarily her last. Laurie competed in a national contest sponsored by AARP and was selected as one of AARP’s Fresh Faces of 2008. In 1963, two years before The Medicare Act was signed into law, Laurie was crowned Mrs. Hawai‘i.

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    Four generations of the Bachran clan now pursue active healthy lives in Hawai‘i. Laurie maintains a healthy lifetyle, mindful of her diet, exercise and water intake. She also models and teaches her family the tenets of her Christian faith, which offers strength and joy for a rich and satisfying life.

    Original Medicare celebrated it’s 50th birthday in July — how fitting that Laurie be crowned Ms. Original Medicare 2015. She is a true original. Laurie will likely continue to be active and vibrant until age 100. Stay tuned — you may see her in a 2030 Ms. Original Centenarian Pageant!

    “There is great strength coming from connection with family and friends. Watching families develop common goals, encourage each other and grow spiritually fuels my life energy. It is important to show love and be surrounded by people you love. My family is my Center.”

    Generations Magazine - The Fountain of YouthFay Rawles Schoch was crowned Ms. Medicare Advantage™ 2015, representing those beneficiaries who choose to get their Medicare coverage from a private insurance company. These plans are known as Medicare Advantage plans under the category of Medicare Part C programs. A government publication, Medicare & You 2015, lists AlohaCare, Kaiser, HMSA, Humana, Ohana Health Plan and UnitedHealth as health organizations that offer Medicare Advantage plans to Hawai‘i Medicare beneficiaries.

    Fay has had long and diverse careers as an insurance executive, bank trust officer, offshore cruise-line human resources director, and certified Adlerian parent educator and writer. All her pursuits demonstrate a deep connection with the world around her, but her deepest passion is her work as a parenting educator and writer.

    Fay continues to conduct parenting workshops and develops written materials for them. Now in her early 70s, she and Robert Schoch are married for more than 40 years. They met at an insurance conference and on their first date Fay learned that Robert was a single dad raising two girls and a boy. After a short courtship, they married.

    Generations Magazine - The Fountain of YouthAt the young age of 25, Fay became the parent of three toddlers under the age of five. As a new wife and stepmom, Fay discovered the work of German psychologist Alfred W. Adler. It resonated with her as the perfect prescription for managing her instant family. Fay began absorbing Adler’s work and applying his concepts at home. She credits her ability to smile through tough times and challenges of rearing a family to her Adlerian training. It teaches that we cannot control events, but we can control how we respond to them. Adlerian theory of parenting takes a holistic approach to mutual respect and accepting responsibility for behaviors . Counselors teach, guide and encourage children with the ultimate goal to promote each individual’s sense of belonging, and to increase their social interests and societal contributions. Adlerian techniques focus on all family members valuing each other, staying connected and participating in “family meetings,” where everyone is encouraged to share their concerns, successes and challenges.

    As the children reached their teenage years, Fay found she was expecting; soon she had a blended family, with the oldest in her 20s and the youngest in diapers. Adlerian parenting techniques again proved most valuable.

    Generations Magazine - The Fountain of YouthEach sibling accepted and doted over their little sister; they remained close even as college and relationships drew them away from home. Fay’s youngest became a great athlete, comfortable playing soccer and football. With her parent’s support, she successfully petitioned to compete on a Pop Warner football team. After graduating from Punahou School, she received a congressional appointment to attend the United States Merchant Marine Academy in New York, served on the high seas for six years and is now a Coast Guard reservist, USCG Third Assistant Engineer. Fay’s daughter also earned her masters degree at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. She is currently an executive with Intel Corporation and lives in Silicon Valley with her husband and two children. As she raises her own toddlers, She uses Adlerian parenting concepts and frequently consults with mom for new tips.

    Fay has been teaching Adlerian theory parenting classes for more than 25 years and is a founding director of the Family Education Training Center of Hawai‘i (FETCH). Many of her former students are grandparents now, who return to her classes to share their successes using techniques Fay taught them — and to keep learning Adlerian techniques that help them care for their grandchildren.

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    For Fay Rawles Schoch, the important connections to her husband and children radiate out to grandchildren, community and the world beyond. In her travels to the Vatican and Spain, she experiences the novelty, beauty and value of all people.

    Fay maintains a busy schedule, traveling to Europe to see family and friends, visiting her adult children and grandchildren on the West coast, and teaching parenting classes. She loves attending a water aerobics class offered by the Windward YMCA. Fay smiles easily and has a sense of humor that brings a smile to everyone she meets. At age 72 years young, her skin is smooth and flawless and her shoulder length hair perfectly frames her lovely smile. Fay radiates a light and joy that are consistent with the benefits of the legendary “Fountain of Youth.” Her lifelong practice of Adlerian concepts has allowed all who partake of her wisdom to enjoy a sense of belonging, well-being and a connectedness to family, friends, community and society as a whole. A simple hug or “aloha” from Fay triggers a sense of well being — that all is okay in the world and your presence in it makes life better.

    “As a child, my mother stressed the importance of correct posture… That coaching opened many opportunities and fortune; and led to the physical lifestyle I have today. I am forever grateful for her investing in me. Her care and wisdom continue to burn brightly within me.”

    Generations Magazine - The Fountain of YouthTerri Rainey represents our Ms. Medicare/Medicaid Dual Eligible pageant title. Medicare beneficiaries who qualify for both federally administered Medicare and full Medicaid benefits from their State health program are known as “duals.” If a Medicare beneficiary is dual eligible, they can join a Medicare Special Needs Plan or SNP. Health plans that offer Medicare SNP’s, provide a valuable service for duals by coordinating benefits between the Federal Medicare program and State Medicaid plan to ensure the beneficiary has a seamless experience accessing benefits from both programs.

    Nubian Pageant winners.
    Nubian Pageant winners.

    Our youngest crownholder at the young age of 68, Terri Rainey is elegant and charming. As a personal trainer and life coach, Terri has the physique of a ballerina and the grace of a European princess. It will come as no surprise that as a young child, Terri was a music prodigy and child model. She also competed and was crowned Miss Fashionetta 1965 and Mrs. Ebony World Hawai‘I 1992. Terri is the co-owner of Nubian Pageant Systems® and has been a judge or consultant for many local pageants, including Miss Hawai‘i USA, Miss Cherry Blossom, Miss Filipino Hawai‘i and the National Miss United Way.

    Pageant owner Terri Rainey and her husband George mentor African-American men and women through NubianPageant Systems.
    Pageant owner Terri Rainey and her husband George mentor African-American men and women through NubianPageant Systems.

    Terri has been married to George Rainey for more than 35 years. In 2010, they co-founded and launched Nubian Pageant Systems on the island of Maui where they reside. Based out of Hawai‘i, the Rainey’s organization has an overarching mission to role model personal development in African American men, women and children as young as 4 years of age, “instilling a rich African cultural pride and teaching our ancestors’ contributions and achievements to the world.” They wish to create a stronger community of individuals who exercise strong character, wholesomeness and compassion.

    Terri’s experience, as well as her personal commitment and dedication to the causes she believes in, enabled her to begin her reign as Ms. Medicare Dual Medicare-Medicaid immediately after the December 2014 crowning ceremony. She has been a sought-after educational speaker at senior clubs and events throughout Maui, and has dazzled audiences with both her oral presentations and also her appearance. Terri graces any stage with the eloquence of royalty. She is compassionate, with a heart of gold — but she may not let you eat cake. Trim and muscular, Rainey follows the workout regimen of an Olympic athlete, paying strict attention to what she eats and the dietary habits of those around her. She is a walking, talking “Wikipedia” of nutritional facts, but does not attempt to be heavy-handed or aggressive — or insist you adopt her dietary regimen. Her energy, strength, balance, flexibility and obvious low body fat tell her story — people look and ask her how to get there. The benefits of her healthy lifestyle are reflected from head to toe, challenging others to learn more from her and adopt her habits.

    Terri with her mom, Gladys Lee, attending a fundraiser dinner dance in Honolulu.
    Terri with her mom, Gladys Lee, attending a fundraiser dinner dance in Honolulu.

    There is no question that Terri has unlocked the secrets of the “Fountain of Youth,” and bathes daily in it’s restorative waters. Terri and her husband travel extensively, and have been around the world at least once — halfway around many times. Terri is so photogenic, that snapshots of her and George, touring, exercising, relaxing on the beach or shopping in foreign ports around the world look more like professional photo shoots, destined for commercial use. Terri definitely emits the image of someone decades younger than her 68 years. A fountain of youth within her continues to feed her passion to help others discover their own special vitality and personal strengths.

    The three reigning titleholders of the 2015 Ms. Medicare Pageant all teach us an important lesson about the true nature of youth. They have found ways to nurture an uncommon youthfulness inside them and draw on it every day. Explorer Ponce de Leon, failed to locate a physical fountain. Perhaps that elusive fountain actually lies within all of us, just waiting to be drawn to the surface by proper nutrition, a sense of well-being, connectedness to the people and world around us, and robust, active movement throughout our day. This is the nature of youth.

    As the reigning Ms. Medicare titleholders’ year of service concludes, their greatest contribution just might be guiding us to the notion that our “Fountain of Youth” lays dormant inside all of us. Its restorative powers may be unleashed at any age, if we emulate the lives of people who successfully bathe in its waters and drink from its springs. Let’s seek out health, strength and joy! The rest of our lives on Medicare begins today — let’s find that “Fountain of Youth!”

    The Fountain of Youth

  • Introducing the Executive Office on Aging

     

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    Volunteer honoree delegates throughout the state were celebrated on Friday, June 5th, at Cafe Julia, Honolulu, with the directors of each Hawai‘i county for the Executive Office on Aging (they are also known as the AAAs).Volunteer honoree delegates (L–R top) Roger Caires (Kaua‘i), Robert Ferolano (Hawai‘i Island), Donald Jensen (Maui), Alan Kumalae (O‘ahu), (middle): Pat Simpson (Kaua‘i), Janet Murakami (Hawai‘i Island), Katsuko Enoki (Maui), Yolanda Morreira (O‘ahu); (bottom) AAA directors Nalani Aki, (O‘ahu County), Deborah Stone-Walls (Maui County), Kealoha Takahashi (Kaua‘i County), Kimo Alameda (Hawai‘i County).

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    An Introduction by Terri Byers, Director of Executive Office on Aging

    Mahalo to Generations Magazine for the opportunity to introduce myself to you. When I was appointed director of the state Executive Office on Aging (EOA) by Gov. David Ige earlier this year, I joined a fantastic team of professionals and volunteers dedicated to honoring our kupuna. The office is funded primarily by grants under the Older Americans Act, state appropriations and other federal grants. EOA has a staff of 25, assisted by volunteers from the Long Term Care Ombudsman program, the Senior Medicare Patrol and the Hawai‘i State Health Insurance Program.

    We work with all four county Area Agencies on Aging (AAAs) via local Aging and Disability Resource Centers (ADRC) to enable older adults to live in their own homes for as long as possible. Connecting them to direly needed support and services can be a complex process.

    Alternatives to institutional care are called home and community based services. In Hawai‘i, these supports are made available through DHS, Quest Integration (QI), EOA’s Kupuna Care and Older Americans Act services provided through your county’s AAA. EOA provides training and technical assistance to the AAAs so they can meet federal guidelines for a fully functioning ADRC.

    A Driving Need for Change

    Section 2402(a) of the Affordable Care Act requires the U.S. Department of Health (DOH) and the Hawai‘i Human Services (HHS) create regulations that:

    • Respond to beneficiary needs and choices;
    • Provide strategies to maximize independence, including client-employed providers; and
    • Provide support and coordination necessary for “individualized, self-directed, community-supported life.”

    We use ADRC as a mechanism to comply with these federal requirements, and we are actively seeking new private and nonprofit partnerships to help us serve the needs of older adults and family caregivers. Read on and find out what’s going on in your county. You will see why I am excited about the future of aging in Hawai‘i. To become involved with EOA planning activities, please call our office at 808-586-0100.

    COUNTY OF HAWAI’I

    by C. Kimo Alameda, HI County Executive Director, Office on Aging

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 03Kupuna Care (KC) program provides funds to “… help frail and vulnerable older persons lead independent, meaningful and dignified lives in their own homes and communities.” Services for Seniors and the Hawai‘i County Office of Aging (HCOA) has increased the number of seniors receiving Kupuna Care funding in Hawai‘i County by creating a unique case management and transition approach, that doubles the impact of the state’s fiscal investment while ensuring seniors are safe, happy and living in their homes with their families for as long as they choose.

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    Services for Seniors Office Team, (L–R) Kim Takehiro-Jack, Michelle Yamasaki and Tessie Hernando

    Of 273 KC-funded seniors receiving case management from Services for Seniors in 2014, 77 percent were able to stay in their homes at an average cost of $1,200 per month. This is an astonishingly low figure when average monthly costs at Hilo’s Life Care Center run $12,405, Okutsu VA at $11,200 and Foster Home Care or a Care Home between $3,000 and $5,000. Services for Seniors reduced out-of-pocket costs through its “least restrictive placement” approach to transition planning that involves the development of lasting informal partnerships for seniors at every level.

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 05After a Kupuna Care consumer receives three to six months of case management and wrap services, Services for Seniors staff works diligently to replace formal services with community and volunteer supports. These supports are provided by caregivers in the family, friends, faith-based members and/or community volunteers willing to be a part of the consumer’s caregiving team. Transition to informal supports reduces the use of Kupuna Care funds, which then enables other eligible seniors to participate in the program. This system also reduces the number of consumers on a wait list, allowing Services for Seniors to help a larger number deserving elders age in place with dignity.

    For every Kupuna Care dollar HCOA and Services for Seniors spends, the State of Hawai‘i and its taxpayers save either $2 to $3 in foster care home costs, or $10 to $12 in long-term residential costs. By listening to our kupuna and connecting them to their circle of support, Services for Seniors creates successful relationships that benefit the whole community.

    Active Seniors Give Back Through RSVP

    Hawai‘i County’s Elderly Activities Division is one of the most active senior entities in the state, serving over 12,000 older adults. One of its prized programs is the Retired & Senior Volunteer Program (RSVP) that places close to 1,700 Hawai‘i Island seniors in over 150 volunteer stations. This year, RSVP celebrates 42 years and will accumulate 130,000 hours of service — a value of $1.3 million given back to the community. RSVP also gives our active seniors meaningful volunteer work that enables them to engage with their community as well as live independently in their own homes.

    You never know whom you might run into as you walk the halls of Hawai‘i County’s Aging and Disabilities Resource Center. How would you like to chat with a guy who was inducted into the Volleyball Hall of Fame?

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    Pete Velasco, RSVP Volunteer

    Hall of famer and Olympic volleyball legend Pedro “Pete” Velasco is an RSVP volunteer who spends several hours a week answering the phone and welcoming walk-in clients at Hawai‘i County’s Nutrition (HCN) program — one of many duty stations available to RSVP volunteers aged 55 and older. Pete’s wife, Adelle, oversees the Keaau HCN program. “She introduced me to RSVP,” says Pete. “I answer phones, and I help make connections between people.”

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    Pete Velasco and Tom Haine, 1966 USVBA National Champioships

    Connections between people and leadership is what led Pete to the pinnacle of volleyball — first as part of the Outrigger Team that won tournaments across the nation in the ‘50s. He played on the United States National teams at the 1963 and 1967 Pan American Games. In 1964, he was elected captain of the USA Olympic volleyball team for the Tokyo games, where volleyball was first recognized as an Olympic sport. He returned to the Olympics in Mexico City in 1968.

    Pete has a great recipe for life: “I live by seven words — commitment, dedication, and sacrifice. If you do these three things, God is bound to give you success. But to maintain success you need the next two words — creativity and innovation. And to perpetuate the success you need the final two words — humility and compatibility.” Pete is truly a humble man. “At my point in life, I give from the heart. You don’t owe me anything, because I already received when I gave to you.”

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    Pete is still winning points, answering telephone requestsat the ADRC office, and finding out the answers.

    Giving is what RSVP is all about. Pete says, “I love what I do. The RSVP program helps me to share my aloha with those I can help.”

    Join RSVP and share your aloha with those you can help. RSVP volunteers come from all walks of life: homemakers, landscapers, postal workers, salespersons and coffee growers all bring their successes and wisdom to their volunteer work. If you are over 55 and can commit to several hours a week, please call 808-961-8730 or visit our office at Kamana Senior Center, 127 Kamana St. in Hilo. And contact our ADRC office for information on our various programs and services.

    • Aging & Disability Resource Center
    • 1055 Kinoole St., #101, Hilo
    • 808-961-8626 | www.hcoahawaii.org

    COUNTY OF MAUI

    by Deborah Stone-Walls, Maui County Executive on Aging

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 09Maui County Office on Aging (MCOA) is an office filled with activity. Since implementing standardized tools and procedures of the Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC), new referrals to MCOA have increased as much as 400 percent a month. While the numbers of seniors and individuals with disabilities requesting assistance has increased, the available funding to serve the seniors of Maui, Moloka‘i, and Lana‘i has remained mostly static. Therefore, MCOA finds it necessary to look for opportunities to creatively solve the issue of how to meet the increasing need without the luxury of an increase in funding.

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 10A major way that MCOA is working to find solutions is to greatly increase emphasis on helping seniors, family caregivers and individuals with disabilities improve their overall health. Two “evidence-based” (proven to create expected outcomes) healthy-aging programs now available on Maui are Better Choices, Better Health (BCBH) and Enhance®Fitness (EF).

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    Lana and Jose Queding of Keokea, Maui, attended a six-week Better Choices Better Health training class that “Gave us back our life,” according to Lana. Many seniors can benefit by learning how to manage their chronic disease and enjoy a better quality of life.

    BCBH includes a Chronic Disease Self-Management Program (for those with a long-term health conditions, such as diabetes, arthritis, heart disease, obesity, high blood pressure and many others). The six-week workshop covers how to deal with pain, fatigue and frustration, and teaches action planning, in addition to ways to improve fitness and manage medications.

    Another BCBH workshop is the Diabetes Self- Management Program (for those who are prediabetic or suffer from diabetes). Both workshops provide the necessary self-management tools that reduce symptoms and promote better health and overall enjoyment of life. The once-a-week class for people with diabetes meets for six weeks, building awareness for healthy choices, and creating good habits that allow participants to bring themselves into better control and increased overall health. Family members may attend to reinforce and support healthy choices. Jose and Lana Quedding from Keokea in Upcounty Maui are enjoying their retirement with the improved quality of life that came from attending our program.

    These dynamic, interactive and fun workshops are offerred to seniors on Maui, Moloka‘i and Lana‘i. Evidence shows that program participants experience positive outcomes, such as improved health behaviors, positive changes in health, increased confidence, better communication with health providers, fewer visits to physicians, expanded support networks, more energy and less fatigue. Participants experience a better quality of life when they are no longer totally controlled by their chronic disease.

    MCOA is also excited to continue work with community partners by offering Enhance®Fitness, a nationwide, evidence-based physical activity program for seniors. The program has been nationally recognized by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, U.S. Administration on Aging and the National Council on Aging. More importantly, folks on Maui who have participated in Enhance®Fitness report that they are noticeably stronger and more physically fit! Many have been astounded that physically, they now can do more than they have in years. Even small increases in strength, flexibility and balance can make household chores and errands much easier.

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    Leona Medeiros and Rodger Mellema have fun in Kihei’s Enhance®Fitness class. The “stepping-over-object” exercise improves balance as students lift one foot off the ground while balancing on the other leg for a short time

    Enhance®Fitness is a fun, one-hour, interactive class offered three times a week at various locations on Maui and Lana‘i. MCOA is in the initial stages of planning for Enhance®Fitness implementation on Moloka‘i.

    The program challenges active, older adults, as well as individuals who are unfit or near-frail, with exercises and activities geared to every level of fitness. Participants “work out” standing, seated or in their wheelchairs — each as they are able. Every class is like four classes in one: aerobics, balance, strength training and stretching. No special or expensive equipment is needed, and soft wrist and ankle weights are provided.

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 13Enhance®Fitness instructors are specially trained. Individual participant progress is followed with fitness checks at enrollment and every four months thereafter. Exercises are safe and may be modified according to participant ability. The class also affords social interaction and reinforcement among persons who have a common desire to get healthier. Enhance®Fitness classes are a great way to get stronger, have more energy and maintain independence.

    For further information on all Maui County Office of Aging programs and services, please call Monday through Friday 7:45 am to 4:30 pm:

    • Maui: 808-270-7774
    • Moloka‘i: 808-553-5241
    • La na‘i: 808-565-6818
    • Or visit us online: www.mauicountyadrc.org

    COUNTY OF O’AHU

    by Nalani Aki, County Executive on Aging, City & County of Honolulu, Elderly Affairs Division

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 14For O‘ahu elders over 60 and people with disabilities of any age, obtaining information and referral assistance starts with the Elderly Affairs Division, ADRC “one-stop” Senior Helpline: 808-768-7700. Trained community service aids assess needs and refer callers to service providers in Honolulu County, and conduct assessments for frail elders 60 and older who may qualify for publicly funded services. For example, a homebound elder in need of meals would be assessed and connected to local agencies that provide meal service.

    My job is to oversee Honolulu’s Aging and Disabled Resource Center (ADRC), a component of the Elderly Affairs Division. Each month, our helpline connects answers hundreds of calls regarding long term service and supports on O‘ahu.

    We understand that transportation is a challenge for many people, so ADRC is a helpline to we connect older adults and people with disabilities to the agencies that can help them. Aids answer questions Monday through Friday from 7:45 am to 4:30 pm except holidays. Many call to ask what programs are available and how to qualify; those interested in specific services may be in directly referred to a service provider. In addition to connecting O‘ahu elderly and people with disabilities to specific government and community agencies, a community service aid will also arrange to visit potential clients to verify assessment information and help them create a support plan. Many seniors wish to continue to live in their own homes, but need assistance with meals, transportation or other services. A support plan may include state or federally funded services, identifies members of support, such as family members, friends and neighbors, volunteers or paid professionals. It is a plan that covers all options for assistance — formal and informal.

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    A warm “aloha” from our O‘ahu EAD Staff: front row (L–R): Sandy Esaki, Kaimanaonalani Makekau, Andrea Golden, Remy Rueda, Carol Makainai, (middle row) Ryan Gallardo, Pablo Venenciano, Melanie Hite, Kelly Yoshimoto, Sharra Feliciano, Matu Marrero, Lenny Fabro, Jade Kauwe-Lopez, (back row) Robyn Meyer, Joel Nakamura, Alex Blackwell, Daleena Castaneda, Roger Clemente, Carolyn Tellio, Craig Yamaguchi. Not pictured: Carlton Sagara.

    Some seniors say the hardest step is admitting that they need help and picking up the phone to ask for help. Our aids will guide you to community services that make sense and connect you to publically funded services you qualify for. ADRC also supports a website packed with information. Family members and caregivers use it most. During the next year, we plan to enhance the site for easier navigation. We are still evolving. It has taken a lot of time and effort to roll out our “onestop” helpline and ADRC services to such a large audience of seniors and people with disabilities. Agencies and community programs are changing and improving their services, too. We ask for your understanding as we continue to meet the challenge of guiding everyone to the best options to meet their specific needs.

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 16O‘ahu’s Retired and Senior Volunteer Program (RSVP) is the volunteer end of help and assistance. RSVP engages people age 55 and over in a diverse range of volunteer activities offered by more than 25 “volunteer stations” (nonprofit or government agencies who deliver services to the elderly, as well as providing other community needs). Project Director Lenny Fabro heads this very successful island-wide program.

    RSVP is federally funded under the Corporation for National and Community Services (CNCS). In 1972, it was initiated on O‘ahu by Helping Hands Hawaii. Since 2010, the City/County of Honolulu, under the Elderly Affairs Division (EAD), sponsors RSVP O‘ahu. Currently, over 200 RSVP O‘ahu volunteers contribute over 14,000 hours. “Two hundred more volunteers are needed,” says Fabro.

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    Carl Nakamura preparing to load his truck with meals. Carl’s duty station is “shuttling” and distributing meals outside the Honolulu area. Other volunteers will meet Carl in Wahiawa and deliver the meals to seniors.

    “We make it easy for citizens to volunteer,” Fabro continues. “Persons over 55 who can commit time each week may enroll by calling 808-768-7700, or by filling out the online form at www.elderlyaffairs.com/site/460/rsvp.aspx or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/RSVPOahu. We also reach out with presentations at fairs, community gatherings and organization meetings. We invite volunteers to an orientation that explains all the many types of volunteer opportunities available. The beauty of RSVP is flexibility. Volunteers pick what they want to do based on their skills and tastes. If they want to help on Mondays delivering a meal to a senior, and on another day help with blood donors, they can do it. If an activity does not suit them, they may switch to another more compatible assignment.”

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 18Some of the volunteer stations now available are: Hawai’i Literacy, The Next Step Shelter, Office for Social Ministry, Blood Bank of Hawai‘i, Lanakila Meals on Wheels, State Executive Office on Aging, HCAP Head Start and several elementary schools providing tutoring and mentoring. One important volunteer opportunity is with the EAD. Volunteers assist with important independent living services, such as transportation, companionship and telephone reassurance, to homebound elders. Another station that assists with independent living services is the Waikiki Friendly Neighbors program.

    Fabro encourages people 55 and over, to apply their knowledge, skills, and experiences to volunteer and help meet community needs. If you have some time to commit, sign up and check out the many ways you can help our O‘ahu community.

    COUNTY OF KAUA’I

    by Kealoha Takahashi, Executive on Aging, County of Kaua‘i Agency on Elderly Affairs, Office of Community Assistance

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 19Elders on Kaua‘i are just a phone call away from our Agency on Elderly Affairs. Our receptionist will answer requests for information, and process requests for assistance by taking the caller’s name and address and making an appointment for visit and needs assessment from a Community Service Assistant. Our goal is to be sure elders know what federal, state, county and community services are available to them, and to refer them to agencies and care providers who can deliver those services. Funding is limited and helping those who live alone is top priority.

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    In April, at the 2015 Mayors’ Day of Recognition for National Service, Kaua‘i Foster Grandparents Program and RSVP volunteers presented William Arakai, Kaua‘i District superintendent, with a cartful of school supplies for Kapa‘a Elementary School.

    While most people call us, we also assist elders who email us, visit our office or submit questions on our website. Last year, we processed over 4,000 requests for information and referrals.

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    Friendly Agency on Elderly Affairs staff help Kaua‘I seniors “Live well and age well.”

    Kaua‘i County is part of a nationwide Area Agency on Aging program, which was created by the Older Americans Act. It mandates that we provide elders access to health, transportation, information and referral services in our community. To be sure that all elders have access to us, we reach out to the community with presentations and workshops, too. We follow our elder clients as they age, and send caseworkers to do annual assessments.

    It is important for seniors on Kaua‘I to know that services are available to them and to their families. Never believe that you have nowhere to turn.

    Generations Magazine - Introducing the Executive Office on Aging - Image 22That goes for caregivers, too. Plan ahead for the time when your loved one will need more help than you can give. Find out what services are available to you now and in the future. Don’t wait until you are exhausted and stressed out before you call for assistance with your loved one. We have information about daycare for elders and respite services for worn out caregivers that can help them manage better and maintain their own mental and physical health. Call us — we can help.

    Kaua‘i RSVP Volunteer Opportunities

    The Corporation for National Community Services (CNCS) grants funds to Kaua‘i County that help pay for Community Service staff salaries. Actually coordinating and delivering services takes the work of a full community. On Kaua‘i, over 350 volunteers donate their time to assist 24 different organizations that deliver services to the elderly. All skills can be used to help others. If you want to learn new skill, we will teach you. All you need is to be active, age 55 or older, and able to commit to several hours a week to help the elderly. To volunteer, call 808-241-4479.

    Foster Grandparents Program

    Another statewide program that CNCS funds is Foster Grandparents. This program teams elders with school children who don’t have grandparents. Educational research shows that kids who spend time with grandparents perform better in school. Undivided attention, unconditional friendship and mentoring from elders can create a positive framework for the child at school and play.

    Healthy Aging Program on Kaua‘i

    It’s never too late to get healthy! We encourage seniors to participate in our newest programs for healthy aging. Doctors have proven that exercise and careful management of chronic disease can keep body, heart and mind healthy as we age, and improve quality of life.

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    Enhance®Fitness classes are very popular with seniors, because exercises are modified to each senior’s ability. Here, participants do upper body strength training while seated.

    Enhance®Fitness

    We currently run nine Enhance®Fitness classes at seven different sites on Kaua‘i. Instructors monitor students’ progress and record increased flexibility, balance, overall strength and endurance. Fitness also improves attitude. Just the social interaction of attending class is a happy benefit for elders who spend most of their time at home.

    Diabetes Self-Management Workshop

    This important program meets once a week for six weeks. It helps diabetic seniors make better choices. We currently have a two-hour-a-week Diabetes Self-Management workshop that helps diabetics keep their “numbers” under control, become more active and generally feel better.

    For more information on Healthy Aging workshops on Kaua‘i, please call or visit us oline.

    • County of Kaua‘i Agency on Elderly Affairs
    • 4444 Rice St., Ste. 330, Lihue
    • 808-241-4470 | www.kauaiadrc.org

    AAA – Area Agencies on Aging
    ADRC – Aging & Disability Resource Center
    AEA – Agency on Elderly Affairs (County of Kaua‘i)
    BCBH – Better Choices, Better Health
    CNCS – Corporation for National & Comm. Services
    DHS – Department of Human Services
    DOH – Department of Health
    EAD – Elderly Affairs Division (County of O‘ahu)
    EF – Enhance®Fitness
    EOA – Executive Office on Aging
    HCEAD – Hawai‘i County’s Elderly Activities Division
    HCN – Hawai‘i County’s Nutrition
    HCOA – Hawai‘i County Office of Aging
    HHS – Hawai‘i Department of Human Services
    KC – Ku¯puna Care
    MCOA – Maui County Office of Aging
    QI – Quest Integration
    RSVP – Retired & Senior Volunteer Program

    Introducing the Executive Office on Aging

  • Baby Boomers Face the Challenge

     

    The Yee family collaborate together in helping Mom. Lt–Rt: Milton (brother), Tammy (sister), Alice (mom), Taylor Ann (granddaughter) and Michael.
    The Yee family collaborate together in helping Mom. Lt–Rt: Milton (brother), Tammy (sister), Alice (mom), Taylor Ann (granddaughter) and Michael.

    Baby Boomers who have built successful careers and investments for the future are now experiencing the physical, emotional and financial outcomes of caring for their aging parents, while they meet the expense of college or support for adult children who choose to live at home. Boomers who did not plan ahead or who lost their assets in the great recession are caring for their parents at home — households that sometimes include four generations under one roof. Every situation is different and supremely demanding. The total absorption of caregiving and sustaining a household strains family relationships, and leaves little time for rest and quiet. Transitioning parents to a long-term care facility may bankrupt the family, squash college plans, or even risk leaving boomers themselves dependent or destitute in their old age.

    Multigenerational families with more than two children never went out of style in Hawai‘i, but young people are drawn away to the Mainland for job opportunities and affordable housing. They raise their families on the Mainland, where education standards are higher. When Grandpa’s and Grandma’s health fails, who takes care of them? Elders often are not able or willing to move, so children manage their care long-distance, or they move back to Hawai‘i as caregivers.

    One of the deepest problems is that families who cannot afford professional home care or the cost of a nursing home often feel ashamed and never ask for assistance. Families in Hawai‘I use hospice services half as often as families on the Mainland. Suffering in silence and isolation, “making do,” makes caregiving harder than it has to be. An increasing number of public agencies and nonprofits are creating ways to help.

    At every single milestone of life, baby boomers have forged new ways to survive and thrive. Overcoming the financial challenges of the “sandwich generation” will test their mettle, but some are meeting caregiving head-on and succeeding. In this issue, Generations Magazine looks at the unique problems and solutions of three caregivers in the sandwich generation. Their advice is more precious than gold — it comes from experience.

    The public Michael W. Yee is a seasoned financial planner who gives advice to people every day about planning their finances for the future — futures that involve aging and long-term care. He’s not just telling his clients what he learned in school or in his years of practice, he and his family are living it every day. His three-generation family includes his wife’s 87-year-old mother, and Mike and his sister and brothers are a caregiving team for their own 78-year-old mom, who chooses to live independently.

    “The principles of Ki aikido seek to unify mind, body and spirit. Through study and training, I learn to apply it to daily life, by responding to challenges from a base of love, rather than fear; I practice calmness, clarity and focus, which enables me to function through stress situations and prioritize problems so I can focus on solving them from a higher level. I train to find inner peace, my own quiet time. These exercises help me cope and embrace the challenges ahead — to thrive rather than survive.”
    “The principles of Ki aikido seek to unify mind, body and spirit. Through study and training, I learn to apply it to daily life, by responding to challenges from a base of love, rather than fear; I practice calmness, clarity and focus, which enables me to function through stress situations and prioritize problems so I can focus on solving them from a higher level. I train to find inner peace, my own quiet time. These exercises help me cope and embrace the challenges ahead — to thrive rather than survive.”

    “I get up every morning at 5 am, before every one else in the house. Our son is a senior at Maryknoll, our daughter a sophomore at Sacred Hearts Academy. I make the whole family breakfast every day— fresh eggs, meat fruit, yogurt and an energy bar for my wife before she takes off to work as a nurse in endoscopy. The kids make their lunches, but breakfast is a family tradition. I clean the kitchen as I go, and by 6:30 am, the kids and grandma are in the car, ready to go school and adult daycare. By 8 am, I am entering my office, where I help clients achieve their financial goals. My wife taxis the family home when she gets through work in the afternoon. Two days a week I work until 9 pm for clients who can only meet in the evenings; the other days I pitch in to help the wife pick up the kids and Grandma. We play tag team because the kids have sports, cheerleading and scouts; Grandma has doctors’ appointments. On the weekends, it’s housekeeping, the yard and honey-do lists. On top of this I have to find time to do my mom’s laundry and practice aikido. That’s my schedule.

    “Multigenerational family and family caregiving is normal in Hawai‘i; the huge costs of long-term care for Parkinson’s disease, Alzheimer’s disease and debilitating arthritis will cause more families to provide at-home care for their parents, like we do. My mom has suffered two heart attacks and a stroke. Even though her kids are not comfortable with the risks associated with her living on her own, it makes her happy. So my sister, Tammy, who used to be an RN, leads our family care team, to support Mom’s independence. My brothers, Milton and Malcolm, do her grocery shopping and housekeeping, I handle laundry and help her with her finances. Tammy oversees Mom’s medications, takes her to doctors’ appointments and assesses needs as they come up. For now, it’s working, but that could change at any moment and we would have to make a new care plan.

    Finances

    “I am blessed to have 33 years of learning and experience in financial planning. I do the same for myself as for my clients. We wanted our kids to go to private high schools and away for college, and started saving and investing early. I guess we always knew that we would care for our parents — but it was not as easy. You have to be flexible and adapt. Sometimes caring for an adult requires taking time off and loss of income. Our lives together had to evolve because our parents had a financial life or their own, more or less. Eventually, the finances all come together. That’s a challenge for many families.

    “Most people plan for retirement, but don’t plan for the cost of old age. They never thought about paying for assisted living (about $4,200 per month) or skilled nursing care (about $9,000 per month). That’s why 70 percent of nursing home patients are destitute and must rely on Medicaid and the generosity of their relatives. Many of the children go beyond their limits to pay for care, bankrupting their own retirement and straining relationships with their spouse or siblings. Family members have differing opinions about finances and care — leading to conflict and strained relationships at the worst of times. It doesn’t have to be that way, if they would plan and prepare ahead properly. My job is to help families prepare and map their financial life’s journey — to maximize their financial resources and all the services available to them. Planning can protect family relations and give families the possibility to live a life of choice, rather than chance. I have learned through the years that it’s never too late to start; better something than nothing. However, the later you start, the fewer options you have.

    “Another issue is what we call ‘The Silent Tsunami.’ Our culture teaches us not to discuss our affairs with others — to suffer in silence. A couple not asking for advice or not knowing whom to trust could be missing the chance to protect their retirement, their legacy and their families. Only about 15 percent of families carry long-term care insurance, but up to 70 percent will need to pay for long-term care.”

    Caregiving

    Mom, an independent spirit, insist on making lunch for the family.
    Mom, an independent spirit, insist on making lunch for the family.

    “Someone has to be the leader of the care team. In my house, my wife is the care team leader for her mom and the kids. I’m the follower/supporter. My sister leads a team of her siblings to provide care for my mom. We all share the work, and my sister involves all of us in every decision. She assesses how Mom is doing and brings patience, flexibility, tolerance and creativity to the table when problems arise. Tammy’s nursing experience helps her manage not only the care, but also the family dynamics. She’s great at allowing Mom to live independently and keeping the siblings on the same page.”

    Advice

    “My son and daughter pitch in, too. When my son volunteered to help with caregiving, I asked him why he wanted to do it. He said, ‘I felt it was my responsibility.’ Never overlook the good heart that makes a person offer to help. It is a gift.

    “We are going through difficult times as my son prepares to go to college. I am learning as I go. My family is growing from the challenge of caregiving. Growth comes when we are being tested. I have learned about priorities: a busy life comes down to what matters the most — for necessity, survival and love. It is just as important to find peace and time for yourself as it is to care for your parent — your sanity depends on it. Devote yourself to the ones you love and to yourself. And prepare and plan ahead for the financial journey — I can’t say that enough.”

    “Mom passed away in 2012. I was under so much pressure at that time. She gave me her love for music. She sang in church, and when she was severely debilitated by Alzheimer’s and dying from cancer, she could no longer speak, but when I sang her favorite hymns to her, she sang along — every word. I turn to my piano for comfort. Music reminds me of Mom, and helps me release the memories of her struggle with dementia, and how hard it was to be thousands of miles away.”
    “Mom passed away in 2012. I was under so much pressure at that time. She gave me her love for music. She sang in church, and when she was severely debilitated by Alzheimer’s and dying from cancer, she could no longer speak, but when I sang her favorite hymns to her, she sang along — every word. I turn to my piano for comfort. Music reminds me of Mom, and helps me release the memories of her struggle with dementia, and how hard it was to be thousands of miles away.”

    In 1966, Pamela Ah-Nee’s grandma adopted her and her brother. They were raised in a Christian home in West Virginia. In 2004, when her grandmother, who she fondly called “Mom,” first began slipping into Alzheimer’s, the distance between Hawai‘i and the East Coast became even greater. Her sister-in-law would call frequently to inform her about “forgetting,” “poor decision making” and increasingly odd behaviors. Her mom passed in 2012. Remembering and commemorating the wonderful Christian woman who loved her and taught her goodness and grace helps Pamela heal. “It helps me release the memories of her struggle with dementia and how hard it was to be thousands of miles away.”

    Pamela now helps clients who are caring for their loved ones who suffer from Alzheimer’s. Her deep compassion and understanding stem from her own experience, losing the grandmother who she called “Mom.”

    Loving From Afar

    Grandma as a young woman.
    Grandma as a young woman.

    “Mom was 92 and still living in our family home in White Sulfur Springs, not far from my brother, when she died in 2012. I was working and raising my five kids in Hawai‘i and could only afford to go back east for an extended visit once each December. My youngest daughter, Ka‘imi, would go to help me deep clean Mom’s home and assess how she was managing.

    “Although she had Alzheimer’s, Mom died of colon cancer, which was already metastasized when doctors discovered it after she fell and broke her hip. She didn’t last long after that, but it was clear that we waited too long to get full-time in home care for her. She had been able to cover her failing memory and “fill in the gaps” for a long time before my brother and I knew that she was losing the ability to reason.

    “My mom was a very religious woman who sang in the choir of the International Pentecostal Holiness Church. I was slow to begin speaking, and Mom would encourage me to sing — a hymn was my first words. Singing and music is deeply important to me, and when I want to find peace, I play my piano and sing. When Mom was dying and could no longer speak, I sang hymns to her, and she sang along — remembering every word.

    “At age 70, Mom started going with the ladies of the church to a local nursing home once a week, to sing for the clients, comb their hair and take care of them. At 83 she was still volunteering at the nursing home.

    “Mom was an independent and very social woman with a bright mind and a great sense of humor. She took care of Grandpa when he became ill. She was very social, but also very resourceful. My brother and I learned how to grow vegetables in her garden, we learned to hunt game and dress the meat before putting up in the freezer. She taught us Bible verses and demonstrated love, being truthful and how to help others in need. She said we should never allow others to be abused or hurt. At the end of her life, she asked my brother and me to promise we would tell people we meet that God loves them. She said there were too many people in this world who do not feel loved.

    “In memory of Mom… remembering grandma and how she loved us, healed our memory of those days. We carry on the best of who she was and what she taught us.”
    “In memory of Mom… remembering grandma and how she loved us, healed our memory of those days. We carry on the best of who she was and what she taught us.”

    “When Mom became forgetful, my brother and his wife in West Virginia acted as caregiving point persons, calling and checking in on her regularly. Mom lived independently and lots of neighbors and long-standing friends visited her and checked in on her daily. If anything at all seemed wrong, they would call my brother or his wife and report it. As a counselor and an educator, I could offer advice from Hawai‘i and help assess changes on my trips to West Virginia.

    “With dementia it is sometimes difficult to detect the changes in personality and behavior that are clear signs of deterioration. The family is sometimes in denial, or the loved one finds ways to cover up their forgetfulness. In Mom’s case, she was very good at “filling in the gaps” in her memory. If she were recounting a story and could not remember something, she would just make it up. As long as she had the ability to deduce — her active mind was never at a loss for an answer. At first my brother and I would correct Mom with the facts, and sit her down for a ‘reality check.’ Here we were correcting the person who taught us to be truthful at all times! We were shocked that our Mom would lie to us, and began to question if she had been lying to us all along. We missed recognizing that the behavior was a resultof the disease and reacted to her fabrications as if she were a whole person. This is a big pitfall that many family members fall into.

    “‘Having a talk’ is how we might correct and train our children when they tell a lie, but the difference here is that Mom could not respond to training. She was losing her grip on reality, had a diminished ability to reason, and could not be held accountable for her actions. We reacted in frustration and anger — not realizing that the rational logic of the principled woman we loved and respected was slipping away.

    “It took a long time to process the changes in Mom’s behavior, and now we can look back without negative emotions and even laugh at some of the weird stories she ‘dreamed up.’ One time my daughter and I went for an afternoon of skiing, and got caught in traffic on the way home. Grandma was in her chair weeping. ‘How did you make it through the fire?’ she asked. She was in a panic because she was watching a news report from San Diego about an arsonist, with pictures of homes on fire. She knew we were gone and thought we were the people in the fire on TV. For Mom, all sensory input became part of the ‘here and now.’

    “When I was trying to get Mom to wear Poise for incontinence, we had a nice long talk about the advantages and how to use them. I told her I would buy her a large package of them at Costco.

    “She replied, ‘Oh, don’t spend all that money, I will only wear them once a month — only for one or two days.” I ended up just throwing away all her scraps of cloth she was wadding up in her panties, so she had to use the Poise. That worked better than the training session.

    “Another time she told people that a minister at our church had molested three girls in the church and everyone was trying to keep in under wraps. Soon, members of the congregation got up a posse to confront the minister, who was devastated. He asked, ‘Grandma, how could do this to me?” That is a question my brother and I often asked. It comes from a lack of understanding the disease of Alzheimer’s and failing to accept that your love one is not capable of rational thought. They are not making decisions based on reality or discriminating between fact and fiction.

    Our Gained Wisdom…

    “During the time of my long-distance caregiving, I was also educating the last of my five children, and following Mom’s passing, went through a divorce. It was a terribly painful time; full of difficulties. As far as advice for other caregivers, I think it is very important to get an early diagnosis for any kind of dementia. Educate yourself and prepare for the worst. Many caregivers take things to heart as my brother and I did. Take time to find out what others have already learned.

    “If you live at a distance, you need a support team. And be sure to include anyone who knows that things are not right and wants to do part of the work. If people don’t want to help but just want to give advice, it’s best not to include them. The person with dementia needs others to accommodate their loss. At first, a person may need only prompting or a little help, but eventually, caregivers will become responsible for all personal care. Last of all … don’t forget … always remind your family member that they are loved!”

    “Losing my dad, a jovial and loving man, to Alzheimer’s disease was so painful. His personality died well before his body, and while I was stressed with his care, I was also grieving — I felt very alone. I didn’t have any support systems in place. Nobody knew what I was going through. Going to my favorite beaches was the only way I could find some peace.”
    “Losing my dad, a jovial and loving man, to Alzheimer’s disease was so painful. His personality died well before his body, and while I was stressed with his care, I was also grieving — I felt very alone. I didn’t have any support systems in place. Nobody knew what I was going through. Going to my favorite beaches was the only way I could find some peace.”

    Isolation is reality on Moloka‘i. Basic services are minimal: groceries, fuel, hardware, baked goods, sundries and a couple of local watering holes are about it for downtown Kaunakakai. In a small community, the coconut wireless can be a blessing and a curse, so families keep their “personal” trials secret, preferring to bear their burdens alone.

    Lorri Misaki grew up on Moloka‘i helping at the family business, Misaki’s Grocery, as all her family did. In high school, she decided to follow her dreams to be a graphic artist on the Mainland, and when the time came, she returned to Moloka‘i to take care of her elderly parents.

    On-the-Job Training

    Dad during his military service.
    Dad during his military service.

    “After 30 years in Oregon, I returned to care for my father and mother, who were getting very forgetful and hard to manage, and still working in their 80s. I really felt it was my destiny, but I didn’t know the daily struggles associated with dementia — repetitive questions and actions. Coping is even harder when the communication bridge is hampered by deafness. Dementia is different in every patient — my Dad was hyperactive and bent on running away. He could not be left alone for even a short while. It was like keeping track of a toddler who ran around all day — and then he got up at night and would go outside. “Mom suffers dementia, too, but she is not very mobile. She is very hard of hearing and just starting to get up at night.

    “My mom still goes to the grocery store every day to ‘help out.’ It’s her social life and she enjoys talking to all the customers. They all make a fuss over her, too. She cannot always hear what they are saying, but the interaction brightens her spirit. When Dad was alive, I had to take him along on every errand. It was easier and safer to leave him in the car when I dropped off a bill or went into the store to get Mom. Once in a while, he would figure out how to open the car door and run away. Lucky that Moloka‘i is a small, caring place. Most everyone knew Dad, and they would call my brother at the store if they saw him out on his own. But there is a flip side. I was accused of not taking good enough care of him, too. That hurt.

    “In the beginning, no other family members offered to help me and I felt too guilty to ask my brother, who is so overloaded with the store. Adult daycare is minimal on Moloka‘i, and services for dementia patients is nil, so I just managed everything on my own. After many months of sleep deprivation, I realized that my own health was in jeopardy. I did my best, but it was not working.

    Mrs. Misaki enjoys still being able to help in the store with Lorri’s brothers, Gil and Kevin.
    Mrs. Misaki enjoys still being able to help in the store with Lorri’s brothers, Gil and Kevin.

    “Finally, my older brother, Kevin, woke up to my situation. It often takes a bad situation to create a better one. In the few hours he could spare from work, Kevin came by and cared for our dad’s needs: cook his meals and feed him. Later in the evening he returned to carry dad to bed, because I had developed back problems lifting dad on my own. Kevin did this almost every day, and he also found a day shift caregiver for five days a week.

    “This caregiver was a gem! He was a great companion for Dad, and became a friend for me in those days when I had no social life. I was now able to clean the house more thoroughly, finish projects, care of my own needs and even go to the beach without worrying about my parents. But Dad got worse and became bedridden. He needed to be cleaned and turned every two hours and I became sleep deprived again.

    “When our caregiver had to attend to his own family, I gave Dad 24/7-care for over a month — however, I did have help two nights a week. I continued to search for more night shift help through a service provider, but was unsuccessful. After further searching, I found a CNA through the ‘coconut wireless,’ who would work the night shift. Ahh … finally … sleep!

    Slowly Passing Away

    “Alzheimer’s disease hurts everyone. The person I cared for was not really my joyful Dad anymore. He spoke little and swore when he didn’t like something. He hallucinated things that were not there. Medications affect every patient differently. We finally found one that made him stop hallucinating. Over time, his kidneys began to shut down and he died in the hospital — but I had already lost my Dad long before.

    Mike and Diana Misaki in their healthy years.
    Mike and Diana Misaki in their healthy years.

    “Dad passed last July, and I totally miss him. Taking care of him was one of the hardest things I ever did because I loved him so much. I am very glad that I came home to care for him.

    “Now it is easier just taking care of Mom. I have a caregiver one day a week so I have a full day to myself. I tell you that day is the greatest gift. I have learned a lot along the way. When I was in high school, I wanted my grandmother to live with us, but my mom didn’t want to do it. Now I understand why. My mom is 88 and her mother lived to be 101. I hate to say it, but I don’t think I can be a caregiver that long. Moloka‘i does not have a nursing home, so we are being creative and looking at care facilities on other islands.

    Choosing a Caregiver

    “Another concern is how my mom responds to my care. Growing up, my temperament was so different from my mom’s. She seems to relate better to my brothers. I chose to be her caregiver, but I think if it were up to her, she would want my oldest brother to care for her — she always listens to him. My mom is grateful for what I do, but in the old school, I am the youngest child and a girl. I love my mom, but really think caregiving works better if the patient chooses which caregiver they want. This person is your parent, but to accomplish what you must do and not react emotionally, you have to treat them as a patient. Sometimes what’s best for the patient is beyond your capabilities.

    Lorri Recommends

    “Actually being creative and finding your own solutions for your specific problems is such a big part of the caregiving job — because patients and situations are constantly changing. My advice to other caregivers is to balance your own health and the well being of your loved one. You don’t want to take your parent to a medical appointment and have the doctor admit you to the hospital! Above all, find a place where you can have time to unwind and get centered.”

    THE SILVER TSUNAMI

    The sandwich generation are the baby boomers who face the challenges of supporting their college-age children and elderly parents at the same time. Taking on family leadership in midlife is nothing new — Every generation takes its turn. What draws our attention to boomers are their enormous numbers — now 76.4 million in the U.S.

    According to the latest U.S. Census Report, 76.4 million baby boomers born between 1946 and 1964 began turning 65 in 2011. As they continue to become seniors, the “65-and-older” segment of the U.S. population will slowly swell to 20 percent by 2029.

    Census data also shows that 18 percent of America’s families are comprised of three to four generations. The number has doubled since 1980 because 24- to 35-year-old adult children are living with their parents. The greatest increase was during the great recession of 2007–08, but the upward trend continues.

    Sandwiched baby boomers will face steep financial challenges twice in their lives: caregiving their family, and caring for themselves in old age:

    The Cost of Long-term Care in Hawai‘i

    Adult Daycare (5 days/week) $ 18K

    Homemaker Services (5 days/week) $ 49K

    Home Health Aids (5 days/week) $ 52K

    Assisted Living $ 50K

    Nursing Home: semi-private $ 128K

    private $ 145K

    Source: AARP 2011 Survey

    The Cost of Higher Education

    Private College Annual Tuition $ 31K

    Public Universities Annual Tuition:

    In-state students $ 9K

    Out-of-state students $ 23K

    Source: 2014 College Handbook

      Baby Boomers who have built successful careers and investments for the future are now experiencing the physical, emotional and financial outcomes of caring for their aging parents, while they meet the expense of college or support for adult children who choose to live at home. Boomers who did not plan ahead or who lost…

  • Disaster. Red Cross. You. Coralie Matayoshi wants to insure PREPAREDNESS… with the help of volunteers.

    Disaster. Red Cross. You. Coralie Matayoshi wants to insure PREPAREDNESS… with the help of volunteers.

     

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    Red Cross volunteers (l–r): Sai Ching, Ruth Takanishi & Kenneth Aoki

    The face of the Hawaii Red Cross is its CEO, Coralie Chun Matayoshi. Like Red Cross founder, Clara Barton, Coralie can’t do everything by herself. She must inspire and lead thousands of volunteers to deliver humanitarian aid to all of us—whenever disaster strikes.

    Generations Magazine - Disaster. Red Cross. You. - Image 01At the same time that police and fire first responders are called to the scene of a disaster, Red Cross disaster relief volunteers are deployed to assess damage, counsel victims, administer immediate aid and start planning longer-term assistance. Volunteers on Red Cross Disaster Action Teams are on duty 24/7 and average one response every four days. This is humanitarianism at its best: orderly aid, comfort and logistics delivered to disaster victims, behind the scenes. Volunteers are ordinary citizens, just like you and me —with a will to help and skills learned at Red Cross. Most people have no idea how many services Hawaii Red Cross provides to our communities. Veterans and families of active military know Red Cross volunteers who aid service members at Tripler, Schofield, Pearl Harbor and Kaneohe. Some deployed soldiers have even had the Red Cross track them down in the field to deliver news of a family emergency at home — or arrange to get them home for a funeral. Lifeguards and moms may not know about how Red Cross helps our military personnel, but they do know about Red Cross swim instruction classes and certification programs. Business owners send their employees to Red Cross first aid and CPR training. Puna residents affected by Hurricane Iselle received aid. Recently, Red Cross volunteers had a shelter on standby for residents needing to evacuate their homes due to the threat of the Puna lava flow. In fact, at every flash flood, tsunami, earthquake, or house fire across our state, Red Cross volunteers are providing disaster relief to people in need. Every day, they are prepared to scale up and to deliver the amount and kind of aid required — exactly when it is needed. Volunteers from Hawai‘i deploy to other states — Hurricane Sandy in New Jersey, Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans . It’s how they train for large disasters at home. When Hawai‘i gets hit, American Red Cross volunteers from the mainland will deploy here to help us.

    The American Red Cross Mission Statement:

    To prevent and alleviate human suffering in the face of emergencies, by mobilizing the power of volunteers and the generosity of donors.

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    The American Red Cross Mission Statement: To prevent and alleviate human suffering in the face of emergencies, by mobilizing the power of volunteers and the generosity of donors.

    At the head of this volunteer humanitarian organization is a woman with a heart for people. Nearly twelve years ago, Coralie Matayoshi and her husband moved back to Hawai‘i from Washington, DC, where Coralie was engaged in antitrust litigation at the U.S. Department of Justice. “I wanted to raise my children in Hawai‘i, but I never thought I would end up at Red Cross.” She went into a law practice in Honolulu, and served as the Executive Director of the Hawaii State Bar Association for 13 years. Later, in 2004, when the Red Cross CEO position came up, she put all that aside to follow a deep concern for people in need. “… It was their mission that got my attention,” she says, with a smile.

     

     

    A WAY OF BEING

    What drew this highly skilled attorney away from the law? Was it something inside Coralie — a deep yearning that desired a bigger reward than stature and big money?

    At the core of all humanitarian organizations is something called altruism, defined as: “unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others.” Even if you never heard this word before, you may recognize the feeling — a desire to help others that goes beyond family ties and friendships — an inborn will to help anyone in need.” It is the stuff that drives career firefighters, police, EMTs, lifeguards, nurses and ER physicians. It causes strangers to jump into the sea to help a drowning person. Although the law helps people, Coralie saw in Red Cross a direct way to help thousands of people in need and to lead an organization of like-minded humanitarians. At Red Cross, nobody actually talks about this — they all get it. That’s because they are a band of altruistic people.

    Generations Magazine - Disaster. Red Cross. You. - Image 04When Coralie talks about her volunteers, she smiles. She shares their unique motivation and understands how volunteers “designate themselves to the job,” as she says. People who call to inquire or walk in to sign up at Red Cross really want to help people. They are responding to their altruistic feelings, and Coralie says her job is to find them the right job for their skills or to teach them new skills so they can effectively provide humanitarian aid. Some will become case workers. Others will become instructors who teach the public to save themselves in future disasters. We decided to let Coralie tell you first hand what Red Cross does, and to take a look at the many volunteer training opportunities at Red Cross.

    GM: What do you want our readers to know about Red Cross?

    CM: “Most people only know a little of what Red Cross does. Besides having volunteers on call 24/7 to respond to disasters like home fires, we train the public for disaster preparedness. We manage evacuation shelters and provide services such as bulk distribution of first aid supplies, water and food. We provide meal service to those in need during the aftermath of major disasters. These are big operations, and our many volunteers must be trained in advance. We also train the public in first aid and cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR). We teach swimming, and certify swimming instructors. Although we are not part of the military, we provide humanitarian aid to military families and patients at military hospitals, like Tripler Army Medical Center. Our volunteers deliver more disaster mental health counseling than any other organization. We are mental health counseling experts.

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    In addition to big disasters throughout Hawaii, on-call Red Cross Disaster Action Teams assist 90 O‘ahu families every year.
    GM: So Red Cross needs a lot of volunteers?

    CM: “Hawai‘i is the most isolated population on the face of the Earth,” says Matayoshi. “My goal is to increase our volunteer base, so we are prepared for epidemics, large storms and tsunami that can strike statewide. We have been fortunate in recent years that tsunami did not hit Hawai‘i directly, but it is just a matter of time. We have many jobs, and volunteers can pick what they feel most motivated to assist in. If they want to learn new skills, we can train them. Many of our volunteers are retired, so their schedules easily accommodate training programs and round-the-clock duty shifts as caseworkers, drivers, damage assessors, team leaders or telephone dispatchers in big disasters. I think it’s important for your readers to know that we do not receive any federal or state funding for disaster operations. We ask for donations from the community — like every other non-profit. We also leverage donor dollars wisely through the work of our dedicated volunteers.

    Generations Magazine - Disaster. Red Cross. You. - Image 06GM: What is involved in managing a disaster shelter?

    CM: During Iselle, 32 evacuation shelters housed 2,041 people in one night. In the aftermath, two hundred Red Cross workers (188 volunteers) provided meals, cots, shower facilities and cell phone charging stations to displaced Puna residents. They distributed comfort kits, cleanup kits, coolers of ice, flashlights, trash bags, tarps and batteries to those in need. Damage to homes was assessed and those who could not return home received help to find alternative housing after the storm. Volunteer nurses did health assessments and trained mental health workers provided crisis counseling for 950 persons during the nine days that shelters were open.

    Generations Magazine - Disaster. Red Cross. You. - Image 07GM: You said “home fires.” How do you aid victims of a home fire?

    CM: Our disaster team recently followed the fire department into a home that had burned to the ground. Red Cross caseworkers are trained to assess damage to help victims communicate with their insurance carrier. They also help arrange temporary housing, food and clothing. Red Cross volunteers are trained to expertly assist victims of disasters to think through the next steps for them and their family, to provide comfort and to connect families to other agencies who can provide long-term aid. After the fire trucks left, the victims were not alone. Red Cross was there.

     

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    The Red Cross offers instructor-led programs for children, adults, businesses and our community organizations. To schedule a class, you may reach them at the number listed at the end of this article.
    GM: We understand that Red Cross manages the volunteer program at Tripler Army Medical Center.

    CM: Red Cross volunteers work in 46 different departments and wards at Tripler. Some are professional volunteer nurses, doctors, pharmacists and office workers. Some even bring their pet “therapy dogs” to visit patients and service members. Red Cross hospital volunteers are bringing comfort and aid to patients and their families every day. Together with volunteers at Schofield, Pearl Harbor, and Kaneohe, Red Cross volunteers donate 35,000 hours per year.

    GM: Is community disaster preparedness a big part of your operation?

    CM: Every year Red Cross teaches 20,000 people courses in first aid, nurse aid, family caregiving, babysitting, water safety, lifeguard and pet first aid training. Now many of these lifesaving tips are available as apps for your smart phone, so that your first aid or CPR facts are a touch away all times.

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    At the core of all humanitarian organizations is something called altruism, defined as: “unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others.”
    GM: Tell us more about Disaster Mental Health Counseling.

    CM: For almost every major disaster in Hawai‘i, Red Cross volunteers have been counseling families who have lost loved ones, helping people deal with trauma, fear, anger and melancholy so they can then move on with their lives. At Pearl Harbor, Hilo tsunami, New Year’s and Manoa floods, Sacred Falls landslide, Ehime Maru, Hawai‘i Island earthquake, Kaloko dam burst — Red Cross was there. Hawaii Red Cross volunteers were in American Samoa, traveling from village to village, helping survivors of the 2009 tsunami. I was deployed to New Orleans in 2005 for Hurricane Katrina. Deploying our volunteers brings back priceless experience and training that one day will help us right here in Hawai‘i.

    BECOMING A RED CROSS VOLUNTEER

    Generations Magazine - Disaster. Red Cross. You. - Image 10Do you have what it takes? This interview gave us a very different view of the American Red Cross in Hawai‘i. The message is pretty clear: we need to prepare for disasters. When trouble hits, trained volunteers have to swing into action to help the victims. If this story speaks to you — you may have the heart of a Red Cross volunteer. Or maybe now you understand the benefits of investing in the future of Red Cross. When we help Red Cross Hawaii meet their mission, we help ourselves and our families.


    To donate or for more information on volunteer opportunities, visit their website or visit their Headquarters in Diamond Head.

    Hawaii Red Cross
    4155 Diamond Head Road, Honolulu
    808-734-2101 | www.redcross.org/hawaii

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      The face of the Hawaii Red Cross is its CEO, Coralie Chun Matayoshi. Like Red Cross founder, Clara Barton, Coralie can’t do everything by herself. She must inspire and lead thousands of volunteers to deliver humanitarian aid to all of us—whenever disaster strikes. At the same time that police and fire first responders are…

  • Dr. Joe W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown: Wishing Progress in 2015

    Dr. Joe W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown: Wishing Progress in 2015

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    Dr. Joseph W. C. Young and his wife, Barbara frequent Kekaulike Mall in Chinatown to enjoy the morning bustle and shop for fresh produce. Seniors recognize “Dr. Joe” as he is endearingly called, and stop to share a New Year wish —“Gong hey fat choy.”

    Behind the ornate gates of Chinatown on South King and River Streets, fruit stand merchants, restaurants, art galleries, importers and cultural organizations are ready for Chinese New Year. Shops offer tantalizing specialty foods for the holiday. Chinese calligraphy wall hangings, lanterns and T-shirts call out wishes for good health, prosperity and happiness. Dr. Joseph W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown, invites everyone to come and join the fun.

    “So lucky that we live in Hawai‘i and get to celebrate New Year twice!” says Dr. Joe Young. On Feb. 13 and 14, fireworks, lion dancing, cultural performances and a huge parade will usher in the “Year of the Sheep” 

    As a part of Honolulu’s downtown economy, Chinatown has overcome many challenges. Chinatown’s Mayor is a liaison to City and County programs and services. We were humbled to spend time with him and learn about his early life, his road to a successful career, his vision for Chinatown’s future and his 26 years of service to the Chinatown community.

    The Social Structure of Chinatown is Language Dr. Joe’s family came from Lung Doo  in Zhongshan city of Guandong Province ( 廣東 省中山市 ), China, where Sun Yat-sen was born. Joe’s father sustained his family by farming mullet in Kuapa fishpond at Hawai’i Kai. To prosper, he learned fluent Hawaiian. “My father told me that to be successful, I must learn to communicate —so that’s what I did, ”aid Dr. Joe. It paid off for both father and son.

    Generations Magazine- Dr. Joe W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown- Image 03Language has shaped Honolulu’s Chinese community for almost two centuries. Dr. Joe explained that Chinese has thousands of “dialects.” Chinese written characters are universal, but the words associated with them are unique to each community. In English, “accents” don’t interfere with understanding, but Chinese dialects differ so much that people from one village cannot understand their neighbors across the river or over the mountain. It’s not surprising that people of one dialect stick together, and that China’s government teaches Mandarin dialect to all school children to unite their country.

    Generations Magazine- Dr. Joe W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown- Image 04As far back as 1810, a few Chinese came to Hawai‘i from Zhongshan (near Hong Kong and Macao). Later, in the 1850s large numbers of Cantonese immigrated to work the sugar plantations. People from the See-Yup district ended up in San Francisco and New York, where their own dialects became established. Today, Chinese from Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia speak their own dialects, and socialize in their own clubs in Chinatown. In addition to these language groups, 100 societies also form around interests like commerce, lion dancing, exercise and religion. Building a lar
    ge community always requires
    bringing people together — Dr. Joe’s success is his ability to overcome Chinese language barriers.

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    Meet Dr. Joseph Young, Mayor of Chinatown

    GM: Dr. Joe, Mayor Kirk Caldwell appointed you “Mayor of Chinatown.” What does that mean?

    JY: Well, it is an honorary role, like a diplomat or Miss America,” Dr. Joe says with a grin. “My first duty is public relations — to keep Chinatown in the public eye. But more than that, I help Mayor Caldwell and the City Council communicate with our 100 cultural, community organizations. We are very social, and families are large. Some community issues are very big — solutions require all of us to get together and decide what is best. When the city or county needs our help on a project, my job is to get people communicating. Right now we are working with the Mayor on finding options for the homeless, and supporting Chinatown merchants.

    GM: Chinatown looks a lot cleaner in the past few years. It is a safe place?

    The appeal of Chinatown is quaint small shops with friendly merchants — selling everything from fine art and exotic delicacies to fresh seafood and local produce. Into the bargain, shoppers and visitors experience Chinese cultural traditions preserved in Honolulu for 200 years.

    JY: I’m glad you noticed our new buildings and sidewalks. We have a lot of foot traffic in our small business district, and with the help of the City of Honolulu, we have been able to clean up it up. People can see and smell the difference. Chinatown is safe, day and night. We want people to know that we are a safe neighborhood.

    GM: What can people expect at Chinese New Year?

    JY: February 19th is Chinese New Year — the year of the sheep on our lunar calendar. The City and
    County of Honolulu and United Chinese Society have been celebrating with cultural performances. The Chinese Chamber of Commerce and the City and County present a Chinatown open house Friday night, Feb. 13, and people will visit their societies and wish everyone good luck. On Saturday, Feb. 14, a big Parade with over 90 marching units starts in the afternoon. Maunakea Street will be closed from King Street, makai to Beretania Street. Vendors will set up booths on both sides of the street. Our County Council dignitaries, Mayor Caldwell and the 2015 Narcissus and Miss Chinatown Queens and their courts will be there with many traditional lion dancers  . Everybody come. (Click here to see a list of New Year events)

    GM: Isn’t food a big part of Chinese New Year?

    JY: Of course! Well known treats are Jin Dui  sweet rice balls stuffed with sweet bean, meat or lotus paste and deep-fried. Everyone makes their own versions. My family loves Nien Gao  , rice pudding with a red Chinese date on the top, and Pak Tong Koh , candied fruit and vegetables. On New Year’s Day, my wife serves Jai  , savory vegetables and rice — called Generations Magazine- Dr. Joe W.C. Young, Mayor of Chinatown- Image 10‘monk food;’ children serve their parents tea, and parents give their children red paper envelopes, called Licee  with money inside. Kids love New Years.

    GM: Chinatown seems to be a great place to shop for fresh produce.

    JY: Yes. You can find delicacies like Peking duck,pastries, sweets, flowers, fresh seafood, plenty bananas, and citrus fruits like tangerines. Food shopping is a social event. If you live in Chinatown or nearby, you see the same faces every day, and hear good conversation too. We buy a little at a time and enjoy the walking and talking. Most of the fresh produce is from local farms. My family farmed fish in Kuapa Pond and sold to shops up here

    GM: Tell us more about your youth. How did you get to be a dentist?

    JY: My uncle sent me to St Louis School. I was 16 when Pearl Harbor was bombed. Hysteria broke out. Soldiers came to the fishpond looking for spies — thinking we were Japanese. They barb wired the beaches, so our farmed fish nearly double in price. I quit school and went to work as an airplane mechanic’s apprentice at Hickam Air Force Base. Later I joined the Army Air Corps and served in the Philippines. After the war I passed my GED and entered University of Hawai‘i at Manoa. Later transferred to Washington University in Missouri, because they had a good school of dentistry. In 1955 I came home to set up a practice, and met and married Barbara Chun. She went to Syracuse University and completed her bachelors in education at the UH.

    How did I get into dentistry? My college counselor tested my aptitudes. I wanted to be a lawyer but he said I would be better in biology — perhaps dentistry. He was right. I was good working with my hands and I did pretty well at dentistry.

    GM: When did you retire?

    JY: I’m 89 years old. I retired in 1994. My two sons, Emory and Collyer studied dentistry and took over my practice on Waialae Avenue. I also have two daughters — Haven is a teacher, and Shelby a veterinarian. For 26 years now Barbara and I spend our time giving back to the community. We have a Chinese adage that says, “When you drink water, remember the source.”

    When you receive something valuable, give back. You know I also studied sociology in college — I always had that drive to help people. Dentistry helps people too.

    Some of Dr. Young’s Accolades:

    •  United Chinese Society Model Chinese Father of the Year, 1998
    • United Chinese Society Chinese Citizen of the Year, 2004
    •  Distinguished Alumnus of the Year, Washington University Dental Alumni Association, 1999
    • Chinese Chamber of Commerce of Hawaii Outstanding Narcissus Volunteer, 2008
    • Organization of Chinese Americans, Hawaii Chapter, Unsung Hero Award, 2008

    Some of Dr. Joe’s Favorite Projects:

    Honolulu City and County Planning and Permitting Commission, Honolulu Fire Department Commission, Vision Team Project, Chinatown, Mayor’s Downtown/Chinatown Task Force, Chinatown Cleanup Effort, Sound Translation in Chinese, Committee member for design of Chinatown Gates, Street Signage Project, Smith and Nu‘uanu Street Sidewalk Vision Team Project, Palolo Chinese Home, Heritage Capital Fund Drive, Sun Ming Ting Village Elementary School Building Project, Chinatown Pedestrian Safety Project, Chung Shan Language School.

    GM: What’s in the Future for Chinatown?

    JY: The City Council applied Bill #48 “sit and lie law” to Chinatown in December. Our sidewalks are narrow. One person sitting on the curb disturbs foot traffic that our shop owners rely on for their livelihood. Enforcing the ordinance is a perfect example of how city and community work together. Shopkeepers and shoppers are pleased with the improvement.

    The Mayor wants to help our community to grow. The Honolulu Rail Transit Project includes a Chinatown Station at the corner of Kekaulike Street and Nimitz Highway. We have a new Chinese Marketplace just two blocks away on Kekaulike. When the train begins running, we expect more foot traffic.

    We are a community of different philosophies and backgrounds. New and different ideas are good. We want to be the best Chinatown we can. We started with safety and cleanliness. As honorary Mayor, I keep us communicating so Mayor Caldwell and the County Council can continue to help us. Then everyone prospers.

    On behalf of my family and the community of Chinatown, I wish everyone Gong Hey Fat Choy  ! Welcome the New Year! Come and celebrate with us!

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      Behind the ornate gates of Chinatown on South King and River Streets, fruit stand merchants, restaurants, art galleries, importers and cultural organizations are ready for Chinese New Year. Shops offer tantalizing specialty foods for the holiday. Chinese calligraphy wall hangings, lanterns and T-shirts call out wishes for good health, prosperity and happiness. Dr. Joseph W.C.…